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Topic: Why does love hurt so bad
s1owhand's photo
Wed 09/07/11 10:49 AM
waving

Hife's photo
Wed 09/07/11 11:16 AM
D Bible records dat "d heart of man is so wicke and deep dat u cant search it", dr are many wolves in sheep clothing dat no matter hw much u try 2 get 2 knx dem u just cant...by d way hw can u knw one very well unless God help u, and if u decide nt too be too comited, dats wen pple see u as d bad one. So dnt b naive, we are all human and it only take d grace of God 2 start a relationshp and still keep it afloat and steady in d boisterous storms of life...as we all knw evry relationshp has its ups and down, we only survive nt by how smart or gud we are bt by d grace of God

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Wed 09/07/11 01:57 PM
Edited by TallDarkAndIrish on Wed 09/07/11 01:59 PM
Hife,

Remember that word "man" in that verse is going to be a Greek word "Anthropos" or one of its derivatives, which is "Mankind", meaning women included.

I much prefer Luke 6:45 -

A good man out of the good treasure of his heart bringeth forth that which is good; and an evil man out of the evil treasure of his heart bringeth forth that which is evil: for of the abundance of the heart his mouth speaketh.

Which shows that there are not only "evil people" out there, there are all different types of people, in fact there's a whole lot of great people scatteed all over this world of nearly 7 billion people.

Try not to let bad relationships cause you to paint every man with the same brush, it's just the pain talking.

And if you only seem to know people who are having terrible relationships, you might want to ask yourself who these people are and why this is their modus operandi....I don't know very many people who have had multiple bad relationships, it seems to be the exception not the rule and Ive known A LOT of people in my life.

And I definitely don't believe its only in the movies, where do you think the inspiration comes from? flowerforyou :heart:

I have had several extremely wonderful relationships that have ended on good terms, either one of us moved or simply moved on. I've only had two or three of what I would call "bad relationships", all the rest were positive and added good things to my life.

Good luck out there.



Hife's photo
Wed 09/07/11 03:57 PM
I do agree wt u, bt wen i said man, i meant both male and female. And as for relationshps, i undastand dat we win and loose some, life is beautiful

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Wed 09/07/11 04:02 PM
I believe it hurts 2 show us the right path not sure but i do know in a relationship its probably because he is not the one which still goes bck 2 puting us on the righr path i havent quiet figured it out but i know im really close

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Wed 09/07/11 04:07 PM
See u already know the main part best wishes 2 u

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Wed 09/07/11 04:10 PM
How sweet

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Wed 09/07/11 06:59 PM
Because most really hurt people have fallen for jerks and can't admit it to themselves. They need to learn to say, "well if he/she dropped me, the heck with them. I certainly don't need any creep in my life who doesn't need me! The reason they fell for the jerk so quickly in the first place is often because their low self-image and/or resulting expectation of an ideal partner was too low.

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Thu 09/08/11 12:49 PM



1. Love doesn't have to hurt.UNLESS ITS YOUR FIRST TIME...LOL
2. Sometimes you just don't see the woods for the trees.MAYBE DO IT IN THE WOODS....LOL

luv2roknroll's photo
Fri 09/09/11 09:39 AM
Because it can.

OrangeCat's photo
Fri 09/09/11 10:10 AM
just give it time, it will stop.


I can care less any more, it doesn't bother me any more I just go on with life. love is not worth losing sleep over:banana:

irisheyes79's photo
Fri 09/09/11 10:37 AM
hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

nObOdys_wiFe_JM's photo
Fri 09/09/11 01:42 PM
Love hurts so bad because, first you don't know how to manage it and you keep pretending that you can handle whatever may come between your relationship. You gave up the whole feelings and efforts you have and leave nothing behind for yourself.Basically at first you need to differentiate what we call love,infatuation and attraction so then you could possibly avoid getting hurt.flowerforyou

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