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I was dating a man for 9 months and our first date I took him to the park where the President came for a rally and I went. Talked about it while we walked the park and still had my Obama signs around the house when he came to visit. He was quiet about it so I assumed he was probably not a fan. Cool. As long as he dislikes him for legimate reasons I have no issue with it. If he believes he is a Muslim, Kenyan born, socialist, communist or trying to destroy the country from within however that would not be cool because those are the "excuses" used by white racists to hate the President.
Well long story short, we finally friend each other on facebook and guess what he posts? One of those lists from the white racists about the president. You know the one about his having applied for school as a foreign student and two social security numbers, etc.... I felt blindsided and terribly hurt. I posted the links in the comments section of the post to prove the inaccuracy of the post. I asked if he knew it wasn't true and he agreed some of it wasn't but he didn't care if it was true or not. Politics really didn't matter to him, he said. That is how the racists are, they do not care if it is true because they dislike him for not being white. He kept this to himself for 9+ months. 
Our chemistry was mind blowingly amazing and I think that is what kept me from communicating well enough with him to have discovered this sooner. And I had to put it to him bluntly because he didn't get it at first, just thought I was being petty. I told him "I don't share my body or life with those who do not like the president because he isn't white". He denied it but the proof is still there on his facebook page and he doesn't even have the one black friend he claims to have....which is what all the white racist say to console themselves. We are not seeing each other anymore... Lesson learned. I am being much more clear on my profiles now. Hoping not to have to go through this again. |
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Sorry that happen to you.
Many on the Political forums do not like Obama and run him down all time. So, best to ask up front if that is an issue or put it on your profile. |
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I was dating a man for 9 months and our first date I took him to the park where the President came for a rally and I went. Talked about it while we walked the park and still had my Obama signs around the house when he came to visit. He was quiet about it so I assumed he was probably not a fan. Cool. As long as he dislikes him for legimate reasons I have no issue with it. If he believes he is a Muslim, Kenyan born, socialist, communist or trying to destroy the country from within however that would not be cool because those are the "excuses" used by white racists to hate the President. Well long story short, we finally friend each other on facebook and guess what he posts? One of those lists from the white racists about the president. You know the one about his having applied for school as a foreign student and two social security numbers, etc.... I felt blindsided and terribly hurt. I posted the links in the comments section of the post to prove the inaccuracy of the post. I asked if he knew it wasn't true and he agreed some of it wasn't but he didn't care if it was true or not. Politics really didn't matter to him, he said. That is how the racists are, they do not care if it is true because they dislike him for not being white. He kept this to himself for 9+ months.
Our chemistry was mind blowingly amazing and I think that is what kept me from communicating well enough with him to have discovered this sooner. And I had to put it to him bluntly because he didn't get it at first, just thought I was being petty. I told him "I don't share my body or life with those who do not like the president because he isn't white". He denied it but the proof is still there on his facebook page and he doesn't even have the one black friend he claims to have....which is what all the white racist say to console themselves. We are not seeing each other anymore... Lesson learned. I am being much more clear on my profiles now. Hoping not to have to go through this again. Ah, accusing people of racism without actually citing any actual racists comments or acts. Go figure. |
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In 1967 I caused a ruckus in my high school by befriending black athletes who integrated our previouosly all-white school. Also, I spent a good deal of "personal" time with the sister of one of those black athletes, and that caused a furor...did I mention that was 1967, and did I mention it was in ALABAMA? It was, and that makes me quite certain I am not a racist, but I thoroughly and completely disapprove of barack obama. You may want to reevaluate yourself and make sure you don't just see "white racist" whenever someone doesn't share your admiration for Little Barry Soetoro. Remember, he is just as much WHITE as he is black. G.
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Obama sucks....get over it
lol 
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I was dating a man for 9 months and our first date I took him to the park where the President came for a rally and I went. Talked about it while we walked the park and still had my Obama signs around the house when he came to visit. He was quiet about it so I assumed he was probably not a fan. Cool. As long as he dislikes him for legimate reasons I have no issue with it. If he believes he is a Muslim, Kenyan born, socialist, communist or trying to destroy the country from within however that would not be cool because those are the "excuses" used by white racists to hate the President. Well long story short, we finally friend each other on facebook and guess what he posts? One of those lists from the white racists about the president. You know the one about his having applied for school as a foreign student and two social security numbers, etc.... I felt blindsided and terribly hurt. I posted the links in the comments section of the post to prove the inaccuracy of the post. I asked if he knew it wasn't true and he agreed some of it wasn't but he didn't care if it was true or not. Politics really didn't matter to him, he said. That is how the racists are, they do not care if it is true because they dislike him for not being white. He kept this to himself for 9+ months.
Our chemistry was mind blowingly amazing and I think that is what kept me from communicating well enough with him to have discovered this sooner. And I had to put it to him bluntly because he didn't get it at first, just thought I was being petty. I told him "I don't share my body or life with those who do not like the president because he isn't white". He denied it but the proof is still there on his facebook page and he doesn't even have the one black friend he claims to have....which is what all the white racist say to console themselves. We are not seeing each other anymore... Lesson learned. I am being much more clear on my profiles now. Hoping not to have to go through this again. Ah, accusing people of racism without actually citing any actual racists comments or acts. Go figure. What are you talking about? Do you think racists just call names? Silly man |
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Edited by
willowdraga
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Tue 09/17/13 01:19 PM
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White racists always claim to have black friends, like I said it is how they console themselves.
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Sorry that happen to you.
