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Might I just allow you folks to hear my open thoughts here,and PLEASE,,feel free to comment and let me know yours.
I cannot tell you how many times I have tried and email someone here a short message as to something they may have posted,,or said in a reply on a post. (it could be they need a prayer or a boost in moral- just to say welcome here, or anything OTHER than I'm HITTING ON THEM,lol) And after typing it all out,,and hitting send,, I get the message telling me that their preferences, STOPPED me sending them my thoughts? Now,,I fully understand that we all only wish to be hit on,lol, THROUGH someone only fitting OUR PREFERENCES. HOWEVER,,The MANY who I have had THIS happen with, are NOT a person I am HITTING ON, Just sending some kind words to. NOW,,when THAT happens to me,,I may have invested five minutes to find THAT out,,and then,,there is no way short of speaking to them on a post,,to let them know that? SO NOW,,this was written to discuss this and see what you folks think here,,,and MOSTLY,,to be telling THIS,,in a GROUP FORMAT, so the ones who might not remember they have THAT stopping others from writing to them,,might then look and check what they have AS their prefrences NOW showing? My last one,,was because I was a smoker,,in MY profile to be read, I guess?,,because MOST times,,its my age here...lol And FRIENDS,,,don't really have an age barier with me,,as to just be a friend on here? So,,ANY thoughts to ADD? 
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i don't know what i dislike more.
ALL CAPS LOCK. or just SOME caps lock every NOW and then. :p quit trying to be nice and say stuff to people. they're all ungrateful bastards. |
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I thought I would give another perspective.
I have NO preferences, and NO age limitations. (I think it says 18 to 300 or somesuch.) For the specific reason, that I can contact, and be contacted by, anyone from the forums. Here is what I get: 'What kind of sicko are you, thinking an 18 year-old would want you?' Or. 'You must be pretty desperate for company..' Occasionally I will reply with an explanation. usually not, too much red-flag, early anger expressed. But, I take your point, always have. No parameters gets one a whole lot of extra mail. If you are a forum member, I recommend it. |
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i don't know what i dislike more. ALL CAPS LOCK. or just SOME caps lock every NOW and then. :p quit trying to be nice and say stuff to people. they're all ungrateful bastards.  WELL I STILL HAVE MY DIGNITY,,  i think,,somewhere,,around here..... 
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Welcome to the club!
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Ahh just do what I do. Friend request them. Then you can add a message to the request. They will either block ya or reply.
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Edited by
MrDolla
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Mon 01/23/12 12:41 PM
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What I hate most that I've experienced alot more on other places like POF is people with weird age preferences.
Like I've had girls who MY AGE go and click those things that say they are intereted meeting me and then I go to msg them and I find out that have their profiles set so only guys who are say 21 - 26 yrs of age can msg them?? It's like you seriously couldn't have just said guys between the ages of 20-29? Like I realize being 20 and 21 is a major difference.... anyways end of my rant. And btw Im in Canada now I just havent changed my profile on here. But so legal age isn't 21 here for those who might point that out as a reason :P But yes I have noticed it can be frustrating with preferences sometimes. |
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I thought I would give another perspective. I have NO preferences, and NO age limitations. (I think it says 18 to 300 or somesuch.) For the specific reason, that I can contact, and be contacted by, anyone from the forums. Here is what I get: 'What kind of sicko are you, thinking an 18 year-old would want you?' Or. 'You must be pretty desperate for company..' Occasionally I will reply with an explanation. usually not, too much red-flag, early anger expressed. But, I take your point, always have. No parameters gets one a whole lot of extra mail. If you are a forum member, I recommend it. I have went around them,,with sending them a friends request and putting my email to them within THAT,,and that works,,but much more involved than I really wanted to be,,with a simple,,pick me up,,nice job,,phrase for them to feel...lol Its just something I felt others here might enjoy talking about..? |
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Mr. Trucker.
I saw a femme on here once. She was pretty freaking hot. So, I was intending to work my charm.. Then.. I realized it'd never work. I wasn't 27. (only age you could be to write her) I wasn't a non-smoker. I wasn't kid-less. I wasn't religious. I wasn't over 6' tall. Now, as retarded as those 'specifications' sound.. Meh. Who cares. If you expect to find your significant other, soul mate, etc, I hope not everyone is as dense to believe they are going to be the same exact age. Flirting side out of it.. For friendship/words of encouragement. You can do the whole friend request, and put your thoughts into the request.. or.. ...just ignore them. Seriously, why stress it? The people that have that many restrictions and are quote 'looking for friends' unquote, are actually borderline psychotic in their own way.. Steer clear. |
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i don't know what i dislike more. ALL CAPS LOCK. or just SOME caps lock every NOW and then. :p quit trying to be nice and say stuff to people. they're all ungrateful bastards. WELL I STILL HAVE MY DIGNITY,, i think,,somewhere,,around here..... Easy big fella, I don't think she was going for the jugular on that one (then again)  , haven't you notice "b" uses a different emocon when she's on a "take no prisoners mission ". 
