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Topic: Lonely or just tired of being alone?
Totage's photo
Wed 05/18/11 06:49 PM
I'm listening to Sublime - Caress Me Down

Yeah, that's an appropriate song for these moments. laugh

Atlantis75's photo
Wed 05/18/11 06:52 PM
Be careful though. I have met people who were surrounded all the time with many friends and family and wife, and they were more miserable and felt lonely and alone, than a guy or a girl, who hasn't dated for years.

Totage's photo
Wed 05/18/11 06:54 PM
Yeah, I can be one of those people, but I can also tell the difference between my real feelings/emotions and my depression, though it can be tricky at times.

HasidicEnforcer's photo
Wed 05/18/11 07:01 PM
Edited by HasidicEnforcer on Wed 05/18/11 07:02 PM


blushing flowers

Well for the record, Hasidic is a sweetheart too, I have met her in person so take my word, whoever looking at her.

So there, 1-1, on compliments.


Atlantis can install shower heads for women's pleasure. Efficiently and easily. And never figure it out what she REALLY wants THATS shower head for...

Because he is a true kind hearted man.

2-1... thankyouverymuch

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Wed 05/18/11 07:20 PM
:smile: it makes perfect sense, i too enjoy my own company, but sometimes it would be nice to have some one to share the silly stuff, ie commenting on some tv programme, going for a walk by the canal at 2am!! but don't suppose there are many vampires aboutglasses

Totage's photo
Wed 05/18/11 07:21 PM

:smile: it makes perfect sense, i too enjoy my own company, but sometimes it would be nice to have some one to share the silly stuff, ie commenting on some tv programme, going for a walk by the canal at 2am!! but don't suppose there are many vampires aboutglasses


Yup, that's all I'm missing, someone to share the little/silly moments in life with.

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Wed 05/18/11 07:26 PM
love hey girl, we all get that feeling from time to time, but that's what makes you/us special, we have girl power!!:smile: any way no one can do a better job, that's why you are good at what you do! keep it up:wink:

humuh's photo
Wed 05/18/11 07:58 PM

Ever come to a point where you were just tired of being alone, but not lonely or, is there a difference?

humuh's photo
Wed 05/18/11 08:05 PM

Ever come to a point where you were just tired of being alone, but not lonely or, is there a difference?
Once in a while i enjoy my solitude but am very careful not to overdo it.its fun having company,eating,drinking,chatting.......

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Wed 05/18/11 08:15 PM
I am not lonely or tired of being alone. I'm only alone when I want to be. There are always people around to spend time with.

no photo
Wed 05/18/11 08:26 PM

:smile: it makes perfect sense, i too enjoy my own company, but sometimes it would be nice to have some one to share the silly stuff, ie commenting on some tv programme, going for a walk by the canal at 2am!! but don't suppose there are many vampires aboutglasses


no, Mr. Hyde perhaps?

fireflysgirl's photo
Wed 05/18/11 08:41 PM

Be careful though. I have met people who were surrounded all the time with many friends and family and wife, and they were more miserable and felt lonely and alone, than a guy or a girl, who hasn't dated for years.



This was me in both of my LTRs! Surrounded by idots...no wonder I felt alone laugh

Seriously though, their families were nothing like mine & I always felt like there was no one "like me" around. Took me way to long to realize my ex hubby was less like me and more like his own family, which is scary scared scared scared

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Thu 05/19/11 04:59 AM

Ever come to a point where you were just tired of being alone, but not lonely or, is there a difference?


I'm not sure if there's a difference or if it's just semantics at that point. I would say I'm both, if they're different, but it's still better than being with someone and wishing I was alone instead. Being alone has its downside, but it's still better than being with anyone I've been with up till now....

tanyaann's photo
Thu 05/19/11 05:27 AM
Advice from the married women (lol)..... enjoy your alone time now! make the most of it .... because when someone is around... you can't always do what you want, when you want, or without opinion! (lol)

(sorry lex about the lack of capitalization.... computer is on the verge of death and certain keys don't want to work.)

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Thu 05/19/11 05:53 AM

Ever come to a point where you were just tired of being alone, but not lonely or, is there a difference?


This is how it has gotten with me.

I used to spend everyday with my brother. I had a job (I worked for my father, with my brother), lot's of fun things to do. I was happy!

Then one day bang! All gone!

My Father overworked me and my bro. We never had anytime for ourselfs. So one day my bro quits his job and I quit with him.

For the first two months we were happy. We had some much needed freedom. Then my brother turned on me. He told me to keep away from him. Something I had never done in my life and I was 24 years old, it was so hard for me. I felt lonely straight away!

I tryed reaching out for a new friend and I found one. Her name was Laura and she was so kind. She helped me find myself and picked me up of ground. She even listened to all my troubles. Wonderful young lady!

She helped me for 2 years and now my lonelyness is cut in half. It turns out she was lonely too. So we agreed to always be there for each other, even when we're not. We are always in each others hearts ^_^

These days I am reasonably happy. My brother is a little more socialble with me, which is nice. And while Laura stops me from fading away, I still feel incomplete. That's why I'm here. Seeing if I can find that missing peice of the puzzel. I can feel that I am very close! :D

josie68's photo
Thu 05/19/11 05:58 AM


Ever come to a point where you were just tired of being alone, but not lonely or, is there a difference?


This is how it has gotten with me.

I used to spend everyday with my brother. I had a job (I worked for my father, with my brother), lot's of fun things to do. I was happy!

Then one day bang! All gone!

My Father overworked me and my bro. We never had anytime for ourselfs. So one day my bro quits his job and I quit with him.

For the first two months we were happy. We had some much needed freedom. Then my brother turned on me. He told me to keep away from him. Something I had never done in my life and I was 24 years old, it was so hard for me. I felt lonely straight away!

I tryed reaching out for a new friend and I found one. Her name was Laura and she was so kind. She helped me find myself and picked me up of ground. She even listened to all my troubles. Wonderful young lady!

She helped me for 2 years and now my lonelyness is cut in half. It turns out she was lonely too. So we agreed to always be there for each other, even when we're not. We are always in each others hearts ^_^

These days I am reasonably happy. My brother is a little more socialble with me, which is nice. And while Laura stops me from fading away, I still feel incomplete. That's why I'm here. Seeing if I can find that missing peice of the puzzel. I can feel that I am very close! :D


Good Luck, Mingle is a fantastic place to make new friends and meet people,

bookfan61's photo
Thu 05/19/11 06:45 AM
I am tired of being alone tootears Would be nice to have someone to talk to and do things with.

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Thu 05/19/11 07:04 AM
I guess tired of being alone. I'm never alone physically, as i have people around me. I'm always alone inside my head. Ok, you may not fully get that bit. laugh It may confuse you. I need to be stimulated mentally before anything ever gets physical. I miss certain friends i made at college, that had to move to different countries, cos of their career paths. That was always hard to cope with. This never really went away. I just learned how to disguise and hide it. Otherwise i'd just end up in floods of tears everyday, which i'd rather not be doing. I need to build up a repor with more people i guess. Still, you never stop missing that persons sense of humor, face, the way they conversate, etc.

Totage's photo
Thu 05/19/11 07:40 AM
I can totally get being surrounded by people and still being alone.

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