Topic: Ladies Making the First Move
irishlass's photo
Fri 07/06/07 02:03 PM
My initials are KFC and I sure am not interested in women sexually. I have been the one to initiate the first move and have made some great friendship out of it. Actually most women do make the first move by flirting. She might give the man the once over with her eyes or the many other ways she flirts. flowerforyou

Airliner's photo
Fri 07/06/07 02:14 PM
nice (and wild) new pick Irish.....how is life lady?

irishlass's photo
Fri 07/06/07 02:35 PM
Life is like always what you make of it. If I want to have fun, I make my own fun. So airliner, what kind of fun have you been up too, LOL?

T00Lfan's photo
Fri 07/06/07 02:41 PM
I wish more woman would make the first move. Sometimes, women can be tough to read. Either way, as far as me being offended by a woman buying me a drink. Not at all....though, I would expect to return the favor.

widowerseeking's photo
Sat 07/07/07 06:40 AM
many women even when they make the first move, do it in such a way the most men are unable to see it, I do think that most should be a little easier to read.

irishlass's photo
Sat 07/07/07 07:59 AM
The funny thing is the more forward the woman, the more the guy thinks it is just a game. He will play like it is a game and nothing serious.

no photo
Sat 07/07/07 08:12 AM
To all the ladies who are afraid or too shy to make the first move.Maybe thats why your still here waiting for someone to find you.Make the first move life is way too short.

irishlass's photo
Sat 07/07/07 08:14 AM
I have many of times, they turned out to be the wrong choice. So anyways why are you here?

lionsbrew's photo
Sat 07/07/07 08:17 AM
i like when a woman is aggressive it shows she has drive and is willing to go after what she wants

julylookingaround's photo
Sat 07/07/07 08:25 PM
i've only had relationships with women who make the first move..., maybe thats my problem... and why i'm single again... because i don't chase after anyone...

no photo
Sun 07/08/07 07:35 AM
Everything is up to the woman these days so they may as well complete the cycle.
In fact hasn't it always been up to the woman? If they want you; if they want it? Etc. etc?
You are sure they want you (for whatever reason) when they make it plain.

SheNerd's photo
Sun 07/08/07 07:44 AM
I used to believe in gender equality when it came to dating. Now 11113.276 rejections later, I'm not so sure anymore.

Snugglesbyfire's photo
Sun 07/08/07 07:48 AM
Im so used to being just the friend, that I never think about making the first move..........I chat and if someone is interested in me I hope they know to leave me know, cause when you view yourself as just a friend, you don't get the subtle hints that men make.........:smile:

SheNerd's photo
Sun 07/08/07 08:34 AM
Hey Snuggles, don't feel bad. I'm still stuck in the accordion playing weirdo zone, can't figure out how to get out of this padded room...

no photo
Sun 07/08/07 08:40 AM
I'm the wallflower type when I'm out with my buddies...they are so extroverted themselves and get all the attention that I just sip my drink and smile occasionally but mostly end up designated driver. Thinking about changing that - I think it's time for me to have some fun.

horseracer's photo
Sun 07/08/07 09:22 AM
i like it i wish more of them in here are laugh

savemysoul's photo
Tue 07/10/07 08:39 AM
depends who youre going after. some guys are traditional and would rather have pride and make the first move while other guys love it when a girl makes the first move.. I only know.. cus Ive done this a few times and they were happy that they didn't need to make the first move... their excuse was that they were nervous.. lol

ecbouton's photo
Tue 07/10/07 08:48 AM
it depends on the guy - if they're out going and the life of the party then yeah ill make the first move. if they're shy and quiet - then im not as foward about it.

davinci1952's photo
Tue 07/10/07 09:40 AM
I love women confident enuf to make the first move...it tells me a lot...

carebear19622's photo
Tue 07/10/07 12:21 PM
well I still like it when she makes the first move.....Any takers?laugh