Topic: girls rather be called beautiful than sexy.
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Sun 07/24/11 03:12 PM

I find it ironic that I just received an email from a guy from turkey who said "Hi, you looking very sexy" frustrated Originality has to exist SOMEWHERE.


good luck with that

I got a mail on another site with an offer for ummmmmmmmmmmm

pictures....shall we saynoway

TxsGal3333's photo
Sun 07/24/11 03:12 PM


There is a saying..
'Tell a beautiful woman she is smart.
Tell a smart woman she is beautiful.
If they are both, keep your mouth shut.'


I thought you were going to say if she is both tell her she is sexy


Ohhhhhhhh hell at my age call me sexy at least I know I'm desirable to them don't mean they will get anything....bigsmile

WolfEyez's photo
Sun 07/24/11 03:14 PM


I find it ironic that I just received an email from a guy from turkey who said "Hi, you looking very sexy" frustrated Originality has to exist SOMEWHERE.


good luck with that

I got a mail on another site with an offer for ummmmmmmmmmmm

pictures....shall we saynoway


ha wow

ArtGurl's photo
Sun 07/24/11 03:31 PM
I am not opposed to being called sexy - I just don't typically respond to emails from strangers calling me sexy. As another poster mentioned, it is usually a sign that they are only looking for a good time.


kc0003's photo
Sun 07/24/11 03:32 PM
*taking notes*

1) punching-out
2) get new lines
3) saying sexy doesn’t mean you get any
4) don’t offer or request pictures until after first contact

TxsGal3333's photo
Sun 07/24/11 03:51 PM
Hahaha now I'm talking in reality.... as far as the net goes shshsh I take it all with a grain of salt.... If I get a e-mail that is calling me beautiful, sexy ect.... I just roll my eyes and figure they can't come up with anything better....

I would rather they start of with just everyday conversation instead of something cheesy....slaphead

But now if I met them face to face and they say I'm sexy then hell yeah I'm flattered....

Words are just words still you met the person in person and get to know them a bit...bigsmile

nObOdys_wiFe_JM's photo
Sun 07/24/11 04:22 PM
I was always called SEXY... haha!! I barely heard that they call me beautiful drool drool drool

krupa's photo
Sun 07/24/11 04:34 PM
This is a big reason that guys have a hard time with women.

If a man is paying a sincere compliment dedicated to the fact "YOU ARE SEXY"....to you gals, it is a bad thing?

If I tell a woman she is sexy........it is a compliment.

If she got a problem with it...I am happy to walk the hell away.

Jumper4480's photo
Sun 07/24/11 04:38 PM
As for me every women should be called sexy because of your nature. Don't reject it, it's nice

StevieG01's photo
Sun 07/24/11 05:01 PM
It depends on the context.

A girl I knew and liked id be polite to, sexy is bad.
A girl I didn't really know and liked I'd never call sexy, I'd get to know her first and see how we communicate.
A girl I knew, liked and was actually with or almost with I'd call sexy. It's an affectionate compliment that's been turned cheesy.

I find girls need honesty so that's how I play it rather than being over the top with fake compliments.

navygirl's photo
Sun 07/24/11 08:55 PM

well, from the title you might have an idea of where i am heading to..let me just elaborate a little..i think i'm speaking for most girls when i say we rather be called beautiful,smart, cute, pretty...(the list is endless) than SEXY! especially if you are just meeting the person for the first time.. why because, calling most girls sexy might mean to us that all your interests are sexual (which might or might not be so). so the next time you meet a girl, try calling her something nice other than sexy..smile2


I don't mind being called either personally but if a guy calls me sexy rather than beautiful; I would tend not to take him to seriously.

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Sun 07/24/11 09:04 PM
It really depends on the person who's saying it, I think. If it's a random guy emailing me with "hey sexy" in the first email and that's it, there's a good chance he's sent out a lot of emails like that. If it's someone I'm into who actually thinks I'm sexy? Great!

Rusty_Knight's photo
Sun 07/24/11 09:14 PM
and that leads us back to Stevie's post as the correct way to act

(where's the darn clapping smiley when you need him?) :laughing:

Aries151's photo
Sun 07/24/11 09:15 PM

I was always called SEXY... haha!! I barely heard that they call me beautiful drool drool drool


Yeah, I would go with sexy when describing you flowerforyou


But, what if a girl dresses sexy and is called sexy? At that point isn't she just asking for it? laugh

Jessica985's photo
Sun 07/24/11 09:19 PM
It makes me feel uncomfable when someone calls me sexy or babe when I just started to talk to the guy. I just started talking to someone yesterday and today he says "hey sexy what you up to?" It does not feel right when someone says that to me especially since we have never met in person.

actionlynx's photo
Sun 07/24/11 09:26 PM
I don't exactly trust women I don't know calling me "honey", "hun", or "sugar". For some women though, it is meant as nothing more than a pleasantry. So I just bite my tongue, and let it go.

faytheloops's photo
Sun 07/24/11 10:24 PM

I don't exactly trust women I don't know calling me "honey", "hun", or "sugar". For some women though, it is meant as nothing more than a pleasantry. So I just bite my tongue, and let it go.

i usually call everybody "hun" or "sweetheart" not because i necessarily mean it but that's what i'm used to saying...

faytheloops's photo
Sun 07/24/11 10:26 PM
to me sexy is a compliment reserved for people that know me at least a little... you can't just walk up to me for the first time and call me sexy!! hell no! that's just wrong...to me though

faytheloops's photo
Sun 07/24/11 10:29 PM

It depends on the context.

A girl I knew and liked id be polite to, sexy is bad.
A girl I didn't really know and liked I'd never call sexy, I'd get to know her first and see how we communicate.
A girl I knew, liked and was actually with or almost with I'd call sexy. It's an affectionate compliment that's been turned cheesy.

I find girls need honesty so that's how I play it rather than being over the top with fake compliments.


you sir, are very smart:thumbsup:

navygirl's photo
Tue 07/26/11 11:47 AM

I don't exactly trust women I don't know calling me "honey", "hun", or "sugar". For some women though, it is meant as nothing more than a pleasantry. So I just bite my tongue, and let it go.


Yeah, I actually don't like someone that doesn't know me calling me honey or babe but I will let them know I don't appreciate it.