Topic: Friends or Lovers or Both?
galendgirl's photo
Tue 05/08/12 05:50 PM

The problem is most adults can't do it.

If you hump em...love must surely be involved.

I would guess that maybe 5% of the population has enough emotional control to do it. The rest of the crowd are just kidding themselves.


And that's where the heartbreak portion of the program begins!

vivian2981's photo
Tue 05/08/12 05:50 PM

The problem is most adults can't do it.

If you hump em...love must surely be involved.

I would guess that maybe 5% of the population has enough emotional control to do it. The rest of the crowd are just kidding themselves.


I do love my FWB...but just not enough to marry him:wink:

galendgirl's photo
Tue 05/08/12 05:52 PM


The problem is most adults can't do it.

If you hump em...love must surely be involved.

I would guess that maybe 5% of the population has enough emotional control to do it. The rest of the crowd are just kidding themselves.


I do love my FWB...but just not enough to marry him:wink:


A friend and I called it the fear of M&Ms...Marriage and Moving-in...

M&Ms make your butt fat. Just sayin!

vivian2981's photo
Tue 05/08/12 05:54 PM



The problem is most adults can't do it.

If you hump em...love must surely be involved.

I would guess that maybe 5% of the population has enough emotional control to do it. The rest of the crowd are just kidding themselves.


I do love my FWB...but just not enough to marry him:wink:


A friend and I called it the fear of M&Ms...Marriage and Moving-in...

M&Ms make your butt fat. Just sayin!



laugh laugh how true!

oldhippie1952's photo
Tue 05/08/12 05:55 PM


The problem is most adults can't do it.

If you hump em...love must surely be involved.

I would guess that maybe 5% of the population has enough emotional control to do it. The rest of the crowd are just kidding themselves.


I do love my FWB...but just not enough to marry him:wink:


Exactly. And as humans we all have special "needs" only that special partner can cure.

BettyB's photo
Tue 05/08/12 05:56 PM





I guess I'm not a lady....I have no plans to make a commitment. I've had FWB for several years now....nothing wrong with it..at our age, who cares anyway..We don't see each other often at all..his job has him traveling and I travel a lot too..But we have the same interests and are on the same page on most everything...I'm sure not ashamed of it..all my family have met him and everyone likes him.


I completely respect that. Good for you! It took me a long time to get over the notion that "good girls don't and bad girls do" even though I haven't been NEARLY as "bad" as I'd like to be!
bigsmile


ya know...I don't sleep around...but if I wanted to, I guess I still could..my life is my own. I don't have to answer to anyone anymore.. but I date very seldom. All my grandkids want to 'find' me someone and wonders why I don't want anyone for a long term basis. But I've been there, and now am pretty content with my life like it is.

awww viv you are a trollop just admit itlaugh laugh
Seriously ,what you do and with whom is your business,that does not make you any less of a lady then someone who does not like FWBs.
It just boils down to what works for you and what doesn't.
As for myself it doesn't work for me , but that doesn't make me better than you, just different.


Well now Betts, you know I've tried to get you to Texas so I could teach you how to be a trollop too!!tongue2

How do you know it's not for you unless you try it???laugh

I did try it once...didn't work for me. But trollop school sounds like fun:tongue:

vivian2981's photo
Tue 05/08/12 05:57 PM



The problem is most adults can't do it.

If you hump em...love must surely be involved.

I would guess that maybe 5% of the population has enough emotional control to do it. The rest of the crowd are just kidding themselves.


I do love my FWB...but just not enough to marry him:wink:


Exactly. And as humans we all have special "needs" only that special partner can cure.


I agree...but maybe I should have said I love him enough not to marry himlaugh

oldhippie1952's photo
Tue 05/08/12 05:59 PM




The problem is most adults can't do it.

If you hump em...love must surely be involved.

I would guess that maybe 5% of the population has enough emotional control to do it. The rest of the crowd are just kidding themselves.


I do love my FWB...but just not enough to marry him:wink:


Exactly. And as humans we all have special "needs" only that special partner can cure.


