I don't understand. Why is it that almost every woman or girl you feel like helping will see it as if you just want her to pay you back with sex? It really embarrasses me.

If they respond to you that way it is probably because that has been their experience in the past.

I could never understand a women! But i can understand tomboys

When I was younger, one of my male cousin's sat me down and told me that there is no such thing as a favour from a guy, if he does you a favour, he's usually going to want something in return at a later stage. Ever since then I've been wary of "nice" guys who want to help me out. That being said, not all guys are the same. It's just that sometimes it's hard to pick out the wolf amongst the sheep.

Not all women think this way. Just as not all men are helping out women in hopes of getting sex in return. Generalizing about the entire gender just doesn't work.

well they can think it all they want but I am not paying them back with sex....maybe a meal or a return favor - or even money if they incurred expenses helping me or they are helping me in their professional capacity for a service I would have had to pay for somewhere else

I have little cause to have men help me, actually

around here they stand and watch me do things like load my bike on the bike rack (and put the rack on my car) carry heavy bags of groceries and equipment.....maybe I'll invite them to take a picture

but it's OK - if I need someone's help and they are standing around, I will ask

I hope you find the right one who will help you out sometimes just as you help her out sometimes.

because it is the case more often than not..

I have trouble understanding how other people think. I had seen a lot of embarrassed people. Its okay to get embarrassed. I wouldn't let it bother you. Happens to me all the time.

No Offence. I think its the Vibe u get from the person.
Majority of women, atleast the ones i know, think like that..... and yes off course, statistically men have a bad record at doing selfless favors.

I don't know ANYone who thinks like that.
How awful for you.
Mostly.

That has been my experience as well.

That is because most women are crazier than hell.........

I have not had this happen to me. I suppose I know normal people who do not think this way. I feel bad for you.

There is a few women i helped and i with they would of payed me back with sex lol,hmmm instead i got payed back with nothing at all.

So you're mad that you help them, but you get nothing in return?

Tell the woman or girl that we all have to
give back. One way or another.

Tell her that we each contribute to society
and for the veneral good of all the way we
are able to.

Tell her that she is going to feel good
about this the next morning, and you hope
she won't disrespect you for it.

Tell her giving is better than receiving.

This is the sort of way of thinking a guy with a lot of money likes to know about which girl on this site has it.

I never set a trap in my life, coz I don't have any social skills. But I can see one, or the ones I can't fall into (coz I have the wrong shoe size or circumfence or something or other).

:red: :pink flamingoes: :white picket fence: :nyeh: :neener, reener:.

I know...

"If it wasn't for nothing at all, then I would get paid nothing at all for the favours I grant."