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why are so many people afraid of women who are willing to admit their high level sexuality?
Most women really do like sex, but if a woman admits to having many partners, or is willing to say that she digs having casual flings, she is called a tramp,or worse discuss |
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It's just a social situation dating back to the time when women were viewed as property, which really wasn't that far back. My mother was born the year that American women received the right to vote. It'll pass in time.
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You can determine that a man made up the labels.
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If you enjoy sex, don't worry about what others think.
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Who has a probelm with women who like sex? I don't have a problem with it, I like sex too...
however, I am also into monogamy... so by definition - your not my type... I think sex drive is one thing, and having casual sex is a whole other thing entirely... To each his/her own... if it makes you happy go for it!... but just because a man prefers monogamy doesn't mean he is judgemental... *sigh*... people are who they are, as you should be... just like you don't want other to judge or change you, don't judge or try to change them... good luck! $.02 
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why are so many people afraid of women who are willing to admit their high level sexuality? Most women really do like sex, but if a woman admits to having many partners, or is willing to say that she digs having casual flings, she is called a tramp,or worse discuss Not really sure how to reply to this, but here it goes. What is your intent, with this revelation? (If your intention is similar to revealing your conquest like men do, are you prepared for the reactions of most men to this?) Men will accept this revalation, and ablidge you sexually...GUARANTEED 
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Who has a probelm with women who like sex? I don't have a problem with it, I like sex too... however, I am also into monogamy... so by definition - your not my type... I think sex drive is one thing, and having casual sex is a whole other thing entirely... To each his/her own... if it makes you happy go for it!... but just because a man prefers monogamy doesn't mean he is judgemental... *sigh*... people are who they are, as you should be... just like you don't want other to judge or change you, don't judge or try to change them... good luck! $.02
You can't assume that just because someone is down for casual sex at times that they can't be monogamous. |
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why are so many people afraid of women who are willing to admit their high level sexuality? Most women really do like sex, but if a woman admits to having many partners, or is willing to say that she digs having casual flings, she is called a tramp,or worse discuss I mean if a chick wanted to do the Chicago Bears everyday,,,she MAY have some mental issues,,but not a lower thought of her as a person///wink |
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why are so many people afraid of women who are willing to admit their high level sexuality? Most women really do like sex, but if a woman admits to having many partners, or is willing to say that she digs having casual flings, she is called a tramp,or worse discuss I mean if a chick wanted to do the Chicago Bears everyday,,,she MAY have some mental issues,,but not a lower thought of her as a person///wink I certainly wouldn't do the whole team, maybe the offensive line would be enough {wink} |
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Edited by
AGoodGuy1026
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Thu 01/27/11 06:46 AM
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Who has a probelm with women who like sex? I don't have a problem with it, I like sex too... however, I am also into monogamy... so by definition - your not my type... I think sex drive is one thing, and having casual sex is a whole other thing entirely... To each his/her own... if it makes you happy go for it!... but just because a man prefers monogamy doesn't mean he is judgemental... *sigh*... people are who they are, as you should be... just like you don't want other to judge or change you, don't judge or try to change them... good luck! $.02
You can't assume that just because someone is down for casual sex at times that they can't be monogamous. I agree, but if someone is having casual sex - they are not being monogamous (by definition)... she said she was having casual sex - just not my cup of tea. I am sure many out there would prefer it that way (casual)... It's rather hypocritical to say "I have casual sex" and "why do people say I am a tramp"... I guess I was trying to say embrace who you are, but realize not everyone will like it... Personally, I treasure my sexual experiences - and save them for the peoople with whom I am in a relationship with, becuase for me it's more than the physical pleasure of the act itself. Someone who has casual sex (in my opinion) is more into the physical aspects of their sexuality - therefore is not my type. Someone who lives a monogamous lifestyle is more suited for my personality - since THAT is how I live my life... perhaps more on topic, I just should have said "Different strokes for different folks (literally) 
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Who has a probelm with women who like sex? I don't have a problem with it, I like sex too... however, I am also into monogamy... so by definition - your not my type... I think sex drive is one thing, and having casual sex is a whole other thing entirely... To each his/her own... if it makes you happy go for it!... but just because a man prefers monogamy doesn't mean he is judgemental... *sigh*... people are who they are, as you should be... just like you don't want other to judge or change you, don't judge or try to change them... good luck! $.02
You can't assume that just because someone is down for casual sex at times that they can't be monogamous. I agree, but if someone is having casual sex - they are not being monogamous (by definition)... she said she was having casual sex - just not my cup of tea. I am sure many out there would prefer it that way (casual)... It's rather hypocritical to say "I have casual sex" and "why do people say I am a tramp"... I guess I was trying to say embrace who you are, but realize not everyone will like it... Personally, I treasure my sexual experiences - and save them for the peoople with whom I am in a relationship with, becuase for me it's more than the physical pleasure of the act itself. Someone who has casual sex (in my opinion) is more into the physical aspects of their sexuality - therefore is not my type. Someone who lives a monogamous lifestyle is more suited for my personality - since THAT is how I live my life... perhaps more on topic, I just should have said "Different strokes for different folks (literally)
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So, if someone is not in a relationship at the time and has sex, does that make you assume they're not going to be able to be in a monogamous relationship? Do you ask someone before getting into a relationship with them if they've had sex while not in a relationship? And would that actually affect your decision about being in a relationship with them? |
