You are very very welcome, to many men find it easier to walk away. If I can bring my children up to be loving, happy adults. I know that i have done my job. I dont care what they have as long as they love and are happy.

to be fair, I liked him better in Conan the Barbarian

Anyone can call THEIR success as what they choose to have that be.


Material things, a persons bank account, the clothes they wear.

All of this adds nothing to the values and respect they carry for themselves and others in this world.


I am proud of the man I am, My success is only viewed in the people who know me and call me friend.

IF there is MORE NEEDED in being with me as the man I am.

THEN THATS THERE PROBLEM, NOT MINE....as I wouldn't care for THAT type of person anyway.....lol..

A good heart, with truth and wisdom, intelligent and who wants to only be
someone's smiles and have some good conversations....simple, and Real.

THATS me and THATS all I would ever need to find..

yes another real man.. someone who is confident in who they are.

Strange, When I see a woman looking for a "successful men", I think, Hey that's me!..... Some agree and some don't. C'est la vie!

-I'm prudent with money and that allows me to enjoy living the dreams.
-My family and friends love and treat each other with respect.
-My co-workers are motivated and enjoy the benefits of helping as a team.
-I learn from others mistakes... and of course my own.
-I help.... instead of hinder.
-I put others needs ahead of my own(just works better for me this way)
-I have the power to crush ANYONE.... I choose NOT to.

Yes I'm successful... And some of it wasn't even my doing.

Cheers

That was sweet, thank you Josie

Good to see that not all men think the word successful is a bad thing.

great thread andy

but as always, WAY too many words

plus ive just been given the "come to bed eyes"

so im off to let her suckseed outa this loser





offer them gold in mail 1. if she accepts, dont bother.... job done

i just offter them there love and kindness to them

Like attractiveness, "successful" is subjective according to the person defining it.

I like "successful" men, and that includes financial aspects, but not because I am a gold-digger but because I don't want to support anyone's lazy ***. I do not expect a man to support me.

Also, men who are successful are usually, not always, more confident and comfortable with themselves. I dislike whining, and I have met one too many men who whined about their place in life because they have not been successful.

now see,this whole "successful men" this pisses me off big time!.why do women think just because a guy isn't "successful" then they want the woman to support them?my ex brother-in-law isn't successful at all and he's raising my nieces and nephew by himself but those kids always have clothes on their back and food on the table and yet,he only seems to attract the crazy @$$ women




i think you ladies need to rethink your idea of "successful" and quit using that same excuse of "i don't want to support a man" because maybe he doesn't need your support anyways

Re-read the thread. There are lots of different ideas of what successful is.

i'm too lazy to go back and read all the posts.mind summing it up for me?

I can only speak for myself, not everyone else. You'll have to read everyone else's comments. All I really care about when it comes to finances is that a guy can support himself. If he can do that, I'm not going to worry about how much money he makes.

yep.

$.02

if i might jump in here...not ALL women who say they are looking for a successful man mean a rich man..sometimes it just means that they have struggled so much in the past with a nonsuccess man who not only doesnt care about keeping up with the Jones but doesnt care about keeping up with the bills. There is a big difference between gold digging... working together to be comfortable...and struggling to pull dead weight. Been on the struggling end of that before...its not fun...have always worked to pick up the slack as well as had 3 kids..kept house..cooked meals..etc. to find a so called successful man would be a treat

HELL YES!

Like I said before, if they look at my shoes when I meet them I know I am doomed! The funny thing to me is how making more money than me gives a lot of women a big head. $20 an hour for what I do does not go a long way and at least I got a job. I can't afford the happy lifestyle and I cannot afford trips or fancy cloths. My money is sucked away by my responsibilities. If responsibility is not enough then people and especially women can go F*&% themselves! I don't have time for the BS and justifications of how my income affects my worth as a person.

Also this whole confidence thing... TOTAL AND UTTER BULLSH**!!!

My confidence is taken as aggression and that scares women! By the way, any woman who thinks she is better than me can try a day of my work and see how good she really is. Hope you can consistently lift and carry 100 pounds uphill! There are women who can hack my work but they are not the short sighted self interested wastes of skin most humans come off to me as! Hell, I met a lot of men who are tepid limp wristed weaklings and yet women flock to these losers becasue they are so sensitive and they wave money around to make themselves more attractive. Too bad we don't have to kill to eat. That would be a real test of success like Darwin intended! Survival of the fittest, not survival of the richest! Besides, in every revolution rich people get hunted down by the poor anyways! Remember the French Revolution? King Louie the 14th and Marie Antoinette were not the only ones to meet the executioner!

FUQUE YEAH!


People think they are so smart! At least I admit I can admit to my shortcomings. I got an attitude problem and a foul mouth.

Right on! and Im sure for every woman looking for a succesful man there is a man looking for the same... alternatively, what do want in a partner?