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willowdraga Joined Sat 10/13/12 Posts: 957	Tue 09/17/13 01:43 PM
White racist created the "race card" to excuse their victimization of other races. There is no such thing as a race card.

willowdraga Joined Sat 10/13/12 Posts: 957	Tue 09/17/13 02:03 PM Edited by willowdraga on Tue 09/17/13 02:04 PM
Sorry for posting this in the wrong category admins.

Traumer Joined Sun 01/06/13 Posts: 723	Tue 09/17/13 08:13 PM Edited by Traumer on Tue 09/17/13 08:14 PM
quote: "We are not seeing each other anymore... Lesson learned. I am being much more clear on my profiles now. Hoping not to have to go through this again. I learned a long tome ago that politically active people/ activists of any sort are not happy at all in their private / personal lives, having never met one, anywhere.

Traumer Joined Sun 01/06/13 Posts: 723	Tue 09/17/13 08:29 PM Edited by Traumer on Tue 09/17/13 08:33 PM
White racists always claim to have black friends, like I said it is how they console themselves. Around 1962 I was hitch-hiking south from Wash. DC with a friend. One ride we got was outside Atlanta at dusk by a cabbie who was black. He asked if we would like to see some real southern history in the making. He drove to some mountain, just outside Atlanta. Lots of cars were there with lots of people, all going to a huge bonfire. It was a Klan Rally. He knew virtually all the men in white robs and they all greeted each other as old friends. As several of the Klan members told us, everyone was considered 'family' and it was the outsiders, especially the 'yankees' and the Feds with blacks from up north that they were against, not the blacks that they all grew up with and lived around. In all the time we hitched around the old South, we never once saw or heard any ill will expressed by southern whites to southern blacks by local folks; outsider whites from some other southern states, yes, but the locals soon convinced them to adopt a more 'positive attitude' to 'their black folks'.... That trip was an eye opener in many ways....

paintecards01 Joined Wed 09/11/13 Posts: 4725	Tue 09/17/13 08:35 PM
White racist created the "race card" to excuse their victimization of other races. There is no such thing as a race card. There's also no use in arguing with people about that sort of thing; people are comfortable with their ignorance and have to make excuses for why they do and say the things they do and say. You did the right thing in leaving him alone. I had to unfriend someone a few months ago for making posts like that about gays, and guess what? He had no idea why I was pissed off.....whatever.

Simonedemidova Joined Mon 11/15/10 Posts: 8952	Tue 09/17/13 08:47 PM
I don't know if that qualifies him as a racist, true Obama is very shady! Maybe he is not a supporter, Muslim is a religion not a race, not having a birth certificate is very shady! Not an Obama fan here but definitely not a racist. Maybe you should not deal politics with him since everything else was mind blowing. Doesn't sound like he's a racist to me.

cuddlebunny00 Joined Sat 04/07/12 Posts: 550	Tue 09/17/13 09:40 PM
In 1967 I caused a ruckus in my high school by befriending black athletes who integrated our previouosly all-white school. Also, I spent a good deal of "personal" time with the sister of one of those black athletes, and that caused a furor...did I mention that was 1967, and did I mention it was in ALABAMA? It was, and that makes me quite certain I am not a racist, but I thoroughly and completely disapprove of barack obama. You may want to reevaluate yourself and make sure you don't just see "white racist" whenever someone doesn't share your admiration for Little Barry Soetoro. Remember, he is just as much WHITE as he is black. G. I hate talking Politics and Religion for this very reason..people can get quite nasty to each other and in the end, nobody wins

rohitkmr09 Joined Tue 09/17/13 Posts: 1	Tue 09/17/13 10:06 PM
i wanna date u

CremeBrulee Joined Tue 11/06/12 Posts: 2726	Wed 09/18/13 01:46 AM
quote: "We are not seeing each other anymore... Lesson learned. I am being much more clear on my profiles now. Hoping not to have to go through this again. I learned a long tome ago that politically active people/ activists of any sort are not happy at all in their private / personal lives, having never met one, anywhere.

willowdraga Joined Sat 10/13/12 Posts: 957	Wed 09/18/13 01:47 PM
quote: "We are not seeing each other anymore... Lesson learned. I am being much more clear on my profiles now. Hoping not to have to go through this again. I learned a long tome ago that politically active people/ activists of any sort are not happy at all in their private / personal lives, having never met one, anywhere. Well you just did meet one. I am a completely happy, content and active activist.

willowdraga Joined Sat 10/13/12 Posts: 957	Wed 09/18/13 01:49 PM
White racists always claim to have black friends, like I said it is how they console themselves. Around 1962 I was hitch-hiking south from Wash. DC with a friend. One ride we got was outside Atlanta at dusk by a cabbie who was black. He asked if we would like to see some real southern history in the making. He drove to some mountain, just outside Atlanta. Lots of cars were there with lots of people, all going to a huge bonfire. It was a Klan Rally. He knew virtually all the men in white robs and they all greeted each other as old friends. As several of the Klan members told us, everyone was considered 'family' and it was the outsiders, especially the 'yankees' and the Feds with blacks from up north that they were against, not the blacks that they all grew up with and lived around. In all the time we hitched around the old South, we never once saw or heard any ill will expressed by southern whites to southern blacks by local folks; outsider whites from some other southern states, yes, but the locals soon convinced them to adopt a more 'positive attitude' to 'their black folks'.... That trip was an eye opener in many ways.... You obviously saw what you wanted to see there. The whites in the south are so f ing racist and they have no clue they are. They were raised with it and are told it is the truth and they just go with it. There is no white to dispute it because they were all raised the same.

willowdraga Joined Sat 10/13/12 Posts: 957	Wed 09/18/13 01:50 PM
I don't know if that qualifies him as a racist, true Obama is very shady! Maybe he is not a supporter, Muslim is a religion not a race, not having a birth certificate is very shady! Not an Obama fan here but definitely not a racist. Maybe you should not deal politics with him since everything else was mind blowing. Doesn't sound like he's a racist to me. Of course he wouldn't to you.

