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Topic: Gay/Bi/Lesbian Choice?
msharmony Joined Mon 08/31/09 Posts: 61041	Fri 08/31/12 12:58 PM
getting off doesnt equate to being beneficial people 'get off' on alot of things and some of them are unhealthy, illegal, or immoral a temporary 'benefit' to the flesh wasnt the benefit I was referring to exactly,,,lol that chocolate syrup on your sundae isn't beneficial either, but it's so damn good. true, chocolate syrup does taste good and actually COCOA is beneficial, so it may be somewhat beneficial for my body as well,,,

styk Joined Sat 11/26/11 Posts: 348	Fri 08/31/12 01:01 PM
I am an 18 year old girl, I have knwon about my being a lesbian since I was small. I have tried to date men, be with them, I cant, just as much as any of you can't be with the same sex. Why would a person chose to be made fun of, have their family turn against them, their friends turn their backs on them and be different? I did not want this for a very long time. I have accepted it, I am who I am, I am a lesbian just like some of you are straight. You can't be with the same sex just as much as I can't be with the oposite. I agree its not about choice but what the op said you are just born that way. If people don't like it; they can take a flying leap. That's the whole problem with our society that if you don't go with the flow; then you are an outcast. Screw them. Live your life the way you want to. The only happiness that matters is yours. ok i was trying not to bring god into this disscusion but i must say this. in the bible and in any translation you read no homosexual will enter the kingdom of heaven. we all know god is our creator and the supreme being,right? so if god says no homosexual will enter the kingdom of heaven then make someone gay so he/she cant enter, that makes no since Perhaps to you, but remember that not everyone will have the same religious beliefs you have. Religion is a personal choice. You cannot force anyone to follow the guidelines you follow to get into heaven. no matter what you or anyone says in the end god is the boss. just cause people dont have my belief does not make it not true. there one way to heaven and one mortal being god. he is perfect and knows whats best for us even if we dont

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Fri 08/31/12 01:02 PM
seeing examples of homosexual relations has no said benefit,,, it's beneficial if it helps get me off. getting off doesnt equate to being beneficial people 'get off' on alot of things and some of them are unhealthy, illegal, or immoral a temporary 'benefit' to the flesh wasnt the benefit I was referring to exactly,,,lol How can you decide what is and is not beneficial to everyone? Who are you to say there is no benefit from a homosexual relationship? Just because it doesn't benefit you, why would you think it doesn't benefit those in the relationship?

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Fri 08/31/12 01:03 PM
I am an 18 year old girl, I have knwon about my being a lesbian since I was small. I have tried to date men, be with them, I cant, just as much as any of you can't be with the same sex. Why would a person chose to be made fun of, have their family turn against them, their friends turn their backs on them and be different? I did not want this for a very long time. I have accepted it, I am who I am, I am a lesbian just like some of you are straight. You can't be with the same sex just as much as I can't be with the oposite. I agree its not about choice but what the op said you are just born that way. If people don't like it; they can take a flying leap. That's the whole problem with our society that if you don't go with the flow; then you are an outcast. Screw them. Live your life the way you want to. The only happiness that matters is yours. ok i was trying not to bring god into this disscusion but i must say this. in the bible and in any translation you read no homosexual will enter the kingdom of heaven. we all know god is our creator and the supreme being,right? so if god says no homosexual will enter the kingdom of heaven then make someone gay so he/she cant enter, that makes no since Perhaps to you, but remember that not everyone will have the same religious beliefs you have. Religion is a personal choice. You cannot force anyone to follow the guidelines you follow to get into heaven. no matter what you or anyone says in the end god is the boss. just cause people dont have my belief does not make it not true. there one way to heaven and one mortal being god. he is perfect and knows whats best for us even if we dont And just because you say it's true doesn't make it so. Pushing your beliefs on others isn't going to make them agree with you.

