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Topic: Try it again
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Thu 09/02/10 07:04 PM
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Thu 09/02/