an answer from the other side of the ocean ;-)

I am a german man in that age and I have two divorces behind me with women of my age. I do think, it is also a problem of all what some men do have seen in life. Oh, I do speak from real men. A lot of fakes and a lot of men do search for sex, thats a fact. And they do think, that younger women be better than older women (Thats wrong, but they do think so)
I am on a german swingerpage and there is the same problem too.
And in our culture it seems to be easier to have an older man and a younger woman as otherside an younger man and an older woman.

Having same age is the ideal way but very hard to find. We all do have lots of problems and wrong things in our life and our own look of how we do like to live. As much as we go older as much we are not ready to share or to change it all.

A deep lovely german greeting to all and... sorry for my mistakes in the english grammar ;-)

Josef