Tribbles Joined Tue 11/17/09 Posts: 7349	Wed 09/18/13 01:53 PM
The whites in the south are so f ing racist and they have no clue they are. They were raised with it and are told it is the truth and they just go with it. There is no white to dispute it because they were all raised the same. lol quite the broad statement there, and in fact, you just generalized everyone in the south. kinda racist if you ask me, but you didnt, so forget it.

willowdraga Joined Sat 10/13/12 Posts: 957	Wed 09/18/13 02:02 PM
The whites in the south are so f ing racist and they have no clue they are. They were raised with it and are told it is the truth and they just go with it. There is no white to dispute it because they were all raised the same. lol quite the broad statement there, and in fact, you just generalized everyone in the south. kinda racist if you ask me, but you didnt, so forget it. You are right. It was a generalized statement of which I know there to be a few whites who became smarter than they were taught and outgrew the taught racism. So I concede that one.

willowdraga Joined Sat 10/13/12 Posts: 957	Wed 09/18/13 02:05 PM
i wanna date u Aw thanks but I am 29 years your senior and half way around the world but the sentiment is felt.

willowdraga Joined Sat 10/13/12 Posts: 957	Wed 09/18/13 02:06 PM
White racist created the "race card" to excuse their victimization of other races. There is no such thing as a race card. There's also no use in arguing with people about that sort of thing; people are comfortable with their ignorance and have to make excuses for why they do and say the things they do and say. You did the right thing in leaving him alone. I had to unfriend someone a few months ago for making posts like that about gays, and guess what? He had no idea why I was pissed off.....whatever. Thanks

manOfewwords Joined Wed 10/22/08 Posts: 29908	Wed 09/18/13 02:09 PM
White racists always claim to have black friends, like I said it is how they console themselves. Around 1962 I was hitch-hiking south from Wash. DC with a friend. One ride we got was outside Atlanta at dusk by a cabbie who was black. He asked if we would like to see some real southern history in the making. He drove to some mountain, just outside Atlanta. Lots of cars were there with lots of people, all going to a huge bonfire. It was a Klan Rally. He knew virtually all the men in white robs and they all greeted each other as old friends. As several of the Klan members told us, everyone was considered 'family' and it was the outsiders, especially the 'yankees' and the Feds with blacks from up north that they were against, not the blacks that they all grew up with and lived around. In all the time we hitched around the old South, we never once saw or heard any ill will expressed by southern whites to southern blacks by local folks; outsider whites from some other southern states, yes, but the locals soon convinced them to adopt a more 'positive attitude' to 'their black folks'.... That trip was an eye opener in many ways.... The whites in the south are so f ing racist and they have no clue they are. They were raised with it and are told it is the truth and they just go with it. There is no white to dispute it because they were all raised the same. oh that's just pure BULL CHIT !!!

Tribbles Joined Tue 11/17/09 Posts: 7349	Wed 09/18/13 02:10 PM
The whites in the south are so f ing racist and they have no clue they are. They were raised with it and are told it is the truth and they just go with it. There is no white to dispute it because they were all raised the same. lol quite the broad statement there, and in fact, you just generalized everyone in the south. kinda racist if you ask me, but you didnt, so forget it. You are right. It was a generalized statement of which I know there to be a few whites who became smarter than they were taught and outgrew the taught racism. So I concede that one. i was born & raised here and wasnt raised to be racist in any kinda way. my mother didnt teach me to be racist and im gonna go out on a limb here and say it was probably your ignorant logic and obsessive ramblings about politics that scared that dude off.

willowdraga Joined Sat 10/13/12 Posts: 957	Wed 09/18/13 02:12 PM
The whites in the south are so f ing racist and they have no clue they are. They were raised with it and are told it is the truth and they just go with it. There is no white to dispute it because they were all raised the same. lol quite the broad statement there, and in fact, you just generalized everyone in the south. kinda racist if you ask me, but you didnt, so forget it. You are right. It was a generalized statement of which I know there to be a few whites who became smarter than they were taught and outgrew the taught racism. So I concede that one. I conceded that I was hasty in my words and made a generalized statement here. There are whites who have out grown their raising and social environment to not be white racists who don't know they are white racists. Posting this again.

willowdraga Joined Sat 10/13/12 Posts: 957	Wed 09/18/13 02:14 PM
The whites in the south are so f ing racist and they have no clue they are. They were raised with it and are told it is the truth and they just go with it. There is no white to dispute it because they were all raised the same. lol quite the broad statement there, and in fact, you just generalized everyone in the south. kinda racist if you ask me, but you didnt, so forget it. You are right. It was a generalized statement of which I know there to be a few whites who became smarter than they were taught and outgrew the taught racism. So I concede that one. i was born & raised here and wasnt raised to be racist in any kinda way. my mother didnt teach me to be racist and im gonna go out on a limb here and say it was probably your ignorant logic and obsessive ramblings about politics that scared that dude off. I sent him away and we didn't talk politics that is how I didn't know all this time. And I know it is hard for white folks to hear but when you are white in a country created by white racists and white racist ruled since the beginning it is more likely you will be raised a racist than not.