Those ladies sure know how to catch a guy's eye.

Simply, if you dont get crowd of men attracted to you!, it means ; NZ MEN ARE ,,,,,,BLIND
You are super hot darling, donot even doubt it

She's in Holland I think. I have no idea how many Dutch men there are on here but the way that profile searching works on here most of us aren't even going to know that she's on the site. I wouldn't if she wasn't posting on the forums and most people don't go on the forums.

I check out many profiles and most are not even active.

I do look for women in that age range and find that some are more sexually mature while others are not. I have dated two women since my divorce in 2011. One was 45 and she definitely was mature sexually but not mentally. The second was a 43 year old and she was mature mentally but kind of a prude sexually.
It is hard just to find someone you are compatible with. A lot of people paint a picture of who they are but that is not the case most of the time and my gosh what they want is unattainable LOL just my two cents

If women can be picky when it comes to dating, then why can't men?

I would be overjoyed if a single woman in the 45-50 age range in my state took an interest in me.

for me its children as im 44 an have done my share of diaper changes an bottle feedings not sure id want to go back to it .also alot of females i find are very set in a rut so to speak an want you to lay in it with them or have very strict living rules which im not sure id like either yes some rules are good but being able to live an not stress because of the holier than though or the full blown addict always reminds me why i stay single an the women who want to move in instantly or committ the minute you date .i like to take time to learn them an have fun before committing to any long term desicion its funner an more relaxed.
just my two cents

I am 48, so here goes. We or a least I have no problem dating a woman near, or my age. Problem is, most women of this age seem to want a younger man and 99% is for sex. My ex went thru the change and went for a younger man because it made her feel younger and more sexual. But I had no problem nor do I in that department, it was her, not me that ended the 17 year marriage for sex.

But I find most women in this age do have sexual hangups. What is the first thing you see on sites like this from women? "Not looking for sex, etc". What do I see from the younger women? "I want passion, intimacy,etc". So most of us have a hard time finding a suitable mate. It is very hard for both sexes, but for men it is ten times worst and at our age, being rejected takes a toll where we just kinda give up and pursue other interest or activities.

This has been mentioned before and I do think this is one of the big reasons why few men are interested in women their own age. Indeed women usually mature earlier in life, at any age. Just compare the average 14, 22, 30 40 year old woman and the average male in the same age group. There's a reason why girls/women usually have a relationship with a man some 2-5 yrs older. Even 15 year old girls don't want to get involved with a youngster their age, as they're still like kids. They go for the 18-19 year old as they're at the same level of maturity. And I think this difference doesn't ever really level itself out throughout life.

The problem I got at my age (47) is that men some 5-7 years older often look as if the best part of their life has gone. You can see it in their eyes. Many of 'em look spent. I'm too full of life myself, I don't feel the best part is over. I need someone who's still got "joy de vivre". I'd like my partner to be my equal, not my coaching & counselling client.


Sounds like the kind of man I'm hoping to find.

an answer from the other side of the ocean ;-)

I am a german man in that age and I have two divorces behind me with women of my age. I do think, it is also a problem of all what some men do have seen in life. Oh, I do speak from real men. A lot of fakes and a lot of men do search for sex, thats a fact. And they do think, that younger women be better than older women (Thats wrong, but they do think so)
I am on a german swingerpage and there is the same problem too.
And in our culture it seems to be easier to have an older man and a younger woman as otherside an younger man and an older woman.

Having same age is the ideal way but very hard to find. We all do have lots of problems and wrong things in our life and our own look of how we do like to live. As much as we go older as much we are not ready to share or to change it all.

A deep lovely german greeting to all and... sorry for my mistakes in the english grammar ;-)

Josef

Yes, I think ppl can get more and more stuck in their ways, but I think it has more to do with the duration of being single and not so much age. The longer you have/can/get to do things your own way, the more difficult it becomes to change and adept to someone else's ways. So this is applicable to any age.
I haven't been on my own all that long and I'm quite flexible. But I can image that if I'd still be single ten years from now, I will be less flexible and less willing to change.

Nature and older ladies like u saw are at their peak and are up for energetic fun, but younger ladies like older men because they still petite eamd cant really handle, so young men give it all to the older hot experienced lad

i am an older lady and quite frankly its the younger guys who like me....

I find women my age LOOK way older than me :-)

Same here except the men my age (not all) look at least 15-20 years older than me.

Well, that's wonderful news to look forward to, haha.
Thank god that's more than a decade away still

I am 35 and I am attracted to men older than me, 42-45, its always been that way. I think men have their preference also, and most of it does not have to do with age. It depends on the person I guess :)

See, its the opposite for me. I don't like younger men, I like the stability and maturity of older men=] Again, I guess its preference=]

I understand where some of the women are coming from, when they mention not wanting to date younger men, because they don't want to "babysit". Lately, I've only been wanting to date older type's. I wouldn't mind being his sugar baby, but I wouldn't be after his money. For me it's just about having fun without any tension. I would really have to think about dating a younger one ever again.

Alright. I'm prepared to admit that I would date a woman like you if that makes you happy. Would it though?