He was only a racist when you brought your political beliefs into the mix. You said you both had amazing chemistry and this could of been a great thing. So appreciating your zeal for Obama and not being for or against the man, you basically threw away a possibly great relationship for a man who you will never have a relationship with nor will he be there or care if yor alive or dead tomorrow, just because he is president. EVERY politician, especially the higher the ladder you go, shows they are NOT who they pitched when getting elected. But this is not about that, it is about racism which from what you tell me is what ended the relationship. We all are different, THAT is where a person knows if they are ready for a real relationship, any relationship, because it is a give and take deal, not a "he has to like everything the same as I do" deal. After all, you dont know if there were things he did not like about you and kept his mouth shut to give the relationship a chance.

I'm going to agree with this. It almost sounds like self sabotage. Has this happened in the past where things were going great and you found a reason to dump them?
I guess what I'm trying to say is that pick your battles. Clearly the Obama thing made little difference to him but was a huge deal breaker to you. Posting something like that on fb doesn't make him racist. It's possible he just forwarded it without reading it? People do it all the time. Did you have a conversation about it? Explain to him your perception and hear what he had to say?

At the end of the day, it's important to have standards and not settle. Also it's important that we aren't our own worst enemy either.

Just my 2 cents

White racist created the "race card" to excuse their victimization of other races. There is no such thing as a race card.