navygirl Joined Sat 06/02/07 Posts: 8118	Fri 08/31/12 01:06 PM Edited by navygirl on Fri 08/31/12 01:11 PM
whats harmful to me about homosexuality is nothing as long as the people involved does not push it on me or start showing afection towards each other i pulic. once a person makes it my business telling me or me seeing it i judge their behavor and choose not to be around it. i want to have fun in life and follow god and i dont want my mind blinded by homosexuality. god is suppose to be number 1 not a persons feelings Well; that being said; do you really think its appropriate for a hetrosexual couple showing public affection either? Whats good for the goose is good for the gander. I think public affaction (to a degree) between unrelated heterosexuals is healthy, being as heterosexual affection is necessary for any of us to be here in the first place to see examples of how we 'start', has a benefit seeing examples of homosexual relations has no said benefit,,, as to the 'public' element, the heterosexual makes it my business when they engage in public acts too but I feel , since its a necessary part of me existing, its not offensive to have to look at heterosexuals 'loving' each other To me; it doesn't matter if the loving couple homosexual or hetrosexual; it wouldn't be offensive. I would rather see a gay couple holding hands than a hetro couple fighting. No one seems to mind some guy bashing his girlfriend in public. Wonder what kind of example that sets for us. Not everything people do has to benefit society. For all we know; maybe its time that we stop procreating and let the earth die. Afterall; we are killing the earth anyways.

styk Joined Sat 11/26/11 Posts: 348	Fri 08/31/12 01:06 PM
my niece is a lesbian,my brother died of aids and he was gay, gayness is a lifestyle! i been around gays most of my life untill my brother died. gay people have bad attitudes usualy. its all a choice alot of times or mostpeople try to jutify this and they know its wrong I don't know many gay people with bad attitudes. Generalizing about an entire group of people doesn't work very well. it might not work well but its totaly true. maybe not all but 94% or more are

navygirl Joined Sat 06/02/07 Posts: 8118	Fri 08/31/12 01:08 PM
my niece is a lesbian,my brother died of aids and he was gay, gayness is a lifestyle! i been around gays most of my life untill my brother died. gay people have bad attitudes usualy. its all a choice alot of times or mostpeople try to jutify this and they know its wrong I don't know many gay people with bad attitudes. Generalizing about an entire group of people doesn't work very well. it might not work well but its totaly true. maybe not all but 94% or more are I don't believe those odds either. People in general can have bad attitudes and one's sexual preference isn't going to change the odds.

oldhippie1952 Joined Mon 03/14/11 Posts: 22693	Fri 08/31/12 01:10 PM
Sorry styk but I've only known one or two homosexuals with bad attitudes. Most seem to want a life is all.

bhernandez Joined Sun 03/21/10 Posts: 14901	Fri 08/31/12 01:11 PM
true, chocolate syrup does taste good and actually COCOA is beneficial, so it may be somewhat beneficial for my body as well,,, an orgasm rids one of anxiety; you have no idea how much my brain appreciates that. therefore if watching two guys or two girls get it on will help me eventually orgasm, i find that quite beneficial.

bhernandez Joined Sun 03/21/10 Posts: 14901	Fri 08/31/12 01:11 PM
Sorry styk but I've only known one or two homosexuals with bad attitudes. hi, i'm b.

navygirl Joined Sat 06/02/07 Posts: 8118	Fri 08/31/12 01:12 PM
Sorry styk but I've only known one or two homosexuals with bad attitudes. Most seem to want a life is all. Words from the wise.

oldhippie1952 Joined Mon 03/14/11 Posts: 22693	Fri 08/31/12 01:13 PM
true, chocolate syrup does taste good and actually COCOA is beneficial, so it may be somewhat beneficial for my body as well,,, an orgasm rids one of anxiety; you have no idea how much my brain appreciates that. therefore if watching two guys or two girls get it on will help me eventually orgasm, i find that quite beneficial. And I thought it was about beards....

