I do look for women in that age range and find that some are more sexually mature while others are not. I have dated two women since my divorce in 2011. One was 45 and she definitely was mature sexually but not mentally. The second was a 43 year old and she was mature mentally but kind of a prude sexually.
It is hard just to find someone you are compatible with. A lot of people paint a picture of who they are but that is not the case most of the time and my gosh what they want is unattainable LOL just my two cents