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| Topic: Well...it didn't work again....dating disaster... | |
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 gawd...Im going to take my redneck southeren bell azz home...my day seems to be getting worse and worse.
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Good news though.
With my little blurb at the beginning of my profiles about this very subject, I am getting good responses. We all have to learn and this was one of my learning experiences. |
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The whites in the south are so f ing racist and they have no clue they are. They were raised with it and are told it is the truth and they just go with it. There is no white to dispute it because they were all raised the same. lol quite the broad statement there, and in fact, you just generalized everyone in the south. kinda racist if you ask me, but you didnt, so forget it. You are right. It was a generalized statement of which I know there to be a few whites who became smarter than they were taught and outgrew the taught racism. So I concede that one. i was born & raised here and wasnt raised to be racist in any kinda way. my mother didnt teach me to be racist and im gonna go out on a limb here and say it was probably your ignorant logic and obsessive ramblings about politics that scared that dude off. I sent him away and we didn't talk politics that is how I didn't know all this time. And I know it is hard for white folks to hear but when you are white in a country created by white racists and white racist ruled since the beginning it is more likely you will be raised a racist than not. lol the 1950's called... they want their stereotypes back. |
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It comes down to when you are dealing with a white person who may not know they are racist, it makes things difficult.
He still doesn't have a clue I am sure because I am sure he can't see his own racism. He was raised to believe it wasn't racist. His friends tell him it isn't racist, they are all white of course. He doesn't know how not to be a white racist because that is all he knows. I don't dislike him but I just can't allow that in my life. |
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The whites in the south are so f ing racist and they have no clue they are. They were raised with it and are told it is the truth and they just go with it. There is no white to dispute it because they were all raised the same. lol quite the broad statement there, and in fact, you just generalized everyone in the south. kinda racist if you ask me, but you didnt, so forget it. You are right. It was a generalized statement of which I know there to be a few whites who became smarter than they were taught and outgrew the taught racism. So I concede that one. i was born & raised here and wasnt raised to be racist in any kinda way. my mother didnt teach me to be racist and im gonna go out on a limb here and say it was probably your ignorant logic and obsessive ramblings about politics that scared that dude off. I sent him away and we didn't talk politics that is how I didn't know all this time. And I know it is hard for white folks to hear but when you are white in a country created by white racists and white racist ruled since the beginning it is more likely you will be raised a racist than not. lol the 1950's called... they want their stereotypes back. Denial isn't healthy but it might be as blissful as ignorance is. |
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How can a white racist who doesn't know they are a racist cure themselves?
They won't because they don't know they are. |
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I sent him away and we didn't talk politics that is how I didn't know all this time. And I know it is hard for white folks to hear but when you are white in a country created by white racists and white racist ruled since the beginning it is more likely you will be raised a racist than not. There are so many things wrong with this statement there is not an encyclopedia large enough to handle it all. Furthermore, I am not sure you even know what a racist is the way you are hurling the word around. 
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I sent him away and we didn't talk politics that is how I didn't know all this time. And I know it is hard for white folks to hear but when you are white in a country created by white racists and white racist ruled since the beginning it is more likely you will be raised a racist than not. There are so many things wrong with this statement there is not an encyclopedia large enough to handle it all. Furthermore, I am not sure you even know what a racist is the way you are hurling the word around.
I know the truth is hard to get your head around sometimes but I know you can do it. |
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Like I said, I am getting good responses from the profiles now so I will get over it and I do wish him the best. Hopefully, he will find someone who is in the same racist boat and they can be racist together and accuse the president of being Muslim together and talking about him being Kenyan born together and how he is a socialist together and how he is trying to bring the country down together....
While I will have some dinners and dates with men I will now know will not believe that crap. It is bad enough I have to deal with the white racism elsewhere but I want my romantic relationship to be free of it. |
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It comes down to this. If your white friends and family tell you you are not racist and you have no other opinions to go on, you might be.
