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Topic: do men like big girls
Avocadosaredelish Joined Fri 08/23/13 Posts: 21	Tue 09/10/13 06:20 PM
Sure they do, but they don't like sloppy women who don't take care of themselves. I notice a lot of women complaining about men not wanting bigger gals but when I look at their pictures they look like they just rolled out of bed. Ladies don't let your size be an excuse to let yourself go in other ways. This. A million times. This. Like that Jane Biggum, from that show where she dies. She's fat, but I would take her ouuuut to dinner!

Avocadosaredelish Joined Fri 08/23/13 Posts: 21	Tue 09/10/13 06:36 PM
Would like to know Some do, some don't, as with all other preferences. Confidence is key whether you're a big or small woman and it attracts men. BUUUUT! But, there's a difference between confidence, as in you have good self-esteem and are happy with who you are, and this **ing idiotic trend I'm seeing in bigger girls that kind of goes like this... Claims to be "BBW" Demands, disproportionate expectations.(even though she's fat, ugly, and broke, it's totally NOT OK to be a fat ugly broke guy) When called out of her being fat and ugly, claims that everyone wants he delicious booty, but just because everyone GETS her booty, does not make it delicious! You see, at least in my area, bigger girls have realized they are a niche hot market and are **ing capitalizing. Not that I blame them per-se, but seriously, let's live in reality for a moment, that's not internal confidence, that un-earned arrogance based on today's trends.

pennyg281 Joined Thu 11/08/07 Posts: 4348	Tue 09/10/13 06:56 PM
I'm 280 Pounds. . . I use to be 420. At both weights, I had male attention. Their are guys who like big girls.They can be hard to find, but I look at it this way . . . If some guy decides not to get to know me because of my size, he isn't the type of guy I would want to be with anyway. But the key is confidence, and loving yourself No Matter what SIZE you are.

krupa Joined Thu 07/03/08 Posts: 18651	Tue 09/10/13 07:01 PM
Would like to know Some do, some don't, as with all other preferences. Confidence is key whether you're a big or small woman and it attracts men. BUUUUT! But, there's a difference between confidence, as in you have good self-esteem and are happy with who you are, and this **ing idiotic trend I'm seeing in bigger girls that kind of goes like this... Claims to be "BBW" Demands, disproportionate expectations.(even though she's fat, ugly, and broke, it's totally NOT OK to be a fat ugly broke guy) When called out of her being fat and ugly, claims that everyone wants he delicious booty, but just because everyone GETS her booty, does not make it delicious! You see, at least in my area, bigger girls have realized they are a niche hot market and are **ing capitalizing. Not that I blame them per-se, but seriously, let's live in reality for a moment, that's not internal confidence, that un-earned arrogance based on today's trends. I gotta admit...he ain't wrong. Not every skinny chick is a super model. Not every big gal is luscious. Pretty is pretty. Sweet is sweet. Weight got zero to do with sexiness.....contrary to what all the crap media says. Skinny ain't sexy and neither is flabby. Sexy is something all about confidence. Just remember this....Elvis never called himself a sex symbol..everyone else did. He was skinny and fat...take the lesson people.

Avocadosaredelish Joined Fri 08/23/13 Posts: 21	Tue 09/10/13 07:31 PM
Weight got zero to do with sexiness.....contrary to what all the crap media says. Just remember this....Elvis never called himself a sex symbol..everyone else did. Pretty much. As cliched as it is, personality and specifically for me, inner volition/will is the biggest thing. I have 0 problem finding chicks who want to **** me, but if they're hardly worth more than what's between their legs what's the point? I could just go jack off. That's kind of how I ended up here I guess.

Missdee22 Joined Sun 09/08/13 Posts: 2	Tue 09/10/13 11:57 PM
Yesssss

esteban1 Joined Wed 09/11/13 Posts: 1	Wed 09/11/13 12:19 AM
yes i m a very very skin asian and i prefer nice curved girl my problem is that curvy girl dont like skinny person caus its make them feel bad so its hard for me to find a girl that feel 100% conforatble with HER body

Tazzer123 Joined Mon 09/09/13 Posts: 174	Wed 09/11/13 12:19 AM
Hell yea love them big girls! They know how to ride the zucchini! Only condition I got to be on top! If u seen nutty professor u know why ;) lol

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Wed 09/11/13 05:23 AM
Would like to know Some do, some don't, as with all other preferences. Confidence is key whether you're a big or small woman and it attracts men. BUUUUT! But, there's a difference between confidence, as in you have good self-esteem and are happy with who you are, and this **ing idiotic trend I'm seeing in bigger girls that kind of goes like this... Claims to be "BBW" Demands, disproportionate expectations.(even though she's fat, ugly, and broke, it's totally NOT OK to be a fat ugly broke guy) When called out of her being fat and ugly, claims that everyone wants he delicious booty, but just because everyone GETS her booty, does not make it delicious! You see, at least in my area, bigger girls have realized they are a niche hot market and are **ing capitalizing. Not that I blame them per-se, but seriously, let's live in reality for a moment, that's not internal confidence, that un-earned arrogance based on today's trends. I was talking about confidence, not arrogance. And no one can force you to be into bigger girls. Don't date them/sleep with them if you're not attracted to them. Simple. No need to get angry at them like this.

BrianLovesGuitar Joined Sat 08/17/13 Posts: 344	Wed 09/11/13 05:28 AM
This thread is like an episode of Loose Women

BrianLovesGuitar Joined Sat 08/17/13 Posts: 344	Wed 09/11/13 05:32 AM
......coming to think of it, do big girls like skinny men?

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Wed 09/11/13 06:38 AM
......coming to think of it, do big girls like skinny men? I'm sure some do? Who cares, really. Go for who you're attracted to, rather than worrying about who others are attracted to.

mariafe26 Joined Sun 09/08/13 Posts: 2	Wed 09/11/13 06:51 AM Edited by mariafe26 on Wed 09/11/13 07:02 AM


BrianLovesGuitar Joined Sat 08/17/13 Posts: 344	Wed 09/11/13 06:57 AM
Im just joking, I would rather spend time with someone i can have a laugh with. Dont get me wrong there has to be some kind of physical attraction (anyone who says otherwise is a liar lol) but thats not me saying I wouldnt go with a heavier girl. As long as they make me laugh and im attracted to them, then rock on

Edy_ca Joined Sat 10/10/09 Posts: 1999	Wed 09/11/13 08:16 AM
Im just joking, I would rather spend time with someone i can have a laugh with. Dont get me wrong there has to be some kind of physical attraction (anyone who says otherwise is a liar lol) but thats not me saying I wouldnt go with a heavier girl. As long as they make me laugh and im attracted to them, then rock on

SimplicityAtItsBest Joined Mon 09/10/12 Posts: 960	Wed 09/11/13 02:07 PM
Hell yea love them big girls! They know how to ride the zucchini! Only condition I got to be on top! If u seen nutty professor u know why ;) lol

kazem1990 Joined Fri 09/06/13 Posts: 3	Wed 09/11/13 03:17 PM
Hey how r u doing

kazem1990 Joined Fri 09/06/13 Posts: 3	Wed 09/11/13 03:20 PM
I love big women because of those big melons and their juicy counts

Ambitious_Girl Joined Wed 09/11/13 Posts: 1	Wed 09/11/13 03:36 PM
I think it has to do what preference. Some do and some dont. I am curvy and I have great sense of style and I carry my self very well. And I attract all kinda men but there are times I dont get what I want i just keep it moving and find someone else thats worthy. I know mean who only date big girls who are fine,educated and, financially stable.

lionsbrew Joined Tue 08/22/06 Posts: 14232	Wed 09/11/13 03:36 PM
Hells yea! And no I don't lack self esteem. Curvey women are the bestest.