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| Topic: Well...it didn't work again....dating disaster... | |
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I am doing well though. I am glad it only took 9 months to learn. If he would have been as secretive as some racists are I would still be dating him and not knowing which would be far worse.
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At least his feelings came to the surface, sooner rather than later and you kicked him into touch! Well done.
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What do you expect, dating for 9 months lol. Just admit you`re not really into relationships.
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This just strengthens my personal beliefs ...
If you want to maintain friendships and love...never bring politics or religions into the equation.....they can only screw up a perfectly good situation. It is a subject that is always 100%....my way or the highway. If two people watch different Tv shows or listen to different music.....no big deal. But politics and religion allow absolutely no middle ground. Ideology and belief kill nations, societies and millions of people......they will kill love just as dead with the other side always being wrong. |
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It comes down to this. If your white friends and family tell you you are not racist and you have no other opinions to go on, you might be. ....then again....you might not be..... Jesus! I just read this thread ....someone here is freaking obsessed with racism and is really racist against white people.... Good luck finding your mate. |
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Edited by
Leigh2154
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Wed 09/25/13 07:35 AM
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This just strengthens my personal beliefs ... If you want to maintain friendships and love...never bring politics or religions into the equation.....they can only screw up a perfectly good situation. It is a subject that is always 100%....my way or the highway. If two people watch different Tv shows or listen to different music.....no big deal. But politics and religion allow absolutely no middle ground. Ideology and belief kill nations, societies and millions of people......they will kill love just as dead with the other side always being wrong. Many people are attracted to and even marry partners who have very different ideologies and beliefs to include religion and politics Krups....Look at Carville and Matalin, long time married political consultants and commentators on opposite sides of the fence....Why does it work?....Probably because couples like Carville-Matalin have other more significant things in common....They focus on what they agree on and accept each other's differences....In other words, they put their love for each other above their political views and beliefs....If two people really want to be together, nothing will stand in their way....Jesus Krupa, I hear you spouting that chit more than most around here!! 
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It comes down to this. If your white friends and family tell you you are not racist and you have no other opinions to go on, you might be. ....then again....you might not be..... Jesus! I just read this thread ....someone here is freaking obsessed with racism and is really racist against white people.... Good luck finding your mate. 
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At least his feelings came to the surface, sooner rather than later and you kicked him into touch! Well done.
Well thanks but it didn't feel good even if it had to be done for my own integrity to remain intact. |
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It comes down to this. If your white friends and family tell you you are not racist and you have no other opinions to go on, you might be. ....then again....you might not be..... Jesus! I just read this thread ....someone here is freaking obsessed with racism and is really racist against white people.... Good luck finding your mate. LOL that is like saying the Christian who doesn't agree with all that the bible says is anti Christian... Most whites can't recognize white racism so they don't see it. I have had the eye opening experiences that make me see more than a lot of whites. It isn't their fault they were born with the proverbial white spoon in their mouths. They were born white in a white racist built and controlled country. So how could they possibly see what it is like to be unwhite in that environment? They really have to step out of their comfort zone to even kind of imagine what it could be like and even then they can't get the brunt of it. I can't have someone who even accidentally is white racist around me because I have those who look like the president who love me dearly and I would rather kill than see them hurt. |
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You seem rather dogmatic to me. You want to push your opinions but refuse to debate them with those that disagree with you because you assume that they are as dogmatic and closed minded as you are.
You meet a guy. You really like him. You are shocked because he is one of the people that's not a fan of a politician that isn't white and nobody would ever say that he's a socialist or a muslim or not American if they weren't racist. Even if we grant that racists were the ones that said it first though it does not follow that you have to be a racist to dislike him or socialism or islam and the birth certificate thing is not that different from trying to claim that Bush stuffed ballot boxes. Hell, I've heard conservatives saying that Obama rigged the election as well. |
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It comes down to this. If your white friends and family tell you you are not racist and you have no other opinions to go on, you might be. ....then again....you might not be..... Jesus! I just read this thread ....someone here is freaking obsessed with racism and is really racist against white people.... Good luck finding your mate. LOL that is like saying the Christian who doesn't agree with all that the bible says is anti Christian... Most whites can't recognize white racism so they don't see it. I have had the eye opening experiences that make me see more than a lot of whites. It isn't their fault they were born with the proverbial white spoon in their mouths. They were born white in a white racist built and controlled country. So how could they possibly see what it is like to be unwhite in that environment? They really have to step out of their comfort zone to even kind of imagine what it could be like and even then they can't get the brunt of it. I can't have someone who even accidentally is white racist around me because I have those who look like the president who love me dearly and I would rather kill than see them hurt. It is gonna suck on the day you look in the mirror...realize you are white...then apply that "all whites are racist" crap ideology to yourself.... Then you will be the one saying "I ain't racist!!!!" Just like us...But,according to your screwed up theory...believing you ain't racist...and being told you ain't racist ain't good enough...according to you...all white people are racist.... Now....go look in the mirror.... |
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Sorry that happen to you. 
