Community > Dating & Relationships

Previous 1 2 3 4 5 Next

Topic: Do woman change after marriage
WatchingUwatchME Joined Mon 06/27/11 Posts: 49	Mon 01/02/12 06:35 AM
I once thought of getting a ring 4 my babies mother but What are the benefits to getting married?

MisKim323 Joined Sat 06/28/08 Posts: 14563	Mon 01/02/12 07:08 AM
No to mention, it makes a woman feel loved and respected.

oldhippie1952 Joined Mon 03/14/11 Posts: 22693	Mon 01/02/12 07:31 AM
Women/men don't change, you just learn all their little quirks.

Ruth34611 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 32402	Mon 01/02/12 07:58 AM
EVERYONE changes. It's just the nature of being human.

WatchingUwatchME Joined Mon 06/27/11 Posts: 49	Mon 01/02/12 07:59 AM
ive never really had a great example of a good marriage in my family so i wasnt able to reconize its importance in a relationship because us stupid men 4 some reason believe their is someone perfect, unstead of putting in the effort for negotiation with the one youre with, if you dont say whats wrong how are you going to ALWAYS assume someone is suppose to just know

boonedoggy61 Joined Fri 09/09/11 Posts: 10425	Mon 01/02/12 08:08 AM
Yep!!!!

tazzops Joined Sat 12/20/08 Posts: 33333	Mon 01/02/12 08:09 AM


MariahsFantasy Joined Mon 11/28/11 Posts: 6593	Mon 01/02/12 08:15 AM
Women/men don't change, you just learn all their little quirks. I feel like this sums it up. I don't know people who really change quite honestly. We're always ourselves no matter who attempts to change us.

Ladylid2012 Joined Sun 07/05/09 Posts: 42269	Mon 01/02/12 08:36 AM
When were living separate then marry and live together...it's different! It's not so much we 'change' as our situation changes, we flow with it. Is not always a bad thing.

Leigh2154 Joined Sun 10/02/11 Posts: 16479	Mon 01/02/12 08:37 AM
I once thought of getting a ring 4 my babies mother but What are the benefits to getting married? Well, if you marry "just' to get a mother for you 4 children, she will change....into an indentured servant....

msharmony Joined Mon 08/31/09 Posts: 61041	Mon 01/02/12 09:54 AM
I should hope we are all changing everyday in some small ways with new information, experiences, and knowledge,,,

teadipper Joined Wed 10/19/11 Posts: 2732	Tue 01/03/12 10:14 AM
I know men change...at least mine did, after marriage. I was expected to become his mother. Not just the cooking and cleaning and full time job as well.... but really he thought my view of life would shift to what his mothers was. His mother was beaten regularly by his father btw. My view was definately different than hers. "I DON'T WANT TO BE YOUR MOTHER, I DIDN'T CARRY YOU IN MY WOMB FOR 9 MONTHS......."

teadipper Joined Wed 10/19/11 Posts: 2732	Tue 01/03/12 10:16 AM
I seriously don't even know what to say to this one. Speechless is a rare mode in Terri. My guy friends would have gotten a ring the second someone they loved peed on as stick and two lines showed up so I don't have a frame of reference...............

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Thu 01/05/12 12:20 AM
I seriously don't even know what to say to this one. Speechless is a rare mode in Terri. My guy friends would have gotten a ring the second someone they loved peed on as stick and two lines showed up so I don't have a frame of reference............... we don't always agree but I gotta say you nailed it this time chick if u don't love her OP, don't get married - love is the only criteria and the only benefit you can expect - otherwise - let her find someone who will love her - it sounds as tho she deserves that chance....jmho

Swimforrealsgirl Joined Thu 05/03/07 Posts: 399	Thu 01/05/12 12:31 AM
Marriage is a beautiful thing. If you're "feeling" it and know it's right...go for it. Was married once.......and wouldn't hesitate to do it again!

TxsGal3333 Joined Tue 09/05/06 Posts: 76433	Thu 01/05/12 09:26 AM
Makes me wonder why someone always thinks that they should benefit from actions they take. Whether it be marriage or anything... Everyone changes through life and no one is perfect! How can one expect someone perfect when they have flaws themselves?

josie68 Joined Mon 11/22/10 Posts: 6270	Thu 01/05/12 01:07 PM
I once thought of getting a ring 4 my babies mother but What are the benefits to getting married? Everyone has there own reasons for wanting to get married, if you dont have reasons but are looking for some, its probably best to wait until you want to get married.

RainbowTrout Joined Fri 04/06/07 Posts: 13869	Thu 01/05/12 03:26 PM
I once thought of getting a ring 4 my babies mother but What are the benefits to getting married? It would be best if it was your and the mother's decision to get married. Most women I have noticed really like the ring. A lot of men do, too. My last wife was really fond of her's as I was fond of mine. It is different when it is something you both want to do. I take it that marriage is like a state of mind for you as you claim your children already. It is like you claim the children but not her. Maybe, I am reading too much into it.

Bravalady Joined Sun 01/01/12 Posts: 1034	Thu 01/05/12 04:04 PM
I once thought of getting a ring 4 my babies mother but What are the benefits to getting married? It would be best if it was your and the mother's decision to get married. Most women I have noticed really like the ring. A lot of men do, too. My last wife was really fond of her's as I was fond of mine. It is different when it is something you both want to do. I take it that marriage is like a state of mind for you as you claim your children already. It is like you claim the children but not her. Maybe, I am reading too much into it. Where's the Like button?

indianadave4 Joined Wed 02/09/11 Posts: 1308	Thu 01/05/12 06:30 PM
I've heard it said that: 1. Women marry, hoping to eventually change him but he doesn't change. 2. Men marry, hoping she'll never change but she changes. Especially after kids.