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Topic: I GOT MY ARSE SPANKED!!!
luv2roknroll Joined Sun 07/06/08 Posts: 30367	Sat 08/06/11 01:19 PM
Hummm I was not a perfect child but I was a good child.... Only got one spanking and that was all due to my step mother... Why cause I skipped school for 3 weeks before they found out... She never took the time to find out why just told my dad to whoop my azz and I was 12 at the time... I skipped school due to she had decided to move our family from the district we were in to one that was much rougher. Ended up the neighbor hood was totally black made it hard. Ended up I watched girls being drugged into the restrooms for their lunch money then a boy decided to lift my dress as I was going up the steps. I was scared as hell cried all day. Ended up another boy finally told the teacher why I was crying... So I decided I was not going back to school. Believe it or not I was a very shy and quiet when I was growing up.. I got my azz whooped with a belt... what did I learn? That my step mother was cold hearted and I made sure that I always keep the communication lines opened with my kids.. Well also made sure that while my kids were young I would not put them in that same position... as far as with a step parent.. Even though I know there are many out there that make great step parents I was not willing to take that chance.. Even though it was only one it left a lasting memory... That is terrible, but at least you stopped the cycle, and didnt carry it into your adulthood, with your kids. And you did turn out to be a wonderful person, that is loved by all. I think, because you were strong and smart enough, not to repeat the

luv2roknroll Joined Sun 07/06/08 Posts: 30367	Sat 08/06/11 01:21 PM
As years pass and I see kids getting away with behaviour that I woulda got my @$$ whipped for.....I am fortunate for my upbringing. Yeah, like when I was at Walmart last week shopping, and this little boy wanted a toy. His mother told him "NO" and to "put it back". At this point he looks her dead in the eye and says, "NO I WONT,AND YOUR A BIOTCH", but he actually said the word!! So she says "fine" grabs the toy and throws it into the cart. If that would have been me, I probably wouldnt be talking to you today! Shshs that is a kid that needs his azz whooped I can say neither of my kids would not even think of saying something like that to me as they were growing up nor today... I was totally in shock! And had to make myself just shut up and walk away, because if was none of my buisness. You have no idea how hard that was for ME, THE MOUTH, to do, but I did. Maybe im getting alittle better.

TxsGal3333 Joined Tue 09/05/06 Posts: 76393	Sat 08/06/11 01:31 PM
As years pass and I see kids getting away with behaviour that I woulda got my @$$ whipped for.....I am fortunate for my upbringing. Yeah, like when I was at Walmart last week shopping, and this little boy wanted a toy. His mother told him "NO" and to "put it back". At this point he looks her dead in the eye and says, "NO I WONT,AND YOUR A BIOTCH", but he actually said the word!! So she says "fine" grabs the toy and throws it into the cart. If that would have been me, I probably wouldnt be talking to you today! Shshs that is a kid that needs his azz whooped I can say neither of my kids would not even think of saying something like that to me as they were growing up nor today... I was totally in shock! And had to make myself just shut up and walk away, because if was none of my buisness. You have no idea how hard that was for ME, THE MOUTH, to do, but I did. Maybe im getting alittle better. Believe me the person I'm today and for me not to speak out and say something would have been very hard for me to do... I've never understood those that let those things go.. Most of the time it is all due to what that child is hearing at home..

luv2roknroll Joined Sun 07/06/08 Posts: 30367	Sat 08/06/11 01:36 PM
As years pass and I see kids getting away with behaviour that I woulda got my @$$ whipped for.....I am fortunate for my upbringing. Yeah, like when I was at Walmart last week shopping, and this little boy wanted a toy. His mother told him "NO" and to "put it back". At this point he looks her dead in the eye and says, "NO I WONT,AND YOUR A BIOTCH", but he actually said the word!! So she says "fine" grabs the toy and throws it into the cart. If that would have been me, I probably wouldnt be talking to you today! Shshs that is a kid that needs his azz whooped I can say neither of my kids would not even think of saying something like that to me as they were growing up nor today... I was totally in shock! And had to make myself just shut up and walk away, because if was none of my buisness. You have no idea how hard that was for ME, THE MOUTH, to do, but I did. Maybe im getting alittle better. Believe me the person I'm today and for me not to speak out and say something would have been very hard for me to do... I've never understood those that let those things go.. Most of the time it is all due to what that child is hearing at home.. I believe that child is gonna grow up to not respect anyone, especially woman, if he can talk to his own mother like that! And not only is that sad, but its scary!

