So thats it, tonight i am going on date number two with a guy I met locally. Seems as though not very responsive to texting, although we had a great time the first date, between all our kids, and schedules things have not been so compatible. I am not into chasing a guy who is not interested in me. This one said before he really wanted to see me again and so here we are. Hoping for the best. Honestly, I liked this person who is handsome and fun. But after a while it wore off. I dont like going on one date every few weeks if you catch my drift. I was ready to move on and now this. Is this a trick do you think?

No it sounds like a date...........

yeah, and he did ask me out and said he was putting together some fun stuff for us to do. I'm kind of nervous all over again even though the first date went really well. We are both raised in the same local area so we have a lot to talk about anyways, but who knows. I hope it's worth paying a sitter for, haha.

And he's hot, which an extra bonus!

Grab his package. Always makes em come back for more.

there better be some kissing involved that's all I can say about it. NO sex.

Kissing and No Sex? That is like Nachos without Cheese!

^^^Hold the "cheese" for a bit! Nachos are flavorful on their own.

Whats the rush?

Take a bit of time to enjoy getting to know this guy.

You can still date other guys should the opportunity arise.

Go and have fun!

I don't know about you ... but with me
kissing tends to lead to sex... especially ... lots of kissing.

unless the kissing sucks... then it leads to no next date.

How was your 2nd date????

Oops; dup post! arghhhh

So second date a total bust. We went out, but not really anywhere. the restaurant we wanted to go to was closed on mondays and turns out the movie i rented was also a duplicate of which he just saw. Hung out for a few hours talking to get to know each other, had a great time. walked me to my car, (no sex) we did kiss goodnight. He asked me out again today because we both have kids and have a break today from them, so I agreed. Told me to call him today which I did and let him know I made reservations for that same resturaunt which is open today and he has yet to return my phone call, or 2 of my text. Oh well. I dont appreciate being strung a long, or hanging out with men who maybe dont have the balls to say we arent compatible, although I dont think that is the case. perhaps for whatever reason, I'm guessing he chose someone else to spend his time with today. all I can say is F-OFF you're a lousy kisser and I got laid two days ago anyways. Thanks for wasting my time. Im not a convenience store. I am a beautiful woman.

I dont know why this posted three times??

better luck next time, he could at least have the decency to call or txt at least once

Wait......you're banging someone else?.........and you had a decent time twice despite plans not going as planned, he's a bit tardy with the ph. call and you are kicking him to the curb ?


I am missing something here......

Err?

yay it was only our second date in three weeks Mind you he cancelled once before. he specifically told me to call him tomorrow(hence today)and has chosen to blow me off all day. Dude it's 4:00pm, if we were had intentions on hanging out today they would have already been made. What is he thinking. He's not gonna text or call me at 6pm and be like let's go. You snooze you loose MF

As in I am not looking for a serious relationship. I do get dates with reliable trustworthy men. I dont waste my time with men who cant take the time to make an effort in getting to know someone. I'm not saying there are a ton of men out there waiting for me. That's why I am looking. But I will be respected. If he didn't get laid last night, that's his problem, his lack of patience is rewarding him with a lack of future dates.

if youre not looking for a serious relationship, why do you complain so much? seems like you are only making things worse for yourself...youre an attractive woman, obviously your getting physical attention and thats always nice...

just enjoy the ride....