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Topic: NO JUDGEMENTS....BUT
teebee79 Joined Wed 11/07/12 Posts: 2179	Thu 01/10/13 12:24 PM
A guy sent me a friend request...which I usually accept friend requests. I mean, Who is so rich that they can afford to throw away a friend, Right? Well, I accepted him but then I noticed he is " Looking for an Intimate Encounter" Why did he contact me, Yeah..I have my scatter brain moments but I sure as hell wouldn't have forgotten to say NO Intimate Encounters! My question.. Shouldn't Intimate Encounter people be MADE to stick with their OWN kind? ok, ok... That does sound judgey but I'm sorry... there is an ICK factor there for me :-(

navygirl Joined Sat 06/02/07 Posts: 8118	Thu 01/10/13 12:31 PM
A guy sent me a friend request...which I usually accept friend requests. I mean, Who is so rich that they can afford to throw away a friend, Right? Well, I accepted him but then I noticed he is " Looking for an Intimate Encounter" Why did he contact me, Yeah..I have my scatter brain moments but I sure as hell wouldn't have forgotten to say NO Intimate Encounters! My question.. Shouldn't Intimate Encounter people be MADE to stick with their OWN kind? ok, ok... That does sound judgey but I'm sorry... there is an ICK factor there for me :-( Yeah; I have had that happen to me too. What I do is look at the person's profile before accepting the friend request. I did accept some from younger guys thinking of nothing more than friendship but then they got real creepy on me; so I got rid of them ASAP.

Toodygirl5 Joined Fri 10/26/12 Posts: 14968	Thu 01/10/13 12:32 PM
A guy sent me a friend request...which I usually accept friend requests. I mean, Who is so rich that they can afford to throw away a friend, Right? Well, I accepted him but then I noticed he is " Looking for an Intimate Encounter" Why did he contact me, Yeah..I have my scatter brain moments but I sure as hell wouldn't have forgotten to say NO Intimate Encounters! My question.. Shouldn't Intimate Encounter people be MADE to stick with their OWN kind? ok, ok... That does sound judgey but I'm sorry... there is an ICK factor there for me :-( If a person has no intimate encounters on their settings who contacts them, then anyone in that catagory should not be able to send a friend invite. JMO However, this site is free so they have many different rules.

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Thu 01/10/13 12:33 PM
So, don't accept his friend request? There's nothing that says you have to accept every friend request.

teebee79 Joined Wed 11/07/12 Posts: 2179	Thu 01/10/13 12:35 PM
[! My question.. Shouldn't Intimate Encounter people be MADE to stick with their OWN kind? ok, ok... That does sound judgey but I'm sorry... there is an ICK factor there for me :-( If a person has no intimate encounters on their settings who contacts them, then anyone in that catagory should not be able to send a friend invite. JMO However, this site is free so they have many different rules. you know.. you're right! He couldn't email me.. he is blocked there but these guys can still send a friend request.

navygirl Joined Sat 06/02/07 Posts: 8118	Thu 01/10/13 12:36 PM Edited by navygirl on Thu 01/10/13 12:37 PM
My question.. Shouldn't Intimate Encounter people be MADE to stick with their OWN kind? ok, ok... That does sound judgey but I'm sorry... there is an ICK factor there for me :-( If a person has no intimate encounters on their settings who contacts them, then anyone in that catagory should not be able to send a friend invite. JMO However, this site is free so they have many different rules. you know.. you're right! He couldn't email me.. he is blocked there but these guys can still send a friend request. Yes; but you can decline the friend request after you look at his profile.

teebee79 Joined Wed 11/07/12 Posts: 2179	Thu 01/10/13 12:37 PM
So, don't accept his friend request? There's nothing that says you have to accept every friend request. LOL... Of course not darlin'... What I'm saying is... Wouldn't it make for easier encounting session for these guys... if they had their own little section... rather than invading my friendly space!