I agree...but maybe I should have said I love him enough not to marry himlaugh


:laughing: rofl

galendgirl's photo
Tue 05/08/12 06:00 PM
I'm thinking the male population at the Mingle Meet may go up after reading this thread! LOL!
rofl

vivian2981's photo
Tue 05/08/12 06:01 PM






I guess I'm not a lady....I have no plans to make a commitment. I've had FWB for several years now....nothing wrong with it..at our age, who cares anyway..We don't see each other often at all..his job has him traveling and I travel a lot too..But we have the same interests and are on the same page on most everything...I'm sure not ashamed of it..all my family have met him and everyone likes him.


I completely respect that. Good for you! It took me a long time to get over the notion that "good girls don't and bad girls do" even though I haven't been NEARLY as "bad" as I'd like to be!
bigsmile


ya know...I don't sleep around...but if I wanted to, I guess I still could..my life is my own. I don't have to answer to anyone anymore.. but I date very seldom. All my grandkids want to 'find' me someone and wonders why I don't want anyone for a long term basis. But I've been there, and now am pretty content with my life like it is.

awww viv you are a trollop just admit itlaugh laugh
Seriously ,what you do and with whom is your business,that does not make you any less of a lady then someone who does not like FWBs.
It just boils down to what works for you and what doesn't.
As for myself it doesn't work for me , but that doesn't make me better than you, just different.


Well now Betts, you know I've tried to get you to Texas so I could teach you how to be a trollop too!!tongue2

How do you know it's not for you unless you try it???laugh

I did try it once...didn't work for me. But trollop school sounds like fun:tongue:


I bet it could be!!laugh

vivian2981's photo
Tue 05/08/12 06:02 PM

I'm thinking the male population at the Mingle Meet may go up after reading this thread! LOL!
rofl


ya think? Why??

galendgirl's photo
Tue 05/08/12 06:04 PM


I'm thinking the male population at the Mingle Meet may go up after reading this thread! LOL!
rofl


ya think? Why??


Or the female population thinking there is "school!"
rofl rofl rofl

vivian2981's photo
Tue 05/08/12 06:05 PM



I'm thinking the male population at the Mingle Meet may go up after reading this thread! LOL!
rofl


ya think? Why??


Or the female population thinking there is "school!"
rofl rofl rofl


Maybe Betts will come after all!!!:banana: :banana:

BettyB's photo
Tue 05/08/12 06:08 PM




I'm thinking the male population at the Mingle Meet may go up after reading this thread! LOL!
rofl


ya think? Why??


Or the female population thinking there is "school!"
rofl rofl rofl


Maybe Betts will come after all!!!:banana: :banana:

Shhhh don't interupt me , I am packing and looking for a pen and paper to take notes.

oldhippie1952's photo
Tue 05/08/12 06:14 PM
But betts, I'll give you personal notes.......laugh

vivian2981's photo
Tue 05/08/12 06:15 PM





I'm thinking the male population at the Mingle Meet may go up after reading this thread! LOL!
rofl


ya think? Why??


Or the female population thinking there is "school!"
rofl rofl rofl


Maybe Betts will come after all!!!:banana: :banana:

Shhhh don't interupt me , I am packing and looking for a pen and paper to take notes.


:banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana:

BettyB's photo
Tue 05/08/12 06:18 PM

But betts, I'll give you personal notes.......laugh

Viv as my teacher ,you as my tutor...wow...I will be a first class trollop in no time bigsmile

oldhippie1952's photo
Tue 05/08/12 06:18 PM


The problem is most adults can't do it.

If you hump em...love must surely be involved.

I would guess that maybe 5% of the population has enough emotional control to do it. The rest of the crowd are just kidding themselves.


And that's where the heartbreak portion of the program begins!


For me you have to have some feelings. You just have to control it as Vivian said "enough to not marry them."

Of course, it could wind up in marriage. No different really than being a bf/gf imho that shack up.

vivian2981's photo
Tue 05/08/12 06:19 PM


But betts, I'll give you personal notes.......laugh

Viv as my teacher ,you as my tutor...wow...I will be a first class trollop in no time bigsmile


We'll even give you a Texas Star!!bigsmile

no photo
Tue 05/08/12 06:20 PM

I'm thinking the male population at the Mingle Meet may go up after reading this thread! LOL!
rofl



I'm packing my silk boxers now.