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Topic: Friends or Lovers or Both?
unsure Joined Wed 08/16/06 Posts: 4886	Sun 05/13/12 06:35 AM
Don't get me wrong. I don't mind if the woman has more assets/income than I do. I just need to have some and not spend it all on doctor bills. So you think women need your money?

carold Joined Sun 03/23/08 Posts: 26747	Sun 05/13/12 06:36 AM
I love my friend and he cares for me. Just not going to get married.

oldhippie1952 Joined Mon 03/14/11 Posts: 22693	Sun 05/13/12 07:54 AM
Don't get me wrong. I don't mind if the woman has more assets/income than I do. I just need to have some and not spend it all on doctor bills. So you think women need your money? No, I need my own money.

Charles1962150 Joined Tue 03/13/12 Posts: 3403	Sun 05/13/12 10:56 AM
Don't get me wrong. I don't mind if the woman has more assets/income than I do. I just need to have some and not spend it all on doctor bills. So you think women need your money? I know this is kinda off topic here. But I just have to say, You might would be amazed at the amount of women out there that have good jobs. Some better than men, That talk about being independent and not need a man, But will take a mans money in a heart beat just to keep from spending their own. Dollar a man to death as long as he will let her. I was married to one like that. I've met several since then. I have to admit and be honest, This is one of the main reasons I haven't remarried in all this time. To many that want to keep their's and blow your's if you understand my meaning.

Leigh2154 Joined Sun 10/02/11 Posts: 16479	Sun 05/13/12 11:02 AM
I could never do it...I have to actually LOVE someone before I ever sleep with them. So to me IF someone asked me that...I would not even answer them..I would just walk away and never look back. TURN OFF! I think the only ones that want FWB are people that won't do a committed relationship...I myself am a lady and expect to be treated like one. I want to be the only one...I don't share nicely!!! Lot of truth to this post Unsure....

Ghostrider2u Joined Thu 05/17/07 Posts: 6953	Sun 05/13/12 11:06 AM
yea............. I don't share well...... I'm funny that way!!!!

Charles1962150 Joined Tue 03/13/12 Posts: 3403	Sun 05/13/12 11:07 AM
Charles a lot of us talk and are friends behind the scene. I tried to write you but your setting I can't because of the age requirement on your profile. Just thought I would let you know so if you want to communicate with people on here that are older you have to change it in your settings. And if you don't care to change that is fine no pressure hehe. I fixed it. I think. {:o)

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Sun 05/13/12 12:58 PM
Don't get me wrong. I don't mind if the woman has more assets/income than I do. I just need to have some and not spend it all on doctor bills. So you think women need your money? I know this is kinda off topic here. But I just have to say, You might would be amazed at the amount of women out there that have good jobs. Some better than men, That talk about being independent and not need a man, But will take a mans money in a heart beat just to keep from spending their own. Dollar a man to death as long as he will let her. I was married to one like that. I've met several since then. I have to admit and be honest, This is one of the main reasons I haven't remarried in all this time. To many that want to keep their's and blow your's if you understand my meaning. Many women still think that paying for dates falls on the men. Not all of us think that way when it comes to dating, though. Nor do all of us need someone else's money for anything else.

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Sun 05/13/12 01:01 PM
I could never do it...I have to actually LOVE someone before I ever sleep with them. So to me IF someone asked me that...I would not even answer them..I would just walk away and never look back. TURN OFF! I think the only ones that want FWB are people that won't do a committed relationship...I myself am a lady and expect to be treated like one. I want to be the only one...I don't share nicely!!! So you want to see if they'll wait for you to fall in love before having sex? Awesome for you if they do wait around!

Charles1962150 Joined Tue 03/13/12 Posts: 3403	Sun 05/13/12 01:41 PM
Don't get me wrong. I don't mind if the woman has more assets/income than I do. I just need to have some and not spend it all on doctor bills. So you think women need your money? I know this is kinda off topic here. But I just have to say, You might would be amazed at the amount of women out there that have good jobs. Some better than men, That talk about being independent and not need a man, But will take a mans money in a heart beat just to keep from spending their own. Dollar a man to death as long as he will let her. I was married to one like that. I've met several since then. I have to admit and be honest, This is one of the main reasons I haven't remarried in all this time. To many that want to keep their's and blow your's if you understand my meaning. Many women still think that paying for dates falls on the men. Not all of us think that way when it comes to dating, though. Nor do all of us need someone else's money for anything else. I'm not talking about dating. I'll pay for the date. I prefer it that way. What I am talking about are women who will go out and make bills for the man to pay while she holds on to her money and blows it where she wants. Leaving the man holding the bag for the bills she makes. I was married to a woman like that.Dated a few after her. But not for long.

