Ok so say u have a best guy/girl friend and they are strictly ur friend but u catch them SNOOPING through ur very personal belongings... How would u react adn/or what would u say 2 them?

I don't wish to get banned from Mingle with what I'd say

never had it happen

and some of my friends - I mean we were buds - very little was private - we wore each others shoes & clothes and snooped closets all the time - even read each others diaries sometimes - traded make up etc etc

My mom read my mail once and I was angry told her that it made me angry - that's the closest thing I can compare

Yea i agree with that i mean i share a good bit with my closest friends but when it come 2 my personal belongings or shall i say "toys" my guy friend i have i dont really share what kind of things im in2 sexually... not 2 that extent and when he takes it upon himself 2 go through my "tooy drawer" and i caught him he lied about it and said he was lookin 4 a razor... come on now who in the hell keeps a razor in their bedside drawer... once i called him out on it he said he was just being stupid and when i asked y he said he was just curious 2 see what i was into.... really dude i keep that stuff in my BEDROOm on my BOYFRIEDNS side of the bed and my dude friend knew that so y snoop?? No need 4 it if i wanted some` 2 know that much about me i'd tell em!! Just makes me sick 2 my stomach bc i thought i could actually trust this dude bc he's so much like family.....

I would give them a piece of my mind that they would not like very well. Regardless if they are just a friend or more my personal stuff is my personal stuff. I'm not one that would snoop through theirs unless they give me a reason too and I would expect the same from them in return......

Same here and oh trust me I said my piece... I just didnt wanna feel as if I was over reacting but that was just dirty in my eyes!!

It's not like he stole from you.
Some people are born snoops.
Now you know.

one warning, to make my feelings clear(some 'friends' dont have anything 'private' from each other and that may have been what that person thought was your relationship as well)


after my feelings were clear though, disrespect them, and a reprimand would certainly follow

What do you consider ''personal belongings?'' Your porn stash, medicine cabinet, a diary, your purse?

I would apologize to them for what they may or may not have found!

It's a complete lack of respect.
If it's behind a door, in a drawer or cabinet, beneath a lid or otherwise hidden from view, it's off limits to anyone but the owner(s).
When someone invades, as such, you must consider their motive; Whether you're hiding something or not, they are digging and have no respect for you and don't mind losing even more at what they might find.
I would immediately ask them to leave and never invite them back.

One warning, and in all honesty, I'd be questioning just how good of a friend that person might be.

it doesnt matter if he stole from me the thing is, is that he went through my very personal belongings 2 satisfy his on sexual desires and needs.. "friends" don't do that 2 eachother he was invading my privacy and had no buisness doing so know what i mean!!!!

apologize 2 them 4 them snooping?! LOL i will not be apologizing 4 anything it was not their place 2 go trew my things!!

it was my "toys" that my BOYFRIEND and I keep in OUR bedroom!!!

Thank u very much 4 this it was exactly what i was thinkin and did!! I just didn't wanna seem as if i was over reacting bc i have made that mistake in the past but 4 this situation i dont think i was out of line 2 speak my mind!

HELL YES!!!

I have an open door policy if you don't touch my stereos or studio gear.

i share things with the ones i have closest 2 me but 4 someone 2 take it uon themselves 2 snoop through my personal and very private belongings 2 get self gratisfication when they're suppose 2 be someone u can trust it kinda tends 2 put a wall up and a damper on things!

This is easy.

Tell 'em to bend over, use the "toy" on him, and watch to your amazement how he never touches your stuff again.