This makes 81 replies and over 800 times people have looked at the thread....And it just goes to show that none of us are drop dead gorgeous and none of us have Donald Trumps money but we are all capable of having a conversation. After you didn't come back to the thread for this long, we just started talking about other things.

What does it say about the people here (in the forums anyway) we are a chatty group. If the cynicism is pulled back a bit, we will talk to just about anyone.

We can only hope :-)

Now where did he go???????

The Art of Conversation...........you say something, we reply......... we say something, you reply........if you don't reply, we talk amongst ourselves... ...but we would like it if you chatted too.

Maybe the negative attitude is making people back away from you?

that you have a narrow blurred perspective, and have limited objectivity...possibly still carting loads of soured bitter resentment towards life, the uni-verse, and everything including your ex wife...who took your last $2 and your boy scout badges...




you did ask, what does your post tell me.

Whatever just whatever people.......Message people all over who do have same interests and such all the time and get about .05% of them may message back once or twice and I just dint really know anymore what people want I believe I'm one of the best persons anyone could meet but guess just ain't got enough looks or money

Weird, maybe we in different forums, I never see you on here.

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Mate.... really?....you think a bunch of people you message who don't reply care about money, or looks or whatever you've decided is the reason why...?

Mate,...ask others how often they get replies to their emails...

you may feel more normal...and also learn a little about why.

I bet you probably are a great guy.
I know your frustration too.
I thought the same for several years...
Turned out it was all in my head.
Before I found someone online, I was rejected over 300 times in 3 months. But it was also a learning process of how NOT to do things.
You learn the game, improve your odds, but also maintain the true you as it shows through in everything you type.
So, I think you are really just asking us to help you find your rhythm, but you have to let us know more about just how you've been going about all this.
Am I wrong, JP?

It's not all about the same interests or money or looks. Women like men who are interesting and can make them laugh. Do you try to make them laugh or do you tell them sob stories about how nobody else will talk to you?

women like men who are interested in them and know how to show it. It also takes a long time for them to sometimes realize it, so if you are one who gives up pretty easy, then no wonder. Patience and persistence.

I assume you are a redneck...(I am a born and raised middle o Texas country boy so I am using redneck analogies)

When you go out deer hunting....you bait...you post up...you wait...and wait...and wait....

this is no different.

As far as sending out messages and getting no responses..everyone here went through it. The mistake is thinking each of those were read.....they werent.

Some people still have accounts active but hadnt logged on/off for weeks if not longer. THE way to meet people is here in the forums. Now, if you are holding out for a local girl...get the hell off your friggen computer, spit slick your hair, put on clean underwear, drive your @ss to a supermarket and slowly cruise the aisles. Look at the carts...you can tell who is married and who aint. Eye contact EVERYONE and SMILE DAMNIT!!!! (no s**t, it works!)

I dont really know you. What little I do know is all pessimistic and bitter. If that is your gig, that is your business...but if you are wanting a woman who aint bitter and pessimistic..you need to try being positive or I garauntee you will end up with some angry b*tch.

damn! i guess im neither!

I would bet that the majority of us didn't have much going on in our inbox until we participated in the forums.

Looks and money have nothing to do with it.

Participation in the forums allows people to get to know us. Many more read the threads than post in them. If you want people to see you ... start posting.

show em the situation

he's only hot from the nipples to the pelvic area.

The Gurl is right.....

seriously dude....what you see as smart@ssed...others see as humor. Women love to laugh. Even if you do meet someone here...you are gonna have to conversate with them...unless you are gonna go straight to the plans of moving them in before you know her.

If you can make people laugh....the women are gonna find that to be an attractive trait. Same with being serious..but not TOO serious all the time.

This entire experience should be FUN! Cause if you aint having fun..and she aint having fun....whats the friggen point?