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Can you not write it onto their testimonial page, instead, then? That's what i'd do, if i couldn't contact them. Or maybe put it in the 'Well Wishes/ Announcements' thread.
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Humm I have no preference on who can e-mail but that is cause I'm not looking for anyone and due to being a Mod can't really knock anyone out from e-mailing me...
But if I was only here to look for that certain one then yeah I would put the limit out there and weed them out from the beginning....
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Can you not write it onto their testimonial page, instead, then? That's what i'd do, if i couldn't contact them. Or maybe put it in the 'Well Wishes/ Announcements' thread. You can only write on their testimonial page if your on their friends list... About the only thing you can do is send them a friends request that will go through even if your not in their age bracket...
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Mr. Trucker. I saw a femme on here once. She was pretty freaking hot. So, I was intending to work my charm.. Then.. I realized it'd never work. I wasn't 27. (only age you could be to write her) I wasn't a non-smoker. I wasn't kid-less. I wasn't religious. I wasn't over 6' tall. Now, as retarded as those 'specifications' sound.. Meh. Who cares. If you expect to find your significant other, soul mate, etc, I hope not everyone is as dense to believe they are going to be the same exact age. Flirting side out of it.. For friendship/words of encouragement. You can do the whole friend request, and put your thoughts into the request.. or.. ...just ignore them. Seriously, why stress it? The people that have that many restrictions and are quote 'looking for friends' unquote, are actually borderline psychotic in their own way.. Steer clear. But alas,,I'm not here for just assss, and many, many five minute writes, all lost, in their lights. So I wonder on,,as my words were never read. And I know, they wouldn't care, if I dropped dead. Just a moment to raise their smiles high. Yet stopped without even being told, GOODBYE.. Words of wisdom Bro,,and I don't stay on it. Just thought I'd post this, as ALSO,,many who I did go through with being their friends later, and discussing this. THEY never realized,,THEY HAD THAT STILL THERE AS A preferences?,,  WOMEN? What ya gonna do??? |
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Can you not write it onto their testimonial page, instead, then? That's what i'd do, if i couldn't contact them. Or maybe put it in the 'Well Wishes/ Announcements' thread. You can only write on their testimonial page if your on their friends list... About the only thing you can do is send them a friends request that will go through even if your not in their age bracket... Oh. At least we know now :) |
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Edited by
Teditis
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Mon 01/23/12 02:25 PM
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Might I just allow you folks to hear my open thoughts here,and PLEASE,,feel free to comment and let me know yours. I cannot tell you how many times I have tried and email someone here a short message as to something they may have posted,,or said in a reply on a post. (it could be they need a prayer or a boost in moral- just to say welcome here, or anything OTHER than I'm HITTING ON THEM,lol) And after typing it all out,,and hitting send,, I get the message telling me that their preferences, STOPPED me sending them my thoughts? Now,,I fully understand that we all only wish to be hit on,lol, THROUGH someone only fitting OUR PREFERENCES. HOWEVER,,The MANY who I have had THIS happen with, are NOT a person I am HITTING ON, Just sending some kind words to. NOW,,when THAT happens to me,,I may have invested five minutes to find THAT out,,and then,,there is no way short of speaking to them on a post,,to let them know that? SO NOW,,this was written to discuss this and see what you folks think here,,,and MOSTLY,,to be telling THIS,,in a GROUP FORMAT, so the ones who might not remember they have THAT stopping others from writing to them,,might then look and check what they have AS their prefrences NOW showing? My last one,,was because I was a smoker,,in MY profile to be read, I guess?,,because MOST times,,its my age here...lol And FRIENDS,,,don't really have an age barier with me,,as to just be a friend on here? So,,ANY thoughts to ADD? Sometimes I fix my dog some food.... no cheffing involved, but I work at it, see? Then... she doesn't eat! What can I do? Generally I go to bed... she does too... eats that food for breakfast. The sun rises then sets again. Does that sound overly retarded T? |
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I always write something lovely like "Hey! I just pee'd on your leg cause I couldn't send you an email due to the fact that you have preferences". I put this in their testimonial, and end with "Have a Coke and a smile. Peace out"!
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Here is what I get: 'What kind of sicko are you, thinking an 18 year-old would want you?' apparently,,,they have not seen the adoption perks ;) i suppose some people actually use this as a dating site, so an email from someone outside of their preferences would be,,,unproductive? lol i hardly doubt you really let it 'grrrrrrrrr' you, do you?? feel free to email me your response :P |
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I can tell you where you f**ked up...
"anything OTHER than I AM NOT HITTING ON THEM. lol" Why would the bother if they ain't at least getting to flirt? They may as well be getting an email from a disant cousin that they got no shot at. Flirt with em Damnit! It works! |
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I have had people post to a thread to me that they had tried to msg me and since I'm too lazy to figure out what parameter prevented their message - I just message them first so they can reply
yes it is mos def the lazy approach but has worked so far. I don;t have any real qualms about whomever messaging me....cuz u can always block someone if they turn out to have 3 heads |
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