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Topic: Should heavy set people wear tight clothes?
Cheer_up Joined Tue 11/02/10 Posts: 3269	Mon 03/12/12 01:11 PM
You post a thread asking if heavy set women should wear tight clothes and you blame someone else for trying to stir things up? Riiiight. well if you read it i asked only opinions if people should wear tight clothes i didnt type it to offend no 1 lolll but you seemed upset with the post lol but thats ok:) sorry didnt mean to offend you :) I pretty much said the same as others. Though, I did suggest you not look at the women you're talking about if it offended you to see them in tight clothes. I fail to see why I should be offended by this thread, though. nope lol you were talking about a thread with with a necklace others were not and others gave a opinion you asked with a ? mark so you were different 100% lol and thats right you should not be offended and i never said it offended me a woman in tight clothes its up to a person what they want to wear see i think you jump your gun to fast lol and judge a person by a question for a opinion and don't even know the person what is very sad :) but its ok i forgive you my friend have a good day

Cheer_up Joined Tue 11/02/10 Posts: 3269	Mon 03/12/12 01:13 PM
I feel people should wear what makes them happy. i agree but i also think some clothes that are loser fit look alot better on heavier people then tight :)

josie68 Joined Mon 11/22/10 Posts: 6270	Tue 03/13/12 05:44 AM
To me it doesnt really make a difference. I like loose and baggy and I am not heavyset, it''s what I feel comfy in, if I was larger i would still wear the same, simply because it''s what I normally wear, without I am going out and the kiddies want me to dress up. Then I will put something tighter on. But really If someone is comfortable in tight and they like how they look. Thats cool to me, do they look better in something else, maybe, but I love daggy overalls with pooh bear on them, would i look better in something else, Definately. but really i dont care, I am comfortable in them. Thats all that matters.

pyxxie13 Joined Wed 09/28/11 Posts: 3835	Tue 03/13/12 06:05 AM
I feel people should wear what makes them happy. i agree but i also think some clothes that are loser fit look alot better on heavier people then tight :) And that is fine. However that becomes your opinion now. My opinion shouldn't matter on peoples happiness. Because of how I feel... I would not want someone to change who they are.

TxsGal3333 Joined Tue 09/05/06 Posts: 76393	Tue 03/13/12 07:12 AM
I feel people should wear what makes them happy. i agree but i also think some clothes that are loser fit look alot better on heavier people then tight :) Hummm that might be true but it is up to them what they wear and how they feel in it...Unless one starts buying their clothes for them then they have no call in what they do wear....

pennyg281 Joined Thu 11/08/07 Posts: 4348	Tue 03/13/12 07:32 AM
People should wear what makes them comfortable. No matter what their size.

msharmony Joined Mon 08/31/09 Posts: 61041	Tue 03/13/12 07:40 AM
i Just curious on everyones opinion :) should heavy set people wear tight clothes or lose? what do you all think? I think it looks kind of tacky, just like people wearing their pants hanging off their behinds or their dresses so short or pants so TIGHT you can see their butt cheeks when they sit or bend but, thats still a personal choice so I tend not to go places where they may be dressed like that,,,and if I run across it I focus on something else,,,

msharmony Joined Mon 08/31/09 Posts: 61041	Tue 03/13/12 07:40 AM
i Just curious on everyones opinion :) should heavy set people wear tight clothes or lose? what do you all think? I think it looks kind of tacky, just like people wearing their pants hanging off their behinds or their dresses so short or pants so TIGHT you can see their butt cheeks when they sit or bend but, thats still a personal choice so I tend not to go places where they may be dressed like that,,,and if I run across it I focus on something else,,,

Unknow Joined Thu 04/01/10 Posts: 1482	Tue 03/13/12 12:12 PM
i Just curious on everyones opinion :) should heavy set people wear tight clothes or lose? what do you all think? now ya went and did it Olly, you just sucked all the fun out of Walmart, that was the high point of my Saturday a visit to Walmart to see what the latest fashion trends are. Seriously? until you have been drafted to the fashion police force it's probably better that you take the stance," different strokes for different folks"

PacificStar48 Joined Tue 10/02/07 Posts: 13764	Tue 03/13/12 01:45 PM
I don't know I am comfortable with the only choices offerred. While I tend to like loose clothes myself; and that has been a life long choice from when I was painfully skinny to at one point uncomfrtably heavy I think it was probably as inappropriate as tight clothes would be. Rarely have I worried about style unless it is a special occassion or safety issue. Do I find a heavier person more appealing in more form fitting clothes more attractive? Yes. Especially if the style is cut and great fabric or color. If the look is too baggy it just looks sloppy to me, Or even worse like the ganster or clown or pajama look . I like a stocky build be it male or female. Just like I like a heavier beard on a man. Or now that I am over 50 grey hair. I will add I get sooooooh frusterated in the hideous styles and poor quality of clothing that passes as larger size clothes. The porportions are a joke, usually they are devoid of any kind of ryme or reason to what would compliment the body or use. And they are unreasonably more expensive. You rarely can find age appropriate or even "sexy" clothes in larger sizes. And shopping if you are a larger size, use durable medical equipment, or need assistance is misery in it's own right so it is no wonder that many just do the minimum to dress and say to heck with it. Especially when people of size are rarely deemed worthy of a compliment if when they do and often still made the target of such hatred wheater they do or don't. In all fairness I do not see the OP's question is abusive. If he ask the same question about a medium PERSON wearing loose or tight clothes it would have barely caused a ripple.