AmandaXoxox Joined Wed 09/01/10 Posts: 39	Thu 01/10/13 12:39 PM
A guy sent me a friend request...which I usually accept friend requests. I mean, Who is so rich that they can afford to throw away a friend, Right? Well, I accepted him but then I noticed he is " Looking for an Intimate Encounter" Why did he contact me, Yeah..I have my scatter brain moments but I sure as hell wouldn't have forgotten to say NO Intimate Encounters! My question.. Shouldn't Intimate Encounter people be MADE to stick with their OWN kind? ok, ok... That does sound judgey but I'm sorry... there is an ICK factor there for me :-( YES! I totally agree with you. I find it Disgusting when men have that as all they are looking for. Makes me wonder how many people they have slept with & EEWWWW. It is ICK!

navygirl Joined Sat 06/02/07 Posts: 8118	Thu 01/10/13 12:40 PM
So, don't accept his friend request? There's nothing that says you have to accept every friend request. LOL... Of course not darlin'... What I'm saying is... Wouldn't it make for easier encounting session for these guys... if they had their own little section... rather than invading my friendly space! What? That would make life easier for you. What are you thinking?

teebee79 Joined Wed 11/07/12 Posts: 2179	Thu 01/10/13 12:44 PM
So, don't accept his friend request? There's nothing that says you have to accept every friend request. LOL... Of course not darlin'... What I'm saying is... Wouldn't it make for easier encounting session for these guys... if they had their own little section... rather than invading my friendly space! What? That would make life easier for you. What are you thinking? True .... there I go wanting what I can't have again!

PacificStar48 Joined Tue 10/02/07 Posts: 13764	Thu 01/10/13 12:53 PM
I take putting someone down as a friend as a big deal so I read profiles and watch people over a long time before I accept or decline.

navygirl Joined Sat 06/02/07 Posts: 8118	Thu 01/10/13 12:55 PM
So, don't accept his friend request? There's nothing that says you have to accept every friend request. LOL... Of course not darlin'... What I'm saying is... Wouldn't it make for easier encounting session for these guys... if they had their own little section... rather than invading my friendly space! What? That would make life easier for you. What are you thinking? True .... there I go wanting what I can't have again!

styk Joined Sat 11/26/11 Posts: 348	Thu 01/10/13 01:24 PM
I take putting someone down as a friend as a big deal so I read profiles and watch people over a long time before I accept or decline. smart thinking I started doing that but I dont come to this site much any more cause of all the ridiculas rules. but reading profiles first and being picky helps I learnt the hard way

Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48948	Thu 01/10/13 01:33 PM
So, don't accept his friend request? There's nothing that says you have to accept every friend request. LOL... Of course not darlin'... What I'm saying is... Wouldn't it make for easier encounting session for these guys... if they had their own little section... rather than invading my friendly space! That is what mail filters are for.

TBRich Joined Fri 11/07/08 Posts: 8232	Thu 01/10/13 01:42 PM
I deleted what I wrote, cuz I don't think you are allowed to be too funny on here

ArtGurl Joined Sun 04/08/07 Posts: 17722	Thu 01/10/13 01:44 PM
My question.. Shouldn't Intimate Encounter people be MADE to stick with their OWN kind? ok, ok... That does sound judgey but I'm sorry... there is an ICK factor there for me :-( Well of course they should. Then we can separate them by religion ... then by race ... then by gender ... I am just grateful that people can be honest about what they are looking for. Really? Why not just delete them and leave it at that?

jessejames2 Joined Tue 01/08/13 Posts: 123	Thu 01/10/13 01:48 PM
Not enough brothels here in the Midwest. Wait, there aren't any. Are there? I would like to know, and soon.

TexasScoundrel Joined Wed 10/29/08 Posts: 3693	Thu 01/10/13 02:47 PM Edited by TexasScoundrel on Thu 01/10/13 02:50 PM
Believe it or not, there are lots of women that are open to having an intimate encounter, but don't want to advertise it. Women like this usually want it to just happen. Often these women will drink to access, go home with some guy and then backwards rationalize it by saying "I was really drunk, so it doesn't count." It's all malarkey of course. She's a grown woman and knows full well what she's doing. So, guys go fishing. Until they ask, they don't know.

galendgirl Joined Sun 07/06/08 Posts: 24728	Thu 01/10/13 02:58 PM
I take putting someone down as a friend as a big deal so I read profiles and watch people over a long time before I accept or decline. I visit their profile, too. You can never too many friends...but easily can have too many creeps (because even ONE is too many!)

motowndowntown Joined Wed 11/19/08 Posts: 21824	Thu 01/10/13 03:14 PM
My question.. Shouldn't Intimate Encounter people be MADE to stick with their OWN kind? ok, ok... That does sound judgey but I'm sorry... there is an ICK factor there for me :-( Well of course they should. Then we can separate them by religion ... then by race ... then by gender ... I am just grateful that people can be honest about what they are looking for. Really? Why not just delete them and leave it at that? Took the words right out of my mouth.