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Topic: do men like big girls
TawtStrat Joined Fri 11/16/12 Posts: 3581	Tue 09/10/13 08:14 AM
I suppose that I was suffering with low self esteem a few years back when I went on the dating scene and wasn't having a lot of luck. Then I met this girl and she was sort of cuddly and I had never really been into fat girls before but she was alright and we had a good time together. It's kind of a cliche but a lot of big girls are very bubbly and outgoing and I think that some men are intimidated by that. My ex girlfriend wasn't exactly happy with her weight but she had arthritis and it was hard for her to get a lot of exercise to lose it. She's not one to bore people by complaining about her ailments though. A girl that I met recently said to me that she thinks that every girl has a problem. With some women they think that it's their weight but if that is a problem it's usually just a symptom. Maybe I get on with women that have problems because I've got problems and I have low self esteem, or maybe I'm just a nice guy and I want to be the knight in shining armour to ladies in distress. Could be just because they are cuddly. I'm not sure.

willing2 Joined Sun 06/08/08 Posts: 20221	Tue 09/10/13 08:23 AM
I dream of doing a fat midget, with huge boobs and a tiny tawt.

Edy_ca Joined Sat 10/10/09 Posts: 1999	Tue 09/10/13 08:26 AM
I dream of doing a fat midget, with huge boobs and a tiny tawt. Vids and pics when you find one !

afriQueen22 Joined Tue 10/25/11 Posts: 527	Tue 09/10/13 08:32 AM
To quote one of my favourite books, "a man who sees ****, does not see cellulite." But what size must one be to be classified as big? Isn't that all relative? In my opinion, every body has it's attractive parts. And trust me, as a masseuse I've seen and touched all types.

Edy_ca Joined Sat 10/10/09 Posts: 1999	Tue 09/10/13 08:42 AM
To quote one of my favourite books, "a man who sees ****, does not see cellulite." But what size must one be to be classified as big? Isn't that all relative? In my opinion, every body has it's attractive parts. And trust me, as a masseuse I've seen and touched all types. I have relatively easy formula...if you can't see 'it' without having to use a mirror ....I'm not interested

afriQueen22 Joined Tue 10/25/11 Posts: 527	Tue 09/10/13 08:52 AM
To quote one of my favourite books, "a man who sees ****, does not see cellulite." But what size must one be to be classified as big? Isn't that all relative? In my opinion, every body has it's attractive parts. And trust me, as a masseuse I've seen and touched all types. I have relatively easy formula...if you can't see 'it' without having to use a mirror ....I'm not interested Hahaha yes, I guess treasure hunts are a tad overrated.

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Tue 09/10/13 09:46 AM
Quoting my online BF, most men are not chubby chasers. Obesity is an extreme turn off. You don't have to be a supermodel but a woman should be in good shape, especially if she wants to attract a decent man, with emphasis on decent. The out of shape women will attract someone but who knows what... Some men are definitely picky about weight. Many are not, though.

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Tue 09/10/13 09:48 AM
Most men do not want a fat woman, unless he has low self esteem. Some men say they do, but maybe they can not get an attractive, shapely woman. IMO So you're telling us that any man who dates someone who is overweight has low self esteem? Why do you believe that?

sparkyae5 Joined Thu 03/28/13 Posts: 1595	Tue 09/10/13 10:35 AM
YES.....its the junk in the attic they don't like!!!!!! they are not looking for more emotional problems...........

Toodygirl5 Joined Fri 10/26/12 Posts: 14937	Tue 09/10/13 10:52 AM
Most men do not want a fat woman, unless he has low self esteem. Some men say they do, but maybe they can not get an attractive, shapely woman. IMO It's true...I need a guy with low self-esteem so I can control him, but he also needs to be self motivated. ..I don't wanna tell the poor bastard twice to go get me food

Toodygirl5 Joined Fri 10/26/12 Posts: 14937	Tue 09/10/13 10:56 AM
Most men do not want a fat woman, unless he has low self esteem. Some men say they do, but maybe they can not get an attractive, shapely woman. IMO So you're telling us that any man who dates someone who is overweight has low self esteem? Why do you believe that? That is not what I said. I said some do have low self esteem. Key word here is Some. Ok..lol Like I said most dont want a fat woman. And that is my Opinion, from my experiences. And, I am not Fat.

