So did you guys get this figured out yet?

I'm waiting for one label too.... makes shopping so much easier.

yeah i'd rather call a girl beautiful than sexy. when you get to know her that's what makes it sexy for me.

you're such a sweet,romantic and kind guy happyguy3234...

Yup yup yup!!!

Yeah, men and women operate on different wave lengths at times and we just gotta deal with it.

Women will cry watching Oprah. Guys cry watching "Saving Private Ryan".

Women want men to be charming, loving and respectful. Men want women to have three boobs.

You want to be called "beautiful". We ain't bright enough to interpret that so it pops out as "Sexy".

Still we manage to love.

Guilty as charged .. comes from living in the South for so long.

My vote goes to SteveG01 also; he's got it right for sure.

BTW, if I'm talking to someone and he calls me sexy, he's either in his 20s or 60 and older. I just laugh it off; it doesn't bother me a bit.

However, it really surprised me how many responses I got here (and many of them included "sexy") when the nekkid feets were my profile pic. Learn something new every day ...

Are we allowed to say "hubba hubba"?

No biggie. Just don't call me late for the ride or tell me that you have a different sexy babe riding with ya!

Women can always tell when a man is lying.

Well, maybe not all women. I can always tell.

I was just thinking the same thing especially when the majority on this thread have told guys their feelings on this.

Well then... call us anyway you guys want it... just love us reeeal true

Kidding aside... it's the way the label is being delivered really. A man saying I am beautiful or sexy or however it is he finds me... I will appreciate so long as his heart thru his eyes says the same. That's just me though.

if she is "into you" it almost does not matter what you say, if she is "not into you" your a douche no matter what you do! LOL...!!!

(not directed toward you personally)

$.02

I think the point is keep the compliments sincere. She'll be able to tell if you're not sincere about what you're saying.

Post script: "that is unless he's wearing sunglasses and I can't see his eyes. In that case he's out the door." rose

Exactly the reason why I'm not comfortable talking to someone wearing sunglasses... coz I try to 'listen' to the man's 'words' thru his eyes.

That was sexy, beautiful!

When I posted about the "trifecta" of beautiful, smart, and sexy, I was just trying to add a new wrinkle into the conversation.

In reality, I almost never will tell a woman she is sexy unless I already know her. There have been a few rare exceptions. It happens.

I was always taught that when approaching a woman never begin by complimenting a woman on her appearance. The idea being that such comments are a dime-a-dozen and boring. If you want to compliment a woman you just met, find something more personal than looks. Even commenting on eyes and smiles is becoming cliche. Some women like such compliments, some don't. So I'll even hold on those until a time when I know it will have more meaning.

Let's face it, when meeting someone you might be interested in, a compliment - no matter how sincere - is nothing more than an attention-getter. Just like a joke or a pick-up line, it's a segue into conversation. Sometimes, you might hold off on the compliment for later in the conversation, but it still is used to draw attention and to often lead to something else, like a walk, a dance, or even to set up a date.

No offense bro. You were taught wrong.

Ain't nothing boring or a dime a dozen about a well placed, honest compliment. Women LOVE a good compliment!

Think about it....how often do any of us just get a compliment? I don't and I am worthy of compliments.

IF you can casually give an honest compliment..

"Great hair!"

"Pardon me...just had to say that you got great eyes/skin/shoes"

"Love the perfume"

...then smile pleasantly and walk away. Chicks LOVE IT!

The failure comes when a guy gives a compliment and then stands there like a puppy awaiting a response with desperation in thier eyes. THAT is what makes a woman uncomfortable. They ain't obligated to respond and I always walk away after a compliment. When it is done right, they will walk up to you later with a smile on thier face.


(I learned from a master...my Dad is the worlds biggest flirt)

Thats right, just dont call me ugly. flatter me all you want, sexy, beautiful. talented. bright...I accept any form of compliment is welcome.