ok......

her cousin came back to Alabama

Well, now... that does fill in some gaps.
Beach... you need some help.

not sure what to say about that Beachy

Do you REALLY want me to run with THAT ted?

....and you won't AG......you're burdened with Class!

are you still a jerk? Lol

are you still a jerk? Lol

He walked out of his job and found one in his hometown city, 200 miles away. So I took care of the kids and the moving while he looked for a place for us over there. It somehow took him 2 months.

When we finally moved there, he was different. It turned out that he was living the life of a single man while we were 200 miles apart .. and he preferred it to having the responsibility of a wife and 3 kids.

He texted me this on his lunch break at work. A week later, he moved in with someone else.

ohhhhh ouch

Thanks. It's been five years and life goes on; however, I doubt I'll trust any man completely enough to ever get married again. And I certainly won't leave the country for him.

am sorry to hear about that, well all men are not the same, you cant use a single person's character to judge millions of people... I believe women can also do such a thing, an example is my break up story... But i judge people individually

before my current babe,,i had a string of women that lasted only a few weeks,,months or sessions,lol,usually it ended because they just didnt satisfy me,,

it hurts,it hurts .it really hurts ,plz dnt let me go bak 2 that !am stl heartbroken !

She burnt my toast and I threw it at her and said..."What? No Jam"? The nerve!!!!!!

We both got pretty heavily involved with the BBS scene (pre-internet online forums and chats) that had large wild weekly parties at a local Hilton hotel club. This was a lot of fun and we met many... interesting and diverse people at these parties and online. She loved all the attention - and I can't blame her! Soon online typing and chatting became an obsession with her - actually more like an addiction! It was all but impossible to get her to step away from her computer for even a few minutes to go to the park or shopping or watch a movie. It was bad.

I tried to compete in every way I could imagine, but the lure was too strong. Finally I fell deeply into my art and music - more as a distraction for the loss, than any real inspiration. I guess it was all over at that point anyway. I was simply trying to hold on to some personal sanity. Thank the stars for these creative friends!

Eventually she met someone else (in New York, no less!) and eventually left for a new life full of constant praise and floods of BS. It petered out almost immediately, but the damage was done for us, so we parted ways. We're still best friends, but the trust is gone.

And I guess trust, really deep true trust like I had is gone for good. Maybe these things will heal themselves in time. Or maybe the kind of trust and love I felt isn't very realistic in the modern world. Monogamy for life like I felt, and still do feel may be archaic and only a fantasy of the naive of heart. I don't know...

But life goes on, so let's enjoy the adventure!


FantasyArtMan

I know that all men are not the same ... but each time someone hurts you, there is a scar left behind - and a little piece of your heart is gone. some days I yearn for someone to grow old with, but on other days I feel like there is more scar tissue left to my heart than anything else. So I have stopped looking for romance and enjoy the friendships I make instead.

I realized I loved him more when we were still very good friends and can't love him more now that we're on a different level. Jealousy and narrow mindedness suddenly sprung forth and I thought we just shouldn't lose our formerly good relationship over some silly intricacies of romance. So I talked him out of the relationship. It was a good parting.