Topic: blabbering in a relationship
motowndowntown's photo
Sun 03/03/13 03:53 PM

Its a form of being intimate by having someone to confide in.


Yes.

teadipper's photo
Sun 03/03/13 03:54 PM
Just say, "If I am going to be your therapist, I get paid $100 per hour CASH up front".

teadipper's photo
Sun 03/03/13 03:54 PM
Edited by teadipper on Sun 03/03/13 03:59 PM

teadipper's photo
Sun 03/03/13 03:58 PM


Why do some women give us hardtime with unnecessary talk about everything?


Have you considered that she might be nervous? I know guys and girls that do that on dates?


It's actually got a name. It's called "pressured speech". Seriously. The person has so much anxiety in the quiet moments they just keep talking to avoid awkward silences.

mikaxel80's photo
Mon 03/04/13 01:16 AM



Men talk to share information.

Women talk as a form of social interaction.

Sure about that?


Yes.

May be from your side of the world. On my side, most women(remember not women) talk as a form of nagging and to 'share information'

GreenEyes48's photo
Mon 03/04/13 05:04 AM




Men talk to share information.

Women talk as a form of social interaction.

Sure about that?


Yes.

May be from your side of the world. On my side, most women(remember not women) talk as a form of nagging and to 'share information'
I wouldn't want to be in a relationship with someone who constantly nagged me or put me "down.".. Or someone who talked "at me" versus "with me."..Some men and women find "common ground" and enjoy talking (and listening) to each other...Sorry you haven't been in relationships like this where you live.

TexasScoundrel's photo
Mon 03/04/13 05:15 AM

Just say, "If I am going to be your therapist, I get paid $100 per hour CASH up front".


YES!

no photo
Mon 03/04/13 05:21 AM




Men talk to share information.

Women talk as a form of social interaction.

Sure about that?


Yes.

May be from your side of the world. On my side, most women(remember not women) talk as a form of nagging and to 'share information'

Let me check ''your side of the world'' first,then back in a sec!!!

no photo
Mon 03/04/13 05:24 AM




Men talk to share information.

Women talk as a form of social interaction.

Sure about that?


Yes.

May be from your side of the world. On my side, most women(remember not women) talk as a form of nagging and to 'share information'

Aha,OK!

But,i never understood what ''nagging''is.....
Somebody educatively enlighten me please?!
No,not because am a village belle,but......

mikaxel80's photo
Mon 03/04/13 10:34 AM





Men talk to share information.

Women talk as a form of social interaction.

Sure about that?


Yes.

May be from your side of the world. On my side, most women(remember not women) talk as a form of nagging and to 'share information'

Aha,OK!

But,i never understood what ''nagging''is.....
Somebody educatively enlighten me please?!
No,not because am a village belle,but......

But what, neighbour? May be u females are synonymous with nagging. That's why u never understood it

xxL4LUNCHBOX's photo
Mon 03/04/13 10:44 AM






Men talk to share information.

Women talk as a form of social interaction.

Sure about that?


Yes.

May be from your side of the world. On my side, most women(remember not women) talk as a form of nagging and to 'share information'

Aha,OK!

But,i never understood what ''nagging''is.....
Somebody educatively enlighten me please?!
No,not because am a village belle,but......

But what, neighbour? May be u females are synonymous with nagging. That's why u never understood it


nagging is a lazy word .if you being asked something or too do something then its probably a real concern for your partner to get a reply or a shelf hanged a door mended. or she may just need some extra tenderness because she has had a really stressfull day ,to ingnore her and call it nagging is just being neglectfull of your partners feelings and or needs ..

TxsGal3333's photo
Mon 03/04/13 11:09 AM
Humm I'm a talker if a guy don't like it in my book he can move on.......waving

xxL4LUNCHBOX's photo
Mon 03/04/13 11:29 AM

Humm I'm a talker if a guy don't like it in my book he can move on.......waving


yup cant stop a texas rose from blooming .

ie blooming weather blooming sandstorms blooming rodeo clowns
yeha lolbigsmile

no photo
Mon 03/04/13 11:32 AM






Men talk to share information.

Women talk as a form of social interaction.

Sure about that?


Yes.

May be from your side of the world. On my side, most women(remember not women) talk as a form of nagging and to 'share information'

Aha,OK!

But,i never understood what ''nagging''is.....
Somebody educatively enlighten me please?!
No,not because am a village belle,but......

