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Topic: Lonely or just tired of being alone?
Totage's photo
Wed 05/18/11 05:12 PM
Ever come to a point where you were just tired of being alone, but not lonely or, is there a difference?

HasidicEnforcer's photo
Wed 05/18/11 05:14 PM
hmm...

I love and enjoy my solitude, but sometimes I miss having someone sleeping next to me at night, if that is what you mean.

I hate eating alone.

I hate not having someone to talk to.

But I like having my alone time. My quiet time so I can focus on my music and my life.

no photo
Wed 05/18/11 05:15 PM
I think there is a difference. I get tired of being a lone sometimes but very very seldom get lonely...does that make since ??

fireflysgirl's photo
Wed 05/18/11 05:19 PM

hmm...

I love and enjoy my solitude, but sometimes I miss having someone sleeping next to me at night, if that is what you mean.

I hate eating alone.

I hate not having someone to talk to.

But I like having my alone time. My quiet time so I can focus on my music and my life.


^this is how I feel too! flowerforyou

BettyB's photo
Wed 05/18/11 05:20 PM
It mostly only bothers me at events.Like weddings , parties ,vacation things like that. It does seem to be a couples world ohwell .
But am I lonely...no not really.

josie68's photo
Wed 05/18/11 05:21 PM
Yep. definately.
I am never lonely I always have children or people around me, to laugh and talk with..

BUT, I miss having someone to cuddle up with and just rest on..

motowndowntown's photo
Wed 05/18/11 05:21 PM
Being alone is kind of like constantly traveling.

Some folks get homesick and go home before the trip is over.

Other folks just get tired of the packing and unpacking and want to get back to their own place and put their feet up for a while.

Totage's photo
Wed 05/18/11 05:22 PM

Being alone is kind of like constantly traveling.

Some folks get homesick and go home before the trip is over.

Other folks just get tired of the packing and unpacking and want to get back to their own place and put their feet up for a while.


That's a good analogy.

Cheer_up's photo
Wed 05/18/11 05:54 PM
Edited by Cheer_up on Wed 05/18/11 05:55 PM

Ever come to a point where you were just tired of being alone, but not lonely or, is there a difference?
Well i can talk to friends if i want but i know what you mean you can still feel alone inside like something missing difference i think that it could be a true honest sweet loving lady to hug and hold that loves you for you i mean you can hug a friend but its not the same and then also i miss my dad that passed away over 10 years ago cause we use to go way up north fishing and we both loved the wild animals we use to feed them not hunt the wild animals cheers :thumbsup: Have a great day there dude all the best to you to

Atlantis75's photo
Wed 05/18/11 05:58 PM
Edited by Atlantis75 on Wed 05/18/11 05:58 PM

Ever come to a point where you were just tired of being alone, but not lonely or, is there a difference?


If you ask me, I wish I could slow down the planet spinning a bit, because I got so much stuff to do and wanting to do that I never get to the end of it. I hate being interrupted especially when I'm busy with something, but sometimes I just drop everything and stare at the wall front of me and thinking "now, it would be nice to a have a woman around". And she does whatever she wants to do really, all day long, just leave me to my stuff I'm doing for most of the time. I know this just sounds horrible, but I can't help it. But otherwise I'm very nice.laugh


Cheer_up's photo
Wed 05/18/11 06:05 PM

Yep. definately.
I am never lonely I always have children or people around me, to laugh and talk with..

BUT, I miss having someone to cuddle up with and just rest on..
always here my friend with my shoulder hugssssssssss hope you been doing ok of late cheer:)flowerforyou

fireflysgirl's photo
Wed 05/18/11 06:06 PM


Ever come to a point where you were just tired of being alone, but not lonely or, is there a difference?


If you ask me, I wish I could slow down the planet spinning a bit, because I got so much stuff to do and wanting to do that I never get to the end of it. I hate being interrupted especially when I'm busy with something, but sometimes I just drop everything and stare at the wall front of me and thinking "now, it would be nice to a have a woman around". And she does whatever she wants to do really, all day long, just leave me to my stuff I'm doing for most of the time. I know this just sounds horrible, but I can't help it. But otherwise I'm very nice.laugh





If only it worked this simply! Major reason I ended my last relationship was he never left me the eff alone & it was affecting my work/study time. The other was his drug alcohol abuse & antics kept me so stressed I couldn't think straight which affected my confidence...again impacting work!

Thinking about it sure is a nice though flowerforyou

HasidicEnforcer's photo
Wed 05/18/11 06:06 PM
If you ask me, I wish I could slow down the planet spinning a bit, because I got so much stuff to do and wanting to do that I never get to the end of it. I hate being interrupted especially when I'm busy with something, but sometimes I just drop everything and stare at the wall front of me and thinking "now, it would be nice to a have a woman around". And she does whatever she wants to do really, all day long, just leave me to my stuff I'm doing for most of the time. I know this just sounds horrible, but I can't help it. But otherwise I'm very nice.laugh


Well, if you ask me, you are a sweetheart.

no photo
Wed 05/18/11 06:08 PM

hmm...

I love and enjoy my solitude, but sometimes I miss having someone sleeping next to me at night, if that is what you mean.

I hate eating alone.

I hate not having someone to talk to.

But I like having my alone time. My quiet time so I can focus on my music and my life.


Count me in for this same thought i get lots done on my own but definately miss someone being around.

Totage's photo
Wed 05/18/11 06:16 PM
I don't think there's anyone that could handle me, but it would be nice to have someone sometimes just to share little moments, like a warm clear night by the lake, or a rainy day, a nice meal at a nice restruant, IDK. I kinda just want to fall in love. Maybe I'm just getting soft.

no photo
Wed 05/18/11 06:30 PM
I believe there is a difference as well...definitely hate being alone, although I'm not exactly lonely. There is a presence missing which sometimes hits you like a ton of bricks out of nowhere.

winterblue56's photo
Wed 05/18/11 06:31 PM
I'm just tired of taking things on myself...the bills, car work, yard work, house fixing, dishes, cooking...blah, blah, blah. If I could find my towel, I'd throw it in I think.

navygirl's photo
Wed 05/18/11 06:42 PM

Ever come to a point where you were just tired of being alone, but not lonely or, is there a difference?


Nope, not tired of being alone and not lonely. :banana:

Atlantis75's photo
Wed 05/18/11 06:45 PM

If you ask me, I wish I could slow down the planet spinning a bit, because I got so much stuff to do and wanting to do that I never get to the end of it. I hate being interrupted especially when I'm busy with something, but sometimes I just drop everything and stare at the wall front of me and thinking "now, it would be nice to a have a woman around". And she does whatever she wants to do really, all day long, just leave me to my stuff I'm doing for most of the time. I know this just sounds horrible, but I can't help it. But otherwise I'm very nice.laugh


Well, if you ask me, you are a sweetheart.


blushing flowers

Well for the record, Hasidic is a sweetheart too, I have met her in person so take my word, whoever looking at her.

So there, 1-1, on compliments.

honestnloyal1's photo
Wed 05/18/11 06:46 PM
I agree they are two different things, being lonely and wanting to change that would mean we would just settle for anyone to avoid being lonely. Tired of being alone means that we are willing to hold out for that someone special, unfortunately it sux in the interim.

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