Torgo70 Joined Fri 06/27/08 Posts: 27387	Fri 08/31/12 01:13 PM
true, chocolate syrup does taste good and actually COCOA is beneficial, so it may be somewhat beneficial for my body as well,,, an orgasm rids one of anxiety; you have no idea how much my brain appreciates that. therefore if watching two guys or two girls get it on will help me eventually orgasm, i find that quite beneficial. And a happy b is beneficial for all of us!

GreenEyes48 Joined Thu 08/26/10 Posts: 1319	Fri 08/31/12 01:14 PM
whats harmful to me about homosexuality is nothing as long as the people involved does not push it on me or start showing afection towards each other i pulic. once a person makes it my business telling me or me seeing it i judge their behavor and choose not to be around it. i want to have fun in life and follow god and i dont want my mind blinded by homosexuality. god is suppose to be number 1 not a persons feelings Well; that being said; do you really think its appropriate for a hetrosexual couple showing public affection either? Whats good for the goose is good for the gander. As a woman I've sure run into men who tried to push themselves on me. (Starting way back when I went on dates as a teenager.) YUK!

oldhippie1952 Joined Mon 03/14/11 Posts: 22693	Fri 08/31/12 01:15 PM
Sorry styk but I've only known one or two homosexuals with bad attitudes. Most seem to want a life is all. Words from the wise. Now you know I am not wise. Old age and wisdom do not go hand in hand, especially for me!

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Fri 08/31/12 01:15 PM
my niece is a lesbian,my brother died of aids and he was gay, gayness is a lifestyle! i been around gays most of my life untill my brother died. gay people have bad attitudes usualy. its all a choice alot of times or mostpeople try to jutify this and they know its wrong I don't know many gay people with bad attitudes. Generalizing about an entire group of people doesn't work very well. it might not work well but its totaly true. maybe not all but 94% or more are You're going to have to be a bit more specific. 94% or more are what? Where did you get that percentage?

styk Joined Sat 11/26/11 Posts: 348	Fri 08/31/12 01:17 PM
if she is bi thats her personal business. all i am saying is shes not on this post telling everone about her life shes just commiting and posting i dont think you have the right to tell her business to everyone! so you don't want me to tell you what we did last night? and where? nope its none of my business and i dont want to know anyway but i dont think you two did anything

navygirl Joined Sat 06/02/07 Posts: 8118	Fri 08/31/12 01:18 PM
Sorry styk but I've only known one or two homosexuals with bad attitudes. Most seem to want a life is all. Words from the wise. Now you know I am not wise. Old age and wisdom do not go hand in hand, especially for me! Well, I disagree and you shouldn't be hard on yourself. Don't disagree with this navy woman mister. LOL

navygirl Joined Sat 06/02/07 Posts: 8118	Fri 08/31/12 01:19 PM
whats harmful to me about homosexuality is nothing as long as the people involved does not push it on me or start showing afection towards each other i pulic. once a person makes it my business telling me or me seeing it i judge their behavor and choose not to be around it. i want to have fun in life and follow god and i dont want my mind blinded by homosexuality. god is suppose to be number 1 not a persons feelings Well; that being said; do you really think its appropriate for a hetrosexual couple showing public affection either? Whats good for the goose is good for the gander. As a woman I've sure run into men who tried to push themselves on me. (Starting way back when I went on dates as a teenager.) YUK! He He. Yeah; I remember those days too. Its amazing what a kick in the groin area will do to stop it.

oldhippie1952 Joined Mon 03/14/11 Posts: 22693	Fri 08/31/12 01:20 PM
Sorry styk but I've only known one or two homosexuals with bad attitudes. Most seem to want a life is all. Words from the wise. Now you know I am not wise. Old age and wisdom do not go hand in hand, especially for me! Well, I disagree and you shouldn't be hard on yourself. Don't disagree with this navy woman mister. LOL We'll see when Army whips Navy in the football game!