Many on the Political forums do not like Obama and run him down all time. So, best to ask up front if that is an issue or put it on your profile. Done and thanks |
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I was dating a man for 9 months and our first date I took him to the park where the President came for a rally and I went. Talked about it while we walked the park and still had my Obama signs around the house when he came to visit. He was quiet about it so I assumed he was probably not a fan. Cool. As long as he dislikes him for legimate reasons I have no issue with it. If he believes he is a Muslim, Kenyan born, socialist, communist or trying to destroy the country from within however that would not be cool because those are the "excuses" used by white racists to hate the President. Well long story short, we finally friend each other on facebook and guess what he posts? One of those lists from the white racists about the president. You know the one about his having applied for school as a foreign student and two social security numbers, etc.... I felt blindsided and terribly hurt. I posted the links in the comments section of the post to prove the inaccuracy of the post. I asked if he knew it wasn't true and he agreed some of it wasn't but he didn't care if it was true or not. Politics really didn't matter to him, he said. That is how the racists are, they do not care if it is true because they dislike him for not being white. He kept this to himself for 9+ months.
Our chemistry was mind blowingly amazing and I think that is what kept me from communicating well enough with him to have discovered this sooner. And I had to put it to him bluntly because he didn't get it at first, just thought I was being petty. I told him "I don't share my body or life with those who do not like the president because he isn't white". He denied it but the proof is still there on his facebook page and he doesn't even have the one black friend he claims to have....which is what all the white racist say to console themselves. We are not seeing each other anymore... Lesson learned. I am being much more clear on my profiles now. Hoping not to have to go through this again. Ah, accusing people of racism without actually citing any actual racists comments or acts. Go figure. What are you talking about? Do you think racists just call names? Silly man It is wrong to play the race card against people who haven't made any racist statements and who haven't done any racist acts. People are innocent of racism until proven guilty. Did you prove that the guy you dated is racist? No, you did not. |
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Very open-minded of you. G.
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White racists always claim to have black friends, like I said it is how they console themselves. Again, an accusation of racism without any evidence. |
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I was dating a man for 9 months and our first date I took him to the park where the President came for a rally and I went. Talked about it while we walked the park and still had my Obama signs around the house when he came to visit. He was quiet about it so I assumed he was probably not a fan. Cool. As long as he dislikes him for legimate reasons I have no issue with it. If he believes he is a Muslim, Kenyan born, socialist, communist or trying to destroy the country from within however that would not be cool because those are the "excuses" used by white racists to hate the President. Well long story short, we finally friend each other on facebook and guess what he posts? One of those lists from the white racists about the president. You know the one about his having applied for school as a foreign student and two social security numbers, etc.... I felt blindsided and terribly hurt. I posted the links in the comments section of the post to prove the inaccuracy of the post. I asked if he knew it wasn't true and he agreed some of it wasn't but he didn't care if it was true or not. Politics really didn't matter to him, he said. That is how the racists are, they do not care if it is true because they dislike him for not being white. He kept this to himself for 9+ months.
Our chemistry was mind blowingly amazing and I think that is what kept me from communicating well enough with him to have discovered this sooner. And I had to put it to him bluntly because he didn't get it at first, just thought I was being petty. I told him "I don't share my body or life with those who do not like the president because he isn't white". He denied it but the proof is still there on his facebook page and he doesn't even have the one black friend he claims to have....which is what all the white racist say to console themselves. We are not seeing each other anymore... Lesson learned. I am being much more clear on my profiles now. Hoping not to have to go through this again. Ah, accusing people of racism without actually citing any actual racists comments or acts. Go figure. What are you talking about? Do you think racists just call names? Silly man It is wrong to play the race card against people who haven't made any racist statements and who haven't done any racist acts. People are innocent of racism until proven guilty. Did you prove that the guy you dated is racist? No, you did not. Oh yes I did. He believe the president to be all of the things listed which are verifiably incorrect but he cares not. So RACIST He claims to be close to black people who are never around him, not friends on his facebook, not friends at home, etc.... So RACIST Yea that is pretty good proof, some racists are even better than that at keeping it hidden. |
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This reported "dating disaster" started out as a disaster when one party took another to listen to a speech by a politician. Such a thing is a set up for trouble if it is done on a first date.
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He is a white racist. Whether he knows it or not could be debated but I am not into changing people.
He had to go. |
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This reported "dating disaster" started out as a disaster when one party took another to listen to a speech by a politician. Such a thing is a set up for trouble if it is done on a first date. I guess you don't read well.... |
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Edited by
Dodo_David
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Tue 09/17/13 01:35 PM
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This reported "dating disaster" started out as a disaster when one party took another to listen to a speech by a politician. Such a thing is a set up for trouble if it is done on a first date. I guess you don't read well.... In the OP, you say that you took the guy to listen to President Obama during your first date. Was that a suitable thing to do during a first date? |
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This reported "dating disaster" started out as a disaster when one party took another to listen to a speech by a politician. Such a thing is a set up for trouble if it is done on a first date. I guess you don't read well.... In the OP, you say that you took the guy to listen to President Obama during your first date. Was that a suitable thing to do during a first date? I guess you don't read well eh? |
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White racists always claim to have black friends, like I said it is how they console themselves. White racists vote for black Presidents. It is how they console themselves. 
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White racists always claim to have black friends, like I said it is how they console themselves. White racists vote for black Presidents. It is how they console themselves.
Could have been a few of them too. |
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This reported "dating disaster" started out as a disaster when one party took another to listen to a speech by a politician. Such a thing is a set up for trouble if it is done on a first date. I guess you don't read well.... In the OP, you say that you took the guy to listen to President Obama during your first date. Was that a suitable thing to do during a first date? I guess you don't read well eh? Oh wait. I did NOT read that statement in the OP correctly. My mistake. Sorry. 
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