Topic: Why is it so hard to find a nice, genuine guy?
Gossipmpm's photo
Tue 10/01/13 10:59 AM
its really not hard at all...ya just gotta have the intuition in place to know the real from the fake...that takes time

now...for me it is really easy to see when someone is just not real

but to tell the truth...most of those i met were real!:heart:

jomatthomas's photo
Tue 10/01/13 11:14 AM
you cant find them?????becuase you search for a real man .the perfect man do not ask dating he ask this.''do you marry me''.your life dipend on your answer.and onething never go wrong .,'!!!!!

Wonderben's photo
Tue 10/01/13 11:46 AM
Edited by Wonderben on Tue 10/01/13 11:56 AM
God took His time in creating us, so why should we be in a hurry over the thjngs that are so important in our lives. A good relationship takes time to build, first it starts by being friends. While you're friends, pls, be very cautious, as in, check all that comes out of his mouth as you chat along and try to compare his previous words with the present to see if it fits. Do not allow anything he says take you off guard. Though, most of us are very very crafty but we slip some times, especially, when we've spent enough time to forget the things we've said earlier. Just keep your eyes and ears wide open. A good date makes a good mate but you have to be a good person yourself.

msmyka's photo
Tue 10/01/13 11:50 AM
Probably because you already have it set in your head that they are hard to find. There are plenty out there if you can accept they exist.

hottiejohn2nice's photo
Tue 10/01/13 01:40 PM
Be patience and be cool,moreover just place that believe that you gonna get one

no photo
Tue 10/01/13 02:33 PM
:laughing:
I don't expect to find a soul mate or the one on here
So IF i were here in a few YEARS time
It will be because i like to hang out and BS with friends
I am not some commodity on display anyway...


asleep

indianadave4's photo
Tue 10/01/13 08:52 PM

I've been on this site on and off for a few years now and i'm yet to meet someone genuine. So why does it have to be so hard? Has anyone had any luck on here? Wanna share stories or tips?


I haven't checked your profile to see your age but you seem young: at least to me. You would do much better in real life. Unfortunately there are to many guys looking for a quick bedroom experience on online dating sites. They don't want to put a whole lot of time and energy in to get what they want.

Sorry if this ruins your day.

no photo
Tue 10/01/13 09:02 PM
Because you are looking. Stop looking and it will happen

molly13x's photo
Tue 10/01/13 09:47 PM
Edited by molly13x on Tue 10/01/13 09:48 PM
Because all the good men are either gay or taken OR friend zoned like a mother ****er maaan

jingzter27's photo
Tue 10/01/13 10:18 PM
Your right!!!! :smile:

shegoat's photo
Tue 10/01/13 11:07 PM


I've been on this site on and off for a few years now and i'm yet to meet someone genuine. So why does it have to be so hard? Has anyone had any luck on here? Wanna share stories or tips?



Hi! Based on my experience, Ive been here since January.. A lot of guys messages.. nudges.. etc.. But theres this guy I met February, whom I felt easy to talk with.. His first message started it all.And we were able to know more about each other as days, weeks and months passed by.. After being separated for two years.. This was the time I felt my heart beat again.. I can feel he made me very special and important.. I felt love again..
It was on the third month I found out he lied a lot of things to me.. I was hurt.. really hurt.. I cried.. I got a lot of sleepless nights.. I was on my having my decision of listening to him, and weighed things out.. And give him another chance.. And I did give him another chance.. In a long distance relationship like ours.. sometimes misunderstanding really happens, but that depends on how you resolve it.. Now, we are on another trial again.. Im taking it positively now. Coz it might be on a purpose of making us or breaking us.. But we are still holding on with each other.. I cant say that ours was a "real successful one" coz we havent proved it yet.. But if you are destined with each other.. FAte will take its course.. Its all on "DESTINY".. and the two of you work it out..
Maybe on a ratio of 20, there's 2 real guy .. Goodluck :)
:thumbsup:

isaac_dede's photo
Tue 10/01/13 11:54 PM
Do you have any guy friends? Possibly start there, the problem isn't with nice guys existing they do, the problem is that many women fail to recognize their existence

Jtevans's photo
Tue 10/01/13 11:58 PM

Do you have any guy friends? Possibly start there, the problem isn't with nice guys existing they do, the problem is that many women fail to recognize their existence



problem is,the guys just about all girls say they want,end up in the "friend zone"

no photo
Wed 10/02/13 01:47 AM
r u from Kolkata?

MrAllnighter1's photo
Wed 10/02/13 10:26 AM
Relax plz dont worry be happy. U r beautiful,u Live in Cali,and as Long as u aint dating,u aint being hurt needlessly. 760-622-0848 Jimmy plz call and lets get u smiling

mightymoe's photo
Wed 10/02/13 10:49 AM

Because all the good men are either gay or taken OR friend zoned like a mother ****er maaan


define "good"... ALL the good men are taken or gay? did you ever think it's more of your attitude than lack of good guys?

Toodygirl5's photo
Wed 10/02/13 12:08 PM
Mingle is more of a social network for friends. I had met two guys here but they left off after short time.:tongue:

lonelyman3036's photo
Wed 10/02/13 12:18 PM
I've met a gal that I really like and I think she really likes me. The conversation has been great so far. I just purchased airline tickets this morning and we will finally meet in December!
Don't give up.
Do not give up.

KinBarrie's photo
Wed 10/02/13 12:21 PM

Does that kind of people exist in the real world. ..
if they do..I think they are taken.


Oh, a lot of them are taken. In fact, I'll bet it's mostly
attached men going to hookers and so forth. A lot of single
men are either too shy or their morals are stronger. There
are always exceptions to the rule however.

There are real, genuine guys out there. The men you'd
dated obviously weren't. Keep searching and I'm sure
you'll find what you are looking for.happy flowerforyou

wylieg's photo
Thu 10/03/13 06:52 AM
There are I'm sure alot of nice guys,,, me being one of them, but you know the saying nice guys finish last, I'mstarting to believe this, ugghhh, I do all the things, women say they want, being spontaneous, holding hands going for walks, cooking together, I'm also beginning to think its more looks than anything....I hope I'm mistaken, and I find on great gal on here