Edy_ca Joined Sat 10/10/09 Posts: 1999	Tue 09/10/13 11:00 AM
Most men do not want a fat woman, unless he has low self esteem. Some men say they do, but maybe they can not get an attractive, shapely woman. IMO It's true...I need a guy with low self-esteem so I can control him, but he also needs to be self motivated. ..I don't wanna tell the poor bastard twice to go get me food Yuh?? What? Is my statement any more ridiculous than yours? Pft

Toodygirl5 Joined Fri 10/26/12 Posts: 14937	Tue 09/10/13 11:07 AM
Most men do not want a fat woman, unless he has low self esteem. Some men say they do, but maybe they can not get an attractive, shapely woman. IMO It's true...I need a guy with low self-esteem so I can control him, but he also needs to be self motivated. ..I don't wanna tell the poor bastard twice to go get me food Yuh?? What? Is my statement any more ridiculous than yours? Pft Yes, mine is realistic.

willing2 Joined Sun 06/08/08 Posts: 20221	Tue 09/10/13 11:09 AM
It's true...I need a guy with low self-esteem so I can control him, but he also needs to be self motivated. ..I don't wanna tell the poor bastard twice to go get me food If I disobey, do you spank?

Edy_ca Joined Sat 10/10/09 Posts: 1999	Tue 09/10/13 11:09 AM
Most men do not want a fat woman, unless he has low self esteem. Some men say they do, but maybe they can not get an attractive, shapely woman. IMO It's true...I need a guy with low self-esteem so I can control him, but he also needs to be self motivated. ..I don't wanna tell the poor bastard twice to go get me food Yuh?? What? Is my statement any more ridiculous than yours? Pft Yes, mine is realistic. Yes and factual too I'm sure smh

Edy_ca Joined Sat 10/10/09 Posts: 1999	Tue 09/10/13 11:11 AM
It's true...I need a guy with low self-esteem so I can control him, but he also needs to be self motivated. ..I don't wanna tell the poor bastard twice to go get me food If I disobey, do you spank? Fyi 'no' is not the safe word

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Tue 09/10/13 03:15 PM
Most men do not want a fat woman, unless he has low self esteem. Some men say they do, but maybe they can not get an attractive, shapely woman. IMO So you're telling us that any man who dates someone who is overweight has low self esteem? Why do you believe that? That is not what I said. I said some do have low self esteem. Key word here is Some. Ok..lol Like I said most dont want a fat woman. And that is my Opinion, from my experiences. And, I am not Fat. You said most men don't want a fat woman unless they have low self esteem. Is that true for some? Sure. But there are absolutely men out there who are attractive and confident who aren't picky about weight.

Truncated Joined Fri 07/22/11 Posts: 81	Tue 09/10/13 03:26 PM
Just have to find them attractive. Mature, huge, short, tall, skinny, pale, freckled, curly haired, bald, tattooed, muscular, badass, timid. It's usually the ones I like that don't like me, lol. - Quiet confidence is very attractive.

Toodygirl5 Joined Fri 10/26/12 Posts: 14937	Tue 09/10/13 04:11 PM
Most men do not want a fat woman, unless he has low self esteem. Some men say they do, but maybe they can not get an attractive, shapely woman. IMO So you're telling us that any man who dates someone who is overweight has low self esteem? Why do you believe that? That is not what I said. I said some do have low self esteem. Key word here is Some. Ok..lol Like I said most dont want a fat woman. And that is my Opinion, from my experiences. And, I am not Fat. You said most men don't want a fat woman unless they have low self esteem. Is that true for some? Sure. But there are absolutely men out there who are attractive and confident who aren't picky about weight. Ya...a few!

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Tue 09/10/13 06:11 PM
Most men do not want a fat woman, unless he has low self esteem. Some men say they do, but maybe they can not get an attractive, shapely woman. IMO So you're telling us that any man who dates someone who is overweight has low self esteem? Why do you believe that? That is not what I said. I said some do have low self esteem. Key word here is Some. Ok..lol Like I said most dont want a fat woman. And that is my Opinion, from my experiences. And, I am not Fat. You said most men don't want a fat woman unless they have low self esteem. Is that true for some? Sure. But there are absolutely men out there who are attractive and confident who aren't picky about weight. Ya...a few! How do you know? Are you telling us you're keeping track of all the men that women you think are fat dates?