And this man was no dummy so he may realize my point, sometime if he ever takes the time to consider that I meant him no harm. If he ever looks into why I would say such a thing for real he may see. I can only hope. |
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Edited by
Traumer
on
Wed 09/18/13 07:34 PM
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White racists always claim to have black friends, like I said it is how they console themselves. Around 1962 I was hitch-hiking south from Wash. DC with a friend. One ride we got was outside Atlanta at dusk by a cabbie who was black. He asked if we would like to see some real southern history in the making. He drove to some mountain, just outside Atlanta. Lots of cars were there with lots of people, all going to a huge bonfire. It was a Klan Rally. He knew virtually all the men in white robs and they all greeted each other as old friends. As several of the Klan members told us, everyone was considered 'family' and it was the outsiders, especially the 'yankees' and the Feds with blacks from up north that they were against, not the blacks that they all grew up with and lived around. In all the time we hitched around the old South, we never once saw or heard any ill will expressed by southern whites to southern blacks by local folks; outsider whites from some other southern states, yes, but the locals soon convinced them to adopt a more 'positive attitude' to 'their black folks'.... That trip was an eye opener in many ways.... You obviously saw what you wanted to see there. The whites in the south are so f ing racist and they have no clue they are. They were raised with it and are told it is the truth and they just go with it. There is no white to dispute it because they were all raised the same. ???? I "saw what I wanted to see"???? Of course, as all 15 year olds. Madam, you remind me of the stereotypical Red fascist,(as opposed to those 'brown shirted' ones.) You disgust me. |
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White racists always claim to have black friends, like I said it is how they console themselves. Around 1962 I was hitch-hiking south from Wash. DC with a friend. One ride we got was outside Atlanta at dusk by a cabbie who was black. He asked if we would like to see some real southern history in the making. He drove to some mountain, just outside Atlanta. Lots of cars were there with lots of people, all going to a huge bonfire. It was a Klan Rally. He knew virtually all the men in white robs and they all greeted each other as old friends. As several of the Klan members told us, everyone was considered 'family' and it was the outsiders, especially the 'yankees' and the Feds with blacks from up north that they were against, not the blacks that they all grew up with and lived around. In all the time we hitched around the old South, we never once saw or heard any ill will expressed by southern whites to southern blacks by local folks; outsider whites from some other southern states, yes, but the locals soon convinced them to adopt a more 'positive attitude' to 'their black folks'.... That trip was an eye opener in many ways.... You obviously saw what you wanted to see there. The whites in the south are so f ing racist and they have no clue they are. They were raised with it and are told it is the truth and they just go with it. There is no white to dispute it because they were all raised the same. ???? I "saw what I wanted to see"???? Of course, as all 15 year olds. Madam, you remind me of the stereotypical Red fascist,(as opposed to those 'brown shirted' ones.) You disgust me. Good because if I pleased you I would be ashamed of myself. I already said that I was far too generalized with that statement. There are a few whites in the south who outgrow what they are taught as tradition but not enough by far. |
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OP,ever considered the possibility it might not be all THEM,but that you have a good part in those Fiascoes as well?
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Politics ends relationships quicker than divorce, I keep mine to myself...I have my ideas, you have your ideas.
Mine are just better. 
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I take people as I find them. Colour isn't an issue with me. The guy needs to grow up!
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I dated a racist once when I was younger. I felt bad for the girl since her family had basically brain washed her into hating black people. Maybe in 50 years they'll all be gone eh? People can be so dumb.
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It comes down to when you are dealing with a white person who may not know they are racist, it makes things difficult. It is also difficult to deal with someone who accuses people of racism without providing evidence of racism. Assuming what you have yet to prove is begging the question. |
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Politics ends relationships quicker than divorce, I keep mine to myself...I have my ideas, you have your ideas. Mine are just better.
Agreed |
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I dated a racist once when I was younger. I felt bad for the girl since her family had basically brain washed her into hating black people. Maybe in 50 years they'll all be gone eh? People can be so dumb. That I am sure is the situation here also. I do feel bad for him at that level. He is fifty and you know what they say about old dogs.... |
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It comes down to when you are dealing with a white person who may not know they are racist, it makes things difficult. It is also difficult to deal with someone who accuses people of racism without providing evidence of racism. Assuming what you have yet to prove is begging the question. You must be white eh? If the president was white there would never have been an accusation of him being Muslim, that is bigoted. If the president were white there would have been no question of his birth certificate, bigoted again. I gave the simple examples cause I don't want to confuse anyone. The fact that white people buy it without any regard for the actuality of it shows racism. This president has suffered more misinformation than any president before and they were all white... I can go on and on but it won't matter if I am speaking to a racist because they have so many excuses for it that they can't see it in themselves anyway. Reason for the OP. I had to let that go. |
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