soufiehere Joined Sat 10/24/09 Posts: 45353	Sat 08/06/11 01:37 PM
I'm going to need you to go cut down a switch. Right now!! Okay. Now bend it over.

exxman Joined Tue 08/02/11 Posts: 468	Sat 08/06/11 01:37 PM
I love this statement Discipline with out love is abuse. Love without discipline is neglect. ^^Bump & Nods very true

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Sat 08/06/11 01:38 PM Edited by sweetestgirl11 on Sat 08/06/11 01:40 PM
no I was not ever spanked after the age of 3 or 4 as far as I can remember. And I was not spanked harshly. And my own children were never spanked after that age and very seldom at all, at any age. When I did, it was pretty much one wake up whack over top of a thick diaper to get their attention ....for example if they were running toward the road (we lived on a country road where the cars acame by pretty fast) It has just never been a real part of my family's aura if a step parent wants to spank my son - let her try - he's 17, 6 ft tall, and wears a size 12 or 13 shoe....

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Sat 08/06/11 01:39 PM
I'm going to need you to go cut down a switch. Right now!! Okay. Now bend it over. that sounds like my ex husband's family

luv2roknroll Joined Sun 07/06/08 Posts: 30367	Sat 08/06/11 01:39 PM
I love this statement Discipline with out love is abuse. Love without discipline is neglect. ^^Bump & Nods very true Here, here! The voice has reason has spoken! you Krupa!

krupa Joined Thu 07/03/08 Posts: 18651	Sat 08/06/11 01:41 PM
Great.... Completely validates Dad for kicking my @$$. YAY!!!

luv2roknroll Joined Sun 07/06/08 Posts: 30367	Sat 08/06/11 01:47 PM Edited by luv2roknroll on Sat 08/06/11 01:52 PM
no I was not ever spanked after the age of 3 or 4 as far as I can remember. And I was not spanked harshly. And my own children were never spanked after that age and very seldom at all, at any age. When I did, it was pretty much one wake up whack over top of a thick diaper to get their attention ....for example if they were running toward the road (we lived on a country road where the cars acame by pretty fast) It has just never been a real part of my family's aura if a step parent wants to spank my son - let her try - he's 17, 6 ft tall, and wears a size 12 or 13 shoe.... It sounds like your family felt like most people do. Nobody WANTS to spank their child, or be spanked as a child. But I have seen examples, like the little boy in Walmart,where a crack on the a$$ definitely should of took place. But above that even, he was rewarded for his bad behavior. It makes no sense to me. YOu are required to have a license to fish, and to drive, or to hunt, but ANYONE can have a child, no matter what kind of person they may be, and I think its a bad thing. At the very least, make them take a parenting class or something. Thats why abuse just gets passed from generation, to generation. All that alot of people know about parenting, is how they were raised, and they pass it on to their children. And unfortunaltely, it isnt always good. JMO

luv2roknroll Joined Sun 07/06/08 Posts: 30367	Sat 08/06/11 01:50 PM
Great.... Completely validates Dad for kicking my @$$. YAY!!! I was actually refering to your quote... Discipline without love is abuse, Love without discipline is neglect. Amen

msharmony Joined Mon 08/31/09 Posts: 61041	Sat 08/06/11 01:58 PM
no I was not ever spanked after the age of 3 or 4 as far as I can remember. And I was not spanked harshly. And my own children were never spanked after that age and very seldom at all, at any age. When I did, it was pretty much one wake up whack over top of a thick diaper to get their attention ....for example if they were running toward the road (we lived on a country road where the cars acame by pretty fast) It has just never been a real part of my family's aura if a step parent wants to spank my son - let her try - he's 17, 6 ft tall, and wears a size 12 or 13 shoe.... It sounds like your family felt like most people do. Nobody WANTS to spank their child, or be spanked as a child. But I have seen examples, like the little boy in Walmart,where a crack on the a$$ definitely should of took place. But above that even, he was rewarded for his bad behavior. It makes no sense to me. YOu are required to have a license to fish, and to drive, or to hunt, but ANYONE can have a child, no matter what kind of person they may be, and I think its a bad thing. At the very least, make them take a parenting class or something. Thats why abuse just gets passed from generation, to generation. All that alot of people know about parenting, is how they were raised, and they pass it on to their children. And unfortunaltely, it isnt always good. JMO driving requires a license because it is fairly deadly machinery and for safety we need to make sure people can operate it, fishing and hunting are licensed for the sake of profit I Agree not everyone knows how to parent, but I dont think there is any 'class' where people should tell others how to parent they tried that one size fits all mess with dr spock and I dont care for where it lead us,,,personally

