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Ever come to a point where you were just tired of being alone, but not lonely or, is there a difference?
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hmm...
I love and enjoy my solitude, but sometimes I miss having someone sleeping next to me at night, if that is what you mean. I hate eating alone. I hate not having someone to talk to. But I like having my alone time. My quiet time so I can focus on my music and my life. |
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I think there is a difference. I get tired of being a lone sometimes but very very seldom get lonely...does that make since ??
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hmm... I love and enjoy my solitude, but sometimes I miss having someone sleeping next to me at night, if that is what you mean. I hate eating alone. I hate not having someone to talk to. But I like having my alone time. My quiet time so I can focus on my music and my life. ^this is how I feel too! |
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It mostly only bothers me at events.Like weddings , parties ,vacation things like that. It does seem to be a couples world .
But am I lonely...no not really. |
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Yep. definately.
I am never lonely I always have children or people around me, to laugh and talk with.. BUT, I miss having someone to cuddle up with and just rest on.. |
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Being alone is kind of like constantly traveling.
Some folks get homesick and go home before the trip is over. Other folks just get tired of the packing and unpacking and want to get back to their own place and put their feet up for a while. |
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Being alone is kind of like constantly traveling. Some folks get homesick and go home before the trip is over. Other folks just get tired of the packing and unpacking and want to get back to their own place and put their feet up for a while. That's a good analogy. |
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Edited by
Cheer_up
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Wed 05/18/11 05:55 PM
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Ever come to a point where you were just tired of being alone, but not lonely or, is there a difference? |
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Edited by
Atlantis75
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Wed 05/18/11 05:58 PM
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Ever come to a point where you were just tired of being alone, but not lonely or, is there a difference? If you ask me, I wish I could slow down the planet spinning a bit, because I got so much stuff to do and wanting to do that I never get to the end of it. I hate being interrupted especially when I'm busy with something, but sometimes I just drop everything and stare at the wall front of me and thinking "now, it would be nice to a have a woman around". And she does whatever she wants to do really, all day long, just leave me to my stuff I'm doing for most of the time. I know this just sounds horrible, but I can't help it. But otherwise I'm very nice. |
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Yep. definately. I am never lonely I always have children or people around me, to laugh and talk with.. BUT, I miss having someone to cuddle up with and just rest on.. |
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Ever come to a point where you were just tired of being alone, but not lonely or, is there a difference? If you ask me, I wish I could slow down the planet spinning a bit, because I got so much stuff to do and wanting to do that I never get to the end of it. I hate being interrupted especially when I'm busy with something, but sometimes I just drop everything and stare at the wall front of me and thinking "now, it would be nice to a have a woman around". And she does whatever she wants to do really, all day long, just leave me to my stuff I'm doing for most of the time. I know this just sounds horrible, but I can't help it. But otherwise I'm very nice. If only it worked this simply! Major reason I ended my last relationship was he never left me the eff alone & it was affecting my work/study time. The other was his drug alcohol abuse & antics kept me so stressed I couldn't think straight which affected my confidence...again impacting work! Thinking about it sure is a nice though |
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If you ask me, I wish I could slow down the planet spinning a bit, because I got so much stuff to do and wanting to do that I never get to the end of it. I hate being interrupted especially when I'm busy with something, but sometimes I just drop everything and stare at the wall front of me and thinking "now, it would be nice to a have a woman around". And she does whatever she wants to do really, all day long, just leave me to my stuff I'm doing for most of the time. I know this just sounds horrible, but I can't help it. But otherwise I'm very nice.
Well, if you ask me, you are a sweetheart. |
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hmm... I love and enjoy my solitude, but sometimes I miss having someone sleeping next to me at night, if that is what you mean. I hate eating alone. I hate not having someone to talk to. But I like having my alone time. My quiet time so I can focus on my music and my life. Count me in for this same thought i get lots done on my own but definately miss someone being around. |
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I don't think there's anyone that could handle me, but it would be nice to have someone sometimes just to share little moments, like a warm clear night by the lake, or a rainy day, a nice meal at a nice restruant, IDK. I kinda just want to fall in love. Maybe I'm just getting soft.
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I believe there is a difference as well...definitely hate being alone, although I'm not exactly lonely. There is a presence missing which sometimes hits you like a ton of bricks out of nowhere.
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I'm just tired of taking things on myself...the bills, car work, yard work, house fixing, dishes, cooking...blah, blah, blah. If I could find my towel, I'd throw it in I think.
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Ever come to a point where you were just tired of being alone, but not lonely or, is there a difference? Nope, not tired of being alone and not lonely. |
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If you ask me, I wish I could slow down the planet spinning a bit, because I got so much stuff to do and wanting to do that I never get to the end of it. I hate being interrupted especially when I'm busy with something, but sometimes I just drop everything and stare at the wall front of me and thinking "now, it would be nice to a have a woman around". And she does whatever she wants to do really, all day long, just leave me to my stuff I'm doing for most of the time. I know this just sounds horrible, but I can't help it. But otherwise I'm very nice.
Well, if you ask me, you are a sweetheart. Well for the record, Hasidic is a sweetheart too, I have met her in person so take my word, whoever looking at her. So there, 1-1, on compliments. |
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I agree they are two different things, being lonely and wanting to change that would mean we would just settle for anyone to avoid being lonely. Tired of being alone means that we are willing to hold out for that someone special, unfortunately it sux in the interim.
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