RKISIT Joined Tue 01/08/08 Posts: 16721	Tue 03/13/12 01:58 PM
If it wasn't for "heavy set" people in tight clothes the historical term "OMG" never would have came to be until 70's porn.

Cheer_up Joined Tue 11/02/10 Posts: 3269	Tue 03/13/12 01:58 PM
To me it doesnt really make a difference. I like loose and baggy and I am not heavyset, it''s what I feel comfy in, if I was larger i would still wear the same, simply because it''s what I normally wear, without I am going out and the kiddies want me to dress up. Then I will put something tighter on. But really If someone is comfortable in tight and they like how they look. Thats cool to me, do they look better in something else, maybe, but I love daggy overalls with pooh bear on them, would i look better in something else, Definately. but really i dont care, I am comfortable in them. Thats all that matters. good to see you my friend oh come on now you look good in anything lollllll but i think its up to person your right

Cheer_up Joined Tue 11/02/10 Posts: 3269	Tue 03/13/12 02:01 PM
I feel people should wear what makes them happy. i agree but i also think some clothes that are loser fit look alot better on heavier people then tight :) Hummm that might be true but it is up to them what they wear and how they feel in it...Unless one starts buying their clothes for them then they have no call in what they do wear.... loll i not telling no 1 what to wear anyone can wear what they like lolllll i just saying some really tight clothes on a heavy person does not look as nice as some well fit clothing :) lol thats all

Cheer_up Joined Tue 11/02/10 Posts: 3269	Tue 03/13/12 02:02 PM
People should wear what makes them comfortable. No matter what their size. i agree if you happy wear what you like:)

Cheer_up Joined Tue 11/02/10 Posts: 3269	Tue 03/13/12 02:07 PM
i Just curious on everyones opinion :) should heavy set people wear tight clothes or lose? what do you all think? I think it looks kind of tacky, just like people wearing their pants hanging off their behinds or their dresses so short or pants so TIGHT you can see their butt cheeks when they sit or bend but, thats still a personal choice so I tend not to go places where they may be dressed like that,,,and if I run across it I focus on something else,,, i understand what you saying :) well see i think some not sure what to wear and then if you offer a suggestion they take it the wrong way like you criticize them when your not oh well:)

Bushidobillyclub Joined Fri 05/11/07 Posts: 5689	Tue 03/13/12 02:08 PM
People should wear what they're comfortable wearing. If you don't like what someone is wearing, don't look at them? We have a winner. Where what ya like. The end.

Cheer_up Joined Tue 11/02/10 Posts: 3269	Tue 03/13/12 02:09 PM
If it wasn't for "heavy set" people in tight clothes the historical term "OMG" never would have came to be until 70's porn. sorry that was funny thou the way you said it OMG lolllllll

Cheer_up Joined Tue 11/02/10 Posts: 3269	Tue 03/13/12 02:12 PM
People should wear what they're comfortable wearing. If you don't like what someone is wearing, don't look at them? We have a winner. Where what ya like. The end. yes people do wear what they like i asking i asking what you thinks better in your opinion so you think anything then lolllll

Cheer_up Joined Tue 11/02/10 Posts: 3269	Tue 03/13/12 02:15 PM
I don't know I am comfortable with the only choices offerred. While I tend to like loose clothes myself; and that has been a life long choice from when I was painfully skinny to at one point uncomfrtably heavy I think it was probably as inappropriate as tight clothes would be. Rarely have I worried about style unless it is a special occassion or safety issue. Do I find a heavier person more appealing in more form fitting clothes more attractive? Yes. Especially if the style is cut and great fabric or color. If the look is too baggy it just looks sloppy to me, Or even worse like the ganster or clown or pajama look . I like a stocky build be it male or female. Just like I like a heavier beard on a man. Or now that I am over 50 grey hair. I will add I get sooooooh frusterated in the hideous styles and poor quality of clothing that passes as larger size clothes. The porportions are a joke, usually they are devoid of any kind of ryme or reason to what would compliment the body or use. And they are unreasonably more expensive. You rarely can find age appropriate or even "sexy" clothes in larger sizes. And shopping if you are a larger size, use durable medical equipment, or need assistance is misery in it's own right so it is no wonder that many just do the minimum to dress and say to heck with it. Especially when people of size are rarely deemed worthy of a compliment if when they do and often still made the target of such hatred wheater they do or don't. In all fairness I do not see the OP's question is abusive. If he ask the same question about a medium PERSON wearing loose or tight clothes it would have barely caused a ripple. well thanks for your comment here:)

Cheer_up Joined Tue 11/02/10 Posts: 3269	Tue 03/13/12 02:18 PM
i Just curious on everyones opinion :) should heavy set people wear tight clothes or lose? what do you all think? now ya went and did it Olly, you just sucked all the fun out of Walmart, that was the high point of my Saturday a visit to Walmart to see what the latest fashion trends are. Seriously? until you have been drafted to the fashion police force it's probably better that you take the stance," different strokes for different folks" lollllll honestly its up to people how they dress and if a person ask me a opinion on clothes i can help but believe me i never tell a person they have to wear anything lolllll but thanks for your opinion lolll:)