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Who has a probelm with women who like sex? I don't have a problem with it, I like sex too... however, I am also into monogamy... so by definition - your not my type... I think sex drive is one thing, and having casual sex is a whole other thing entirely... To each his/her own... if it makes you happy go for it!... but just because a man prefers monogamy doesn't mean he is judgemental... *sigh*... people are who they are, as you should be... just like you don't want other to judge or change you, don't judge or try to change them... good luck! $.02
You can't assume that just because someone is down for casual sex at times that they can't be monogamous. I agree, but if someone is having casual sex - they are not being monogamous (by definition)... she said she was having casual sex - just not my cup of tea. I am sure many out there would prefer it that way (casual)... It's rather hypocritical to say "I have casual sex" and "why do people say I am a tramp"... I guess I was trying to say embrace who you are, but realize not everyone will like it... Personally, I treasure my sexual experiences - and save them for the peoople with whom I am in a relationship with, becuase for me it's more than the physical pleasure of the act itself. Someone who has casual sex (in my opinion) is more into the physical aspects of their sexuality - therefore is not my type. Someone who lives a monogamous lifestyle is more suited for my personality - since THAT is how I live my life... perhaps more on topic, I just should have said "Different strokes for different folks (literally)
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So, if someone is not in a relationship at the time and has sex, does that make you assume they're not going to be able to be in a monogamous relationship? Do you ask someone before getting into a relationship with them if they've had sex while not in a relationship? And would that actually affect your decision about being in a relationship with them? You two are going way off topic! The OP is being completely open about her sexuality, and there is no assumption as to her intentions. She just wants guys to accept her for the way she is. I'll accept her once, then pass her off to the rest of the team... 
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It wasn't really off topic, as it shows why some people have issues with women who do like casual sex.
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Who has a probelm with women who like sex? I don't have a problem with it, I like sex too... however, I am also into monogamy... so by definition - your not my type... I think sex drive is one thing, and having casual sex is a whole other thing entirely... To each his/her own... if it makes you happy go for it!... but just because a man prefers monogamy doesn't mean he is judgemental... *sigh*... people are who they are, as you should be... just like you don't want other to judge or change you, don't judge or try to change them... good luck! $.02
You can't assume that just because someone is down for casual sex at times that they can't be monogamous. I agree, but if someone is having casual sex - they are not being monogamous (by definition)... she said she was having casual sex - just not my cup of tea. I am sure many out there would prefer it that way (casual)... It's rather hypocritical to say "I have casual sex" and "why do people say I am a tramp"... I guess I was trying to say embrace who you are, but realize not everyone will like it... Personally, I treasure my sexual experiences - and save them for the peoople with whom I am in a relationship with, becuase for me it's more than the physical pleasure of the act itself. Someone who has casual sex (in my opinion) is more into the physical aspects of their sexuality - therefore is not my type. Someone who lives a monogamous lifestyle is more suited for my personality - since THAT is how I live my life... perhaps more on topic, I just should have said "Different strokes for different folks (literally)
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So, if someone is not in a relationship at the time and has sex, does that make you assume they're not going to be able to be in a monogamous relationship? Do you ask someone before getting into a relationship with them if they've had sex while not in a relationship? And would that actually affect your decision about being in a relationship with them? No, that is not an assumption that I would make. People have sexual needs as do I, they just deal with them in a way that makes them happy. o, I don't ask for a sexual history before getting into a relationship (allthough the dicussions over time tend to "feel that out" as a subject or aspect of the dating process). Would it affect my decision? Yes, of course. If a woman told me that she has been with a guy as "friends with benefits" before I met her, or if she makes it known that she enjoys sleeping around - she's not my type and I would not pursue a relationship with her. How do you determine if he/she is "the type that sleeps around" - well, that's the catch isn't it?.... Oh to be clarivoyant... It's pretty simple really. I enjoy a deeper connection other than good sex, if someone would be willing to jump in bed with me the first 5 days I know them - it's not my style or what I enjoy. But that's just me. $.02
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You can determine that a man made up the labels. perhaps soulfie, but it is women who can be the worst accusers, particularly jealous ones. I mean we should treat each other better men aren't absolved from gossip mongering though - as I mentioned in here some time ago, my exes friends used to talk when I was around (as tho I wasn't there) so I have heard what they say first hand about women who "give it up" easily. That experience is also why I never believe the sexual mythology men want us to believe so that we'll agree to NSA arrangements |
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Edited by
hunter5169
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Thu 01/27/11 08:37 AM
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oh not afraid of women with a high sex drive, really enjoyable. 
but its how they handle thier drive, is what is scary. crap who wants to get a death sentence just because of wanting to have thier needs meet. 
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oh not afraid of women with a high sex drive, really enjoyable.
but its how they handle thier drive, is what is scary. crap who wants to get a death sentence just because of wanting to have thier needs meet.
What is scary about how they handle their sex drive? |
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<----likes formal sex
the floor always looks so much more elegant when finished |
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<----likes formal sex the floor always looks so much more elegant when finished hmmmmm - good visuals there 
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..with all the STDs nowadays..i can't nor won't take the risk..unless they can prove they have none of these then sex is out of the question..no one to me is worth having casual sex with and then dealing with herpes or AIDS...  jmo
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