For the men....Male leadership, what is it? For the Women...What do you think? Is 'submission' an option you would consider?

Hmmmmm....only if I am in control...and have a whip

Sure.
Most women/men do not realize that evolution
has left its mark.
Those hunter/gatherers doing their thing kept
the species alive.
Women, having to be submissive to survive,
have passed that to us.

I think it a naturally occuring aspect of
the relationship between men and women.

So, if he wants to spread his wings and
thump his chest to get my attention and
feel all manly, I am willing to pretend
to be totally awed by it :-)

I am a fireman! Or a cowboy! Depends on what costume she wants me to wear!

Its sounds like a dance, animals do. He puffs up, she gets all 'submissive.' Lionesses are the hunters/gatherers. Lions protect. Just a few thoughts.

Meh, I thought this was going to be about D&D.

I like both..but I am much more of a submissive, because that turns me on more.

The scene when Rhet Butler scooped up Scarlette O Hara, and told her, "frankly Scarlett, I dont give a damn", and marched her upstairs, says it all!

From my profile:

"I LOVEEEEEEEEEEEEE a man who makes me remeber why I love being a WOMAN, and takes charge, without being macho, or overly controlling".

I am also into worshiping my man at all times, and like to serve him, and pamper him, like a king. Thats just me.

But yeah, grab my hair, and its on and crackin!

Lol luv2. So a strong woman like yourself will submit for love?

A long time age, men hunted and women gathered. Both contributed equally, but we each developed different skill sets. Women became good at finding the good roots and veggies among everything else and men got good at shooting arrows. Women and men now SEE differently. Women simply have a wider field of peripheral vision than men.

This is why men can look all over a room and still not find what he's looking for, but a woman will walk in and see it immediately. then she goes away thinking he's blind not truly understanding she has him at a disadvantage.

We'd all do better if we handed over somethings to our partner and trusted them.

IN A HOT NEW YORK SECOND!

And thinking about what you just said, thats probably why, because im always so aggressive in life....

hmmmmmmmmmmm,,,never thought of that before.

Now, could someone please tie me up??

Do you think that's only something weak women do?

(((((EMILY)))))

Ive missed you!

Consider answering this threads question for women and then I wiill consider answering yours Singmesweet :-)

I can't speak for all women, so there's no generic answer I can give you. Is there a reason you couldn't answer my question, though?

Being our self is most important....personal freedom.

If one feels comfortable with "submitting" to stroke his ego,
then so be it. I don't think it's necessary, and I don't think men
expect it. If he does, he's not for me.

Waitttttttt, hold up...

I dont do it to "stroke his ego", and my man definitely doesnt need his ego stroked, (hes a a very confident man), and he doesnt expect ANYTHING from me, but loving him the way he loves me, and with respect.

I do it because its what sexually stimulates ME, and he doesnt hate it of course, so there ya go.

So much for my wizard robes & 20 sided die fantasy adventure.

I'll take a dragon and a pomegranate for 30, please!

Does this mean that I don't get to be a half-elven cleric/ranger?