sounds like someone played little dutch boy
(stuck his finger in a dike)

Ohhh Romeo....romeo


Where for art thou Romeo!!!

haha, what would goof do? good one, I have dated samoans before, i like all types, including some pudginess, but i mean if you are talking like those people on the medical shows, i am not into that at all, and honestly i think those people are addicts and addicts are selfish behaved people with problems, im not saying that they can control it but I would want the focus on me, not our next meal.

...I love questions like these...

here is a tiny sliver of the whole question, please give me reassurance, prop me up, and make me feel all warm and fuzzy please.


I am so not good with pity parties.


Women are not dating you for a whole lot more reasons than your weight....and I suspect you are using that as an excuse, rather than do some work.

Women are visual,yes, some women are even totally superficial, some women couldn't give a rat's razoo about the outside....also....if you want the leggy 22 year old super model....brush up on believing in yourself, and liking yourself, (some call that confidence)...before you hit her with the pickup line.

There's a girl. Get her before she gets away.

Yeah I think this pretty much sums it up. I see no reason for this thread to continue...lol.

Where are all the "BBW", "curvy" girls, etc when a subject like this comes up?

Like my good bud Goofball said;
Attitude!
I'm a big, fugly, bald mofo and I have no problem at all with attracting women.
I don't act on it but, I flirt and get flirted back at. I love telling women how beautiful their eyes or lips are.
Telling them how light and graceful they look in their movements.
Sometimes, I can even see then quivering while talking sincere chit to 'em.
Gotta' be real, truth and sincere.
Play attitude and you can have them coming and going.

There is a flaw in my method, I shouldn't drink so much on a friday night. and not to take it personal when a girl turns you down when you to drunk to form a sentences.

Deny thy father and refuse thy name;
Or if thou wilt not, be but sworn my love
And I'll no longer be a Capulet.

o geez

You put your left foot in...
You take your foot out...
You put your left foot in...
And ya shake it all about...
You do the hokie pokie...
And you turn yourself around...


That my friends...is WHAT ITS ALL ABOUT!!

As you get older you will finally realize that either people take you as you are or they can walk away.

I'm a full figured woman now use not be have been on both sides of the fence and hell it did not make a difference on how many dates I got.... Main thing is be happy with yourself first and not to worry what others think.... True friends and women that want you will in fact be attracted to you regardless....

Nice mea culpa :-)
Hey, I have been to Browning, the train
stops there, right on the reservation,
got picked up and delivered by my niece
in Cardston.
Beautiful views of the Tetons.

I am wondering what a rats "razoo" is?

Back on topic. I am fat on the inside and its what's inside a person that really counts.

hilarious, but true! I have always been overweight, but never had an issue finding someone that wanted to spend time with me so maybe find a new crowd to hang with or somethin! IDK and I know big guys that are married to very hot girls so I don't think gender has that much to do with it!

goof, are you coming to texas to tap this one? if not,i'm in texas...

I was banned from Texas for pissing on the Alamo!

awesome i knew you looked familiar, do crazy train!