Topic: Mr. / Mrs. / Ms.Lonely
JERMANICUS's photo
Wed 04/04/12 11:52 AM


B is just lonely for a beard.


get me beard!




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Wed 04/04/12 12:00 PM
put it in a box and ship it.
thanks.

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Wed 04/04/12 12:02 PM

put it in a box and ship it.
thanks.


Too late, he's already killed it.

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Wed 04/04/12 12:06 PM
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tease.

TammyA's photo
Wed 04/04/12 12:09 PM


I think lonely people are actually selfish.It is their tendency to keep things up to themself only,to not share anything with others.

They keep thinking about themself only & hence becomes lonely.

They are usually narrowmided & touchy.

They have many expectation from others ,like somebody shall love them all the time,shall ask them repeatedly,why they are not happy...

Don't loneliness reflect selfishness really??



I think that's an enormously inaccurate and unfair blanket statement. People can be lonely for all kinds of reasons, and it doesn't necessarily reflect a higher level of selfishness or self-absorption.

As for the tendency to keep things to oneself, it may just happen that someone has no one to share these things with.

And maybe your contention that they only think of themselves is mitigated somewhat by the idea that many of them might, instead, be thinking about someone else, someone they wish they could share their life with....




Thank you!

prashant01's photo
Wed 04/04/12 12:17 PM



I think lonely people are actually selfish.It is their tendency to keep things up to themself only,to not share anything with others.

They keep thinking about themself only & hence becomes lonely.

They are usually narrowmided & touchy.

They have many expectation from others ,like somebody shall love them all the time,shall ask them repeatedly,why they are not happy...

Don't loneliness reflect selfishness really??



I think that's an enormously inaccurate and unfair blanket statement. People can be lonely for all kinds of reasons, and it doesn't necessarily reflect a higher level of selfishness or self-absorption.

As for the tendency to keep things to oneself, it may just happen that someone has no one to share these things with.

And maybe your contention that they only think of themselves is mitigated somewhat by the idea that many of them might, instead, be thinking about someone else, someone they wish they could share their life with....




Thank you!


You are welcomehappy



Just 3 yet..

josie68's photo
Wed 04/04/12 02:55 PM
Edited by josie68 on Wed 04/04/12 03:00 PM

I think lonely people are actually selfish.It is their tendency to keep things up to themself only,to not share anything with others.

They keep thinking about themself only & hence becomes lonely.

They are usually narrowmided & touchy.

They have many expectation from others ,like somebody shall love them all the time,shall ask them repeatedly,why they are not happy...

Don't loneliness reflect selfishness really??



Hmmm nope. I can't agree.

Perhaps like everything, that is why some people are lonely, but its just a generalization.

it could be due to dissability, life's circumstances, remoteness, anything, perhaps they are overly shy, cannot cummunicate well.

Who knows, we are all so very different, nobody really fits in a little box that we can say they are all the same.

JERMANICUS's photo
Wed 04/04/12 02:59 PM
It took me 3 months to grow that beard and less than a minute to shave it off something felt wrong about that?

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Wed 04/04/12 03:15 PM
No.

You can be perfectly selfless and be utterly alone.

prashant01's photo
Thu 04/05/12 10:07 AM
Edited by prashant01 on Thu 04/05/12 10:16 AM


I think lonely people are actually selfish.It is their tendency to keep things up to themself only,to not share anything with others.

They keep thinking about themself only & hence becomes lonely.

They are usually narrowmided & touchy.

They have many expectation from others ,like somebody shall love them all the time,shall ask them repeatedly,why they are not happy...

Don't loneliness reflect selfishness really??



Hmmm nope. I can't agree.

Perhaps like everything, that is why some people are lonely, but its just a generalization.

it could be due to dissability, life's circumstances, remoteness, anything, perhaps they are overly shy, cannot cummunicate well.

Who knows, we are all so very different, nobody really fits in a little box that we can say they are all the same.



If my dissability,life's circumstances,overly shy makes me lonely then don't it mean that it is due to my excess thinking about myself?

Instead of thinking too much for myself,if I'm thinking about other under given circumstances,if I share their sorrow,joy,If I try to make them happy,then will I remain alone?

Mani0202's photo
Thu 04/05/12 08:12 PM
According to you some people are lonely because they only think of themselves. According to me some people are lonely because they drive others away with their so called theories that sound so smart, but are nothing but BS. And try spell-check once in a while. And no I am not selfish and I do get lonely sometimes, I do plenty for others!!

Bravalady's photo
Thu 04/05/12 10:52 PM

I think lonely people are actually selfish.It is their tendency to keep things up to themself only,to not share anything with others.

They keep thinking about themself only & hence becomes lonely.

They are usually narrowmided & touchy.

They have many expectation from others ,like somebody shall love them all the time,shall ask them repeatedly,why they are not happy...

Don't loneliness reflect selfishness really??


Whoa. Way to make friends, there.

You mean you've never been lonely in your entire d*&$%# life? Maybe you're young.

Geez.

Beachfarmer's photo
Fri 04/06/12 01:11 AM
so what does this have to do with "ME"?

Kaleijoscope's photo
Fri 04/06/12 03:27 AM


B is just lonely for a beard.


get me beard!

beard's on the way.,be happy now,B!

Kaleijoscope's photo
Fri 04/06/12 03:34 AM

so what does this have to do with "ME"?

ha!ha!ha! good one,bf! I like it!

prashant01's photo
Fri 04/06/12 09:51 AM

According to you some people are lonely because they only think of themselves. According to me some people are lonely because they drive others away with their so called theories that sound so smart, but are nothing but BS. And try spell-check once in a while. And no I am not selfish and I do get lonely sometimes, I do plenty for others!!

Hey there,Thanks for spell check advice "NARROW MINDED" (Correctedhappy )
I'll also like to advice you something: Putting AND after full stop isn't good english,so try improving your grammar pl.

Coming to the main subject,Yes,you too are true,but it was not my point.

It's good that you do plenty for others and don't worry, everyone gets lonely at least for some time in life span,not necessary that they are always selfish.

prashant01's photo
Fri 04/06/12 10:18 AM

Whoa. Way to make friends, there.

You mean you've never been lonely in your entire d*&$%# life? Maybe you're young.

Geez.


huh
That is nasty response.

Everyone becomes lonely at least for some time in their life span,it don't mean that the person is lonely by nature.

As I'm not lonely & as I'm all the way loyal to every relationship I had, so I don't need to be tricky like this to get friends,I wonder,people think this way too!slaphead

I'm 34 years OLD & will like to notify you that you are unnecessarily personalizing the topic to me which is not good practice.Please comment only on the topic,don't personalize.


prashant01's photo
Fri 04/06/12 10:22 AM


so what does this have to do with "ME"?

ha!ha!ha! good one,bf! I like it!


Absolutely NOTHING.
Don't post if you aren't interested in topic.
It is that simple!!

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Fri 04/06/12 10:33 AM
That post had everything to do with the topic. Not everyone feels like being serious with every single answer in every single thread. Also, the instant you posted the topic you made it about you, as after all you would not have posted something that was not a part of your belief system on some level.

Loneliness? = Selfishness? = Poppycock.

prashant01's photo
Fri 04/06/12 10:44 AM

That post had everything to do with the topic. Not everyone feels like being serious with every single answer in every single thread. Also, the instant you posted the topic you made it about you, as after all you would not have posted something that was not a part of your belief system on some level.

Loneliness? = Selfishness? = Poppycock.


Do you mean to say that whatever you post is apart from your belief system????