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Topic: Kids
redcastle Joined Sun 09/02/12 Posts: 16	Sun 09/02/12 05:51 PM
Does having a kid turn you away?

s1owhand Joined Fri 05/18/07 Posts: 29437	Sun 09/02/12 06:56 PM
i always like to practice for making more of them shout out to all the baby-mommas!!

pyxxie13 Joined Wed 09/28/11 Posts: 3835	Sun 09/02/12 07:58 PM
Just depends the person. Obviously someone who doesn't want to raise a kid ...might not want to bother.

rambill79 Joined Thu 09/14/06 Posts: 5780	Sun 09/02/12 08:21 PM Edited by rambill79 on Sun 09/02/12 08:22 PM
Does having a kid turn you away? if they are in public schools, yes. if they are homeschooled or a good private school... thats fine. also depends on the kid i guess.. trying to adopt one as we speak. .. actually. my one regret is not getting someone knocked up. lol/hmmm/

redcastle Joined Sun 09/02/12 Posts: 16	Sun 09/02/12 08:34 PM
pyxx i like the way you think :)

Phuque2 Joined Thu 11/20/08 Posts: 4927	Sun 09/02/12 08:37 PM
No they don't bother me, kids are wonderful, if fried well....

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Sun 09/02/12 08:39 PM
Does having a kid turn you away? well since I have 4 that would be contrary I think

Queene123 Joined Tue 06/26/07 Posts: 17056	Sun 09/02/12 09:05 PM
no why should it

pyxxie13 Joined Wed 09/28/11 Posts: 3835	Mon 09/03/12 12:26 AM
pyxx i like the way you think :) Thanks! I'm hearing all this for the first time myself.

josie68 Joined Mon 11/22/10 Posts: 6270	Mon 09/03/12 02:12 AM
A parent with a child who they didn't put first, would turn me away.

oldhippie1952 Joined Mon 03/14/11 Posts: 22693	Mon 09/03/12 02:14 AM
A parent with a child who they didn't put first, would turn me away. Yes

msharmony Joined Mon 08/31/09 Posts: 61041	Mon 09/03/12 02:18 AM
having a child/children is not a turn off having a child/children with no boundaries/respect is,,,,

Kaleijoscope Joined Fri 10/15/10 Posts: 3319	Mon 09/03/12 03:06 AM
A parent with a child who they didn't put first, would turn me away. Yes DITTO!

FearandLoathing Joined Fri 12/28/07 Posts: 30121	Mon 09/03/12 03:25 AM
Probably, yes...Only because it causes undue tension typically, which only leads to failure anyway. That and I hardly want my own kids if that time ever comes, much less somebody else's child.

Queene123 Joined Tue 06/26/07 Posts: 17056	Mon 09/03/12 09:21 AM
when i met my ex hubby my daughter was 2yrs old and in fact shortly after we got together he started claiming my daughter as his.. she 29yrs old now and of course he doesnt claim her and she wouldnt allow him to she knows her real dad... but if i was to have a relationship with a single father... if the child wanted to call me mom thats up to them... for im not going to push anything but yet i would also like that child to know who there real mom is unless there was a issue about it but i would love to help raise that child like my own

Duttoneer Joined Sun 07/01/12 Posts: 4742	Mon 09/03/12 10:02 AM Edited by Duttoneer on Mon 09/03/12 10:13 AM
A parent with a child who they didn't put first, would turn me away. Yes DITTO! I would like to ask a question here. If your wife/husband and your child were both in the sea drowning, and you could only save one, which one would it be? My answer would be my wife. I would put my wife first in everything. Regarding having a kid, it would not turn me away if it were the right person.

Kahurangi Joined Thu 04/26/12 Posts: 1970	Mon 09/03/12 11:07 AM
A parent with a child who they didn't put first, would turn me away. Yes DITTO! I would like to ask a question here. If your wife/husband and your child were both in the sea drowning, and you could only save one, which one would it be? My answer would be my wife. I would put my wife first in everything. Regarding having a kid, it would not turn me away if it were the right person. Oooo...this is good Duttoneer. I like you :-) Because tis a mothers natural instinct to save her baby first. So, in effect...you would be saving them both.

newarkjw Joined Sun 05/25/08 Posts: 17172	Mon 09/03/12 11:22 AM
Well they are loud and smell kinda funny...........

s1owhand Joined Fri 05/18/07 Posts: 29437	Mon 09/03/12 11:53 AM
A parent with a child who they didn't put first, would turn me away. Yes DITTO! Child first as they are weaker and would have more trouble in the water of the open sea. Wife would already be an excellent swimmer. Then we should all be safe! But on the airplane? Oxygen masks on the adults first. They need more of it faster.

42BlackBBW Joined Mon 09/12/11 Posts: 3243	Mon 09/03/12 12:10 PM Edited by 42BlackBBW on Mon 09/03/12 12:18 PM
Despite having a children myself, yes it did. I no longer feel that way although it would depend on the number (and ages) of children he had.