Love always hurt in a good way or bad. It will hurt you. We cant deny this fact. When your inlove, the probability is high that you'll be hurted. Practically there are situations in life when you find out the truth. There are ways you can go through the pain. Be strong from inside, meditation n yoga helps to make person calm n emotionally balanced. But we are humans n its sometimes difficult to control emotions. Like BettyB says,' Love only hurts you if you let it' thats easy to say, but its difficult to not get hurt. If you find your soulmate(which may not exist) then we can say love doesnt hurt. Maybe we all know the answer but cant express it here. Love is complicated.

Well, I do hope there is enough under
that kilt to satisfy a lusty wench
such as yourself.

I saw Sean Connery interviewd on a show
wearing a kilt.
The interviewer said, 'What, if I may ask,
do you wear under your kilt?'
Sean Connery, without batting an eye
said 'Just my wife's lipstick..'

Hey comeon....dont be so serious dear!!

I can understand its difficult to control your mind but its not impossible at all.

One thing is sure to happen...if u keeps on thinking the same way it will hurt u more & more.It operates just like a drill machine you know!! The more you press & run it;the more it will cut the hard metal too & will make a HOLE in it.So dear,Pl. stop thinking about it.

The world is full of opportunities,fun moments & joy everywhere around you.Someone is definitely passionate & waiting for your love too.Are you prepared to identify who likes you? Who loves you really? or you are just expecting others to identify your love needs?

Check within yourself first & then check outside...certainly you will not ask anyone to reply your above question.

All the best & enjoy the life dear!...Thats only yours...!!

I really like your reply. especially the part about being able to identify who likes you and who loves you.
Some people are very self absorbed and conjur up in their minds that you "love " them and want more from them when in fact that is simply not true. I have come across this type of personality myself, so yeah it can definitely cause problems when there is no need for a problem at all.
So it it isn't really "love " hurting them its what they have made up in their own minds, and their total inability of communications.

I'm fully agreed with you.

No one else but only our feelings & emotions can hurt our heart.

It is very much needed to know the person well before you start binding your emotions around him,before you gets too much involved in him/her emotionally.

Its a fact that those who forgets all other relations-social,personal,professional (even mom,dad,sis,bro,friends)& devotes themselves in only so called Love relationship has to rely solely on success of that single relationship & when it fails to meet their expectations they feel as if being thrown into the deep & dark valley.

How if one gives fare wattage to each & every relationship he / she had? Will he / she ever fill so much depressed even if any one / two relationships don't meet expectations?

I mean if one tries to engage him/herself in fulfilling the fare expectations of all relations,keeps his/ her expectations fare & equally distributed from all relations, gives priority to enjoy the positive outcomes coming from other relations than worrying about negative outcomes from a single relation;then wont it be easier to live the joyful life always??

I agree, expectations sometimes are set too high. People are only human and will scew up from time to time.
But you have to look at the big picture.If you are generally very happy with this person try and work it out.
If you are more miserable than happy ,then time to get out.

Love is......
Patient, Kind and Trusting.
Love doesnt hurt.

all these assumptions makes it more difficult,I think.

It can create plenty of doubts in ones mind about him/herself.

Perhaps what you call "love" isn't love at all.

Hurts so good
come on baby, make it hurt so good,
sometimes love dont feel like it should,
you make it, hurt so good.

-John Cougar Mellencamp

True. Art does not imitate life. Art stomps all over life and then laughs at it while it bleeds.

Love hurts so bad right now I don't ever want to love again. I realized I loved him more than he loved me -even tho he claimed he did until he cheated. I just want to die to take the pain away from this hurt....

Love can hurt so bad to teach one a lesson. That lesson is not to take love for granted. Once one has learned that lesson one can relate with another who has been hurt by love. It is like I know what that feels like. A been there, done that kind of understanding. Love can be easy to take for granted because of an unjustified and irrationality in an expectation that it is just supposed to be that way. It can happen a lot in young love but also in old love, too. All too often it takes making the mistake to learn from the lesson. This lesson can be termed experience. Making this same mistake over and over again can be termed insanity for some. It is like, "Damn, I have screwed up, yet, again." It is a good reason to take one's time in matters of the heart. Especially if one's significant other is displaying more love towards you than you are displaying towards you. Of course, that lesson is learned later so sometimes the learning of that can be a moot point. A person who can learn from hindsight or from the experience from another's fate can have easier lessons but I have found that experience is a better for me since I am a slow learner.

Just like ash36 said, we all know d answer bt cant say it here... Evryone knows dat a novel or movie cant be compare to real life bt somewhere, somehow, we all long 2 b loved in a special way, u may b denial bt atleast 85% of us want 2 be loved only dat sometimes we fall in luv wt d wrong person which may lead 2 hurt and heart break

love is over rated, over looked, the true meaning has been lost.

basically love does not exist thats my opinion

Tanx 4 d encouragement, sincerely am so over wt love hurt and pain, it just bothers me wen i see pple get hurt by those they luv or those who claim 2 luv them, this was why i had 2 throw d question 2 d whole house. Tanx again and enjoy ur life

Maybe you haven't met the right one, yet.