FearandLoathing Joined Fri 12/28/07 Posts: 30121	Sat 08/06/11 02:02 PM Edited by FearandLoathing on Sat 08/06/11 02:02 PM
Yes, and yes, even in childhood I was a sick, depraved bastard. I laughed the majority of the time...I can't be saved.

luv2roknroll Joined Sun 07/06/08 Posts: 30367	Sat 08/06/11 03:46 PM
no I was not ever spanked after the age of 3 or 4 as far as I can remember. And I was not spanked harshly. And my own children were never spanked after that age and very seldom at all, at any age. When I did, it was pretty much one wake up whack over top of a thick diaper to get their attention ....for example if they were running toward the road (we lived on a country road where the cars acame by pretty fast) It has just never been a real part of my family's aura if a step parent wants to spank my son - let her try - he's 17, 6 ft tall, and wears a size 12 or 13 shoe.... It sounds like your family felt like most people do. Nobody WANTS to spank their child, or be spanked as a child. But I have seen examples, like the little boy in Walmart,where a crack on the a$$ definitely should of took place. But above that even, he was rewarded for his bad behavior. It makes no sense to me. YOu are required to have a license to fish, and to drive, or to hunt, but ANYONE can have a child, no matter what kind of person they may be, and I think its a bad thing. At the very least, make them take a parenting class or something. Thats why abuse just gets passed from generation, to generation. All that alot of people know about parenting, is how they were raised, and they pass it on to their children. And unfortunaltely, it isnt always good. JMO driving requires a license because it is fairly deadly machinery and for safety we need to make sure people can operate it, fishing and hunting are licensed for the sake of profit I Agree not everyone knows how to parent, but I dont think there is any 'class' where people should tell others how to parent they tried that one size fits all mess with dr spock and I dont care for where it lead us,,,personally Im not suggesting that a "class" per say, be developed to tell people how to parent their children, its just that children dont come with instructions, and raising a child, who turns out to be a bad seed, is as dangerous as operating machinery. Somebodys gonna get hurt, somewhere along the way. Either the child, or the people the child is exposed to, or both.

luv2roknroll Joined Sun 07/06/08 Posts: 30367	Sat 08/06/11 03:47 PM
Yes, and yes, even in childhood I was a sick, depraved bastard. I laughed the majority of the time...I can't be saved. I know EXACTLY how you feel!

motowndowntown Joined Wed 11/19/08 Posts: 21500	Sat 08/06/11 04:28 PM
If I ever tried to do some of the things I see some of these kids doing today, I'd be buried in the back yard, my brother would have a totally different younger brother, and no one would have said a word about it.

msharmony Joined Mon 08/31/09 Posts: 61041	Sat 08/06/11 04:32 PM
If I ever tried to do some of the things I see some of these kids doing today, I'd be buried in the back yard, my brother would have a totally different younger brother, and no one would have said a word about it. uhhuh, me too but our parents must have been 'abusing' us,,,,,

luv2roknroll Joined Sun 07/06/08 Posts: 30367	Sat 08/06/11 04:42 PM
If I ever tried to do some of the things I see some of these kids doing today, I'd be buried in the back yard, my brother would have a totally different younger brother, and no one would have said a word about it. uhhuh, me too but our parents must have been 'abusing' us,,,,, Me 3....My momma didnt take no mess from us at all. I was the baby, and by the time she got to me, she had already seen and heard it all, so I didnt get away with nothing. Maybe thats why I turned out a rebel, and insted of going to college, formed a rock band, and went on the road playing everywhere, but if I could do it over again, I wouldnt change a thing. She did raise me to have a big heart,and care, and love, and I think thats whats most important.

BettyB Joined Tue 01/29/08 Posts: 31912	Sat 08/06/11 04:51 PM
When I was just a kid my Father accused me of lying to him.He slapped me really hard across the face.The sad thing is I wasn't lying. To this day if someone lies to me I feel that "Slap" all over again.It makes me feel so betrayed .