Many on the Political forums do not like Obama and run him down all time. So, best to ask up front if that is an issue or put it on your profile. I guess it is good to find out if someone is a racist upfront, but I don't like the idea of asking everyone I meet if they're racist. Willowdragon, sorry you found a jerk like that. |
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I was dating a man for 9 months and our first date I took him to the park where the President came for a rally and I went. Talked about it while we walked the park and still had my Obama signs around the house when he came to visit. He was quiet about it so I assumed he was probably not a fan. Cool. As long as he dislikes him for legimate reasons I have no issue with it. If he believes he is a Muslim, Kenyan born, socialist, communist or trying to destroy the country from within however that would not be cool because those are the "excuses" used by white racists to hate the President. Well long story short, we finally friend each other on facebook and guess what he posts? One of those lists from the white racists about the president. You know the one about his having applied for school as a foreign student and two social security numbers, etc.... I felt blindsided and terribly hurt. I posted the links in the comments section of the post to prove the inaccuracy of the post. I asked if he knew it wasn't true and he agreed some of it wasn't but he didn't care if it was true or not. Politics really didn't matter to him, he said. That is how the racists are, they do not care if it is true because they dislike him for not being white. He kept this to himself for 9+ months. 
Our chemistry was mind blowingly amazing and I think that is what kept me from communicating well enough with him to have discovered this sooner. And I had to put it to him bluntly because he didn't get it at first, just thought I was being petty. I told him "I don't share my body or life with those who do not like the president because he isn't white". He denied it but the proof is still there on his facebook page and he doesn't even have the one black friend he claims to have....which is what all the white racist say to console themselves. We are not seeing each other anymore... Lesson learned. I am being much more clear on my profiles now. Hoping not to have to go through this again. Ah, accusing people of racism without actually citing any actual racists comments or acts. Go figure. What are you talking about? Do you think racists just call names? Silly man It is wrong to play the race card against people who haven't made any racist statements and who haven't done any racist acts. People are innocent of racism until proven guilty. Did you prove that the guy you dated is racist? No, you did not. Did she prove it to who? You? She doesn't owe you any proof. |
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She don't owe any of us anything....
Thank God! Cause I wouldn't put up with that kind of all encompassing judgemental crap from anyone. Let the next poor sucker who is that desperate for a date deal with that one....he got no shot unless he is Malcolm X. |
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I don't know if that qualifies him as a racist, true Obama is very shady! Maybe he is not a supporter, Muslim is a religion not a race, not having a birth certificate is very shady! Not an Obama fan here but definitely not a racist. Maybe you should not deal politics with him since everything else was mind blowing. Doesn't sound like he's a racist to me. The religion is Islam. Anyway, not all, but many who believe the President is Muslim are racist. |
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Is this thread about willow or Obama?
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Edited by
singmesweet
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Thu 09/26/13 06:58 PM
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She don't owe any of us anything.... Thank God! Cause I wouldn't put up with that kind of all encompassing judgemental crap from anyone. Let the next poor sucker who is that desperate for a date deal with that one....he got no shot unless he is Malcolm X. No one is saying you have to put up with judgmental crap, but you're getting mad at her for not putting up with crap from someone she was dating. I wouldn't stand for that kind of thing either from someone I was dating. Just not the kind of person I'd hit it off well with. I'm not saying at all that everyone has to agree with, or even like the President, but spouting things that aren't true just because you don't like him? Yeah, not my kind of person. That goes for those who do that to anyone, not just the President. |
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Exactly...spouting things like white people who are raised around white people are racist...
You are right.....not my kind of person. On other sites...I would say judgmental idiot... But since they don't allow that here...I will say... Not my kind of person. |
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Exactly...spouting things like white people who are raised around white people are racist... You are right.....not my kind of person. On other sites...I would say judgmental idiot... But since they don't allow that here...I will say... Not my kind of person. Then why are you so often very judgmental of people? It's not ok for others, but it's ok for you to be that way? How come? |
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Because I am smarter than them.
I let more crap slide. I treat good people good. I treat bad people bad. And I don't pussyfoot around with dumbasses and pretend like I am gonna be politically correct just for the sake of sparing their feelings...I leave that to you guys. You asked |
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