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Sun 05/13/12 01:44 PM
I'm not talking about dating. I'll pay for the date. I prefer it that way. What I am talking about are women who will go out and make bills for the man to pay while she holds on to her money and blows it where she wants. Leaving the man holding the bag for the bills she makes. I was married to a woman like that.Dated a few after her. But not for long. If you're always paying for them when you go out with them, maybe that gives them the idea you want to pay for more? I'm not sure. I've never assumed a guy is going to pay my bills for any reason.

Leigh2154 Joined Sun 10/02/11 Posts: 16479	Sun 05/13/12 01:48 PM Edited by Leigh2154 on Sun 05/13/12 01:49 PM
I could never do it...I have to actually LOVE someone before I ever sleep with them. So to me IF someone asked me that...I would not even answer them..I would just walk away and never look back. TURN OFF! I think the only ones that want FWB are people that won't do a committed relationship...I myself am a lady and expect to be treated like one. I want to be the only one...I don't share nicely!!! So you want to see if they'll wait for you to fall in love before having sex? Awesome for you if they do wait around! Surely you're not saying a woman has to put out in order to keep a man "waiting" around Sing!

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Sun 05/13/12 01:51 PM
I could never do it...I have to actually LOVE someone before I ever sleep with them. So to me IF someone asked me that...I would not even answer them..I would just walk away and never look back. TURN OFF! I think the only ones that want FWB are people that won't do a committed relationship...I myself am a lady and expect to be treated like one. I want to be the only one...I don't share nicely!!! So you want to see if they'll wait for you to fall in love before having sex? Awesome for you if they do wait around! Surely you're not saying a woman has to put out in order to keep a man "waiting" around Sing! That's not what I said. She's doing what works for her. That's a good thing.

Tizar Joined Sat 04/28/12 Posts: 493	Sun 05/13/12 01:53 PM
All three.

Leigh2154 Joined Sun 10/02/11 Posts: 16479	Sun 05/13/12 01:56 PM
I could never do it...I have to actually LOVE someone before I ever sleep with them. So to me IF someone asked me that...I would not even answer them..I would just walk away and never look back. TURN OFF! I think the only ones that want FWB are people that won't do a committed relationship...I myself am a lady and expect to be treated like one. I want to be the only one...I don't share nicely!!! So you want to see if they'll wait for you to fall in love before having sex? Awesome for you if they do wait around! Surely you're not saying a woman has to put out in order to keep a man "waiting" around Sing! That's not what I said. She's doing what works for her. That's a good thing. Just clarifying.....

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Sun 05/13/12 02:01 PM
Asking me what I meant would have been clarifying.

Leigh2154 Joined Sun 10/02/11 Posts: 16479	Sun 05/13/12 02:07 PM
Asking me what I meant would have been clarifying. Picky, picky, picky....

Tizar Joined Sat 04/28/12 Posts: 493	Sun 05/13/12 02:09 PM
Asking me what I meant would have been clarifying. Picky, picky, picky.... You don't know what picky is, until you have met my family. Sing is a very sweet girl :)

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Sun 05/13/12 02:11 PM
Asking me what I meant would have been clarifying. Picky, picky, picky.... Either way, there's no one way to do things. Waiting to have sex may work for some and not work for others. Just as having sex earlier in a relationship may work for some and not work for others. What I was saying that it was great that the way she preferred to do it works for her. Next time, feel free to ask what I mean, rather than assuming I meant something else.

Leigh2154 Joined Sun 10/02/11 Posts: 16479	Sun 05/13/12 02:12 PM
Asking me what I meant would have been clarifying. Picky, picky, picky.... You don't know what picky is, until you have met my family. Sing is a very sweet girl :) I didn't say she wasn't....