But what, neighbour? May be u females are synonymous with nagging. That's why u never understood it

I meant that in that exact sense-i trully do not understand the word.....
Does it mean a woman over talks to a man about THE same subject,more than necessary?? You do know that some men have selective hearing-could be she needs to know that hubby gets what shes talking about!?
Otherwise,when i talk to hubby about something-once,its not done/noticed,twice-still nothing,then thats it,case closed! I do it myself if its not beyond me,or ask someone else!
Am very playful,i like talking stuff through,discussions and such...I prefer to date a man who i can have enriching conversations with,but,i also have quiet times-where silence is golden!! Also am comfy within myself,so,Kiprotich of the mouth isnt one of my fortes!
But,M,if sisi is blabbering,why not find a quieter lady....for your own peace!?

PacificStar48's photo
Mon 03/04/13 11:42 AM
Sometimes it is an effort to get you to look at what we are saying than at our boobs. lol

HeadnHeart's photo
Mon 03/04/13 11:43 AM
Well, I personally like a woman who talks. Its tough to get to know her if she is too evasive, and not equal in the conversation. The more listening I do, the more I know if we fit or not. Good rapport is essential since I do like to talk much mostly, but I also listen and then later, I know how to keep her mouth busy once we know where were headed. Of course there is always duct tape? laugh

no photo
Mon 03/04/13 11:55 AM
Edited by CremeBrulee on Mon 03/04/13 12:10 PM







Men talk to share information.

Women talk as a form of social interaction.

Sure about that?


Yes.

May be from your side of the world. On my side, most women(remember not women) talk as a form of nagging and to 'share information'

Aha,OK!

But,i never understood what ''nagging''is.....
Somebody educatively enlighten me please?!
No,not because am a village belle,but......

But what, neighbour? May be u females are synonymous with nagging. That's why u never understood it


nagging is a lazy word .if you being asked something or too do something then its probably a real concern for your partner to get a reply or a shelf hanged a door mended. or she may just need some extra tenderness because she has had a really stressfull day ,to ingnore her and call it nagging is just being neglectfull of your partners feelings and or needs ..



no photo
Mon 03/04/13 12:02 PM







Men talk to share information.

Women talk as a form of social interaction.

Sure about that?


Yes.

May be from your side of the world. On my side, most women(remember not women) talk as a form of nagging and to 'share information'

Aha,OK!

But,i never understood what ''nagging''is.....
Somebody educatively enlighten me please?!
No,not because am a village belle,but......

But what, neighbour? May be u females are synonymous with nagging. That's why u never understood it


nagging is a lazy word .if you being asked something or too do something then its probably a real concern for your partner to get a reply or a shelf hanged a door mended. or she may just need some extra tenderness because she has had a really stressfull day ,to ingnore her and call it nagging is just being neglectfull of your partners feelings and or needs ..

Thanx LunchBox!

mikaxel80's photo
Mon 03/04/13 12:36 PM







Men talk to share information.

Women talk as a form of social interaction.

Sure about that?


Yes.

May be from your side of the world. On my side, most women(remember not women) talk as a form of nagging and to 'share information'

Aha,OK!

But,i never understood what ''nagging''is.....
Somebody educatively enlighten me please?!
No,not because am a village belle,but......

But what, neighbour? May be u females are synonymous with nagging. That's why u never understood it

I meant that in that exact sense-i trully do not understand the word.....
Does it mean a woman over talks to a man about THE same subject,more than necessary?? You do know that some men have selective hearing-could be she needs to know that hubby gets what shes talking about!?
Otherwise,when i talk to hubby about something-once,its not done/noticed,twice-still nothing,then thats it,case closed! I do it myself if its not beyond me,or ask someone else!
Am very playful,i like talking stuff through,discussions and such...I prefer to date a man who i can have enriching conversations with,but,i also have quiet times-where silence is golden!! Also am comfy within myself,so,Kiprotich of the mouth isnt one of my fortes!
But,M,if sisi is blabbering,why not find a quieter lady....for your own peace!?

Nah, this aint blabbering. This is just making casual conversation, neighbour. And I like it.
By the way what I meant by nagging is a woman talks non stop about the same thing repetitively

TxsGal3333's photo
Mon 03/04/13 01:01 PM

Well, I personally like a woman who talks. Its tough to get to know her if she is too evasive, and not equal in the conversation. The more listening I do, the more I know if we fit or not. Good rapport is essential since I do like to talk much mostly, but I also listen and then later, I know how to keep her mouth busy once we know where were headed. Of course there is always duct tape? laugh


A man that finally gets it.....lmao :thumbsup: