No, not you.

haha ok just making sure.
I really thought you were kinda talking about me there

I had seen you around on here and talked to you a bit, but other people have just like...outright told me to add them. Not asking. Telling.

I don't like guys to come up and think that I'm a peice of meat. I have eyes, believe it or not I have a whole face. I think that guys share those same feelings. One of the quickest ways to turn my head the other direction is to act like a pig. I like conversation. When I was younger the flattery was good, but now I'm not so vain. I just want a guy to know how to speak without having to practice it infront of the mirior.

Truly,
MSD

have noticed many people want you to ask them here on the forum before writing, what is that all about I thought the reason we were here with ads posted was trying to say write me. ^_^ !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

The asking we all seek is in the "Instant Message" dept. I keep hearing ladies saying; guys just IM & they haven't even done an introductory e-mail. It isdifferent for the ladies than us guys (MARS/VENUS). Ladies are really just asking to be treated with the respect anyone is due & NO vulgarity.
TOTALLY agree, remember manners frst.

As far as this thread goes, I believe, in this day & age, it is proper for a lady to speak to a man out in public. Striking up a casual conversation should be totally fine. If he can't figure things out from there, his loss. Then you ladies have the same choices us guys do, keep trying with this person or walk away. GOOD LUCK.

i dig when a woman is aggressive not that im shy about making a first move but i really like when a woman is confident.

i dont mind making the first move if it seems like the guy is shy and doesnt know how to approach me, but i dont make a habit out of it.

I think it is a cool gesture for a woman to do something like that. But guys it is not an invitation to be aggressive in mind towards (thinking that she is easy) her even if she is attractive or not. I would be respectful and admire her for such action. Please make sure to get her the next drink.

absolutely coolhead, thanks for pointing that out!

Hi sweetie! Wanted to be clear for some fellas. Nice to see you this morning

u2 hun, hows ur day so far? lol

I personaly like it when a woman hits on me first, as Carebear said, it lets me know that she is interested. Only problemIhave, is recognising it, as I am also a bit shy about making the first move . Here is something that happened to me a couple of times, in a grocery store, and I guess I took it as she just wasnt watching where she was going, on 3 difwerent ocaisions, that day, this lady was behind me with her cart, then every time I stoped too look at something, she would bump into me with her cart and also start looking at something, then she even followed me to the same check out counter, even though there were other checkut counters open with less people in line than the one I went to and wouldnt you know it, she bumped into me again with her cart. It wasnt untill I got home, I thought about it and realized she was tryingto get my attention, but then it was to late. Another time, in a diferent store, a lady wzs in front of me, leqaving the store, when she held the door open for me, I thanked her as I always do to people that hold the door for me, and her respnse was You owe me. While she said it, she had a big smile in her face and I could swear she winked at me to. Stupid me, didnt take any action to find out why and probably lost out on something nice.

Sorry for being so long winded today. Please feel free to beat me with a wet noodle.

No I don't find it offensive I wish more women were like that and that is because a lot of men can't read signs lol. Hell I was in a bar one time and this girl bought me a rose and had the lady walk over and give it to me. To tell you the truth I thought it was nice and it was a great way to say hi.

Glad you guys don't thinks it's weird...Gals, get out of yotur comfort zone and get a guy a drink or ask HIM to dance...THEY seem to like it somewhat...lol...

I have had many dates bacause I made the first move...and it doesnt necessarily have to be a drink or in a bar...jsut that come and get me look, or walking by and "accidentally' bumping into him...
Have had many turn downs, but you can't take it personally or let it get you down...It's not rejection, or disinterest, usually he is more shy than you...and can't read the signals as stated more than once in this thread...

But, I can say, I have gottren a lot of dates by making the first move, and had a lot of fun...so gals...step up to the plate, and ya just might get that home run you are looking for!

lol!!!

Conversations I can do ...

Hitting on a guy ... oh I would get shy and flustered I think

I'd just like to point out that it's NOT the twentieth century any more.

YES!!!
I've been doing it and they LOVE that a girl will give them the attention for once.

I would feel honored...

Where do I get in line Trenity???