haha if i could get it as a duty station next, i dont see a problem

pyxx i like the way you think :)

I agree with you. Age shouldnt be the biggest barrier

Yea, the deal breakers haha. Mine is the eating habits, cant stand when they chomp.

Does having a kid turn you away?

Yes, big turn offs!! i can deal with the smoking a little bit, but def not the drugs

What are some things in the opposite gender that turns you away from the possibility of dating?

Thank you, i really hope i do as well.

Thank you for you well thought out response. I def dont think your making fun or anything of the sort when you posted. The reason I had joined was because i jumped at the idea and didn't give it any real thought. If i could go back and actually take the time to think about it? I would do it every time because i think it has made me a better person, and also helped me mature, where as, if i had stayed home, I feel like i would have failed myself. Your right, the army is a hard, hard career to get a good solid relationship down, but its possible. I wouldn't say you were a softie. By no means is anyone a softie for not joining the military, because some people just do not like the life style it offers nor are some people able to deal with the physicalness side of it. Again, i really thank you for your response.

what you think about it?

What should i add? take away?

Thank You

Age does play somewhat of a factor, but not always. I am pretty settled for my age i do believe, and i find older women a little more attractive because they already know what they want, and for the most part, are settled more so then women a little younger. Just my two cents

Def. never tried the online thing but heck, you always hear good and bad things about it and plenty of success stories, so what the hay, might as well try it. Im currently in the army and just looking for a good hearted woman who isn't afraid to try something new.

If he is acting fishy, normally thats confession enough. But you did the right thing, you took some time away instead of directly dumping him. If he can prove his worth to you, then try to push forward. Not saying to forget the incident, but try to see past it. Keep your head up though, always more options.

I am in the army and have yet to find a committed woman. Yes, i know traveling in the army makes thing complicated, but why start a relationship saying you can handle it, then a few weeks say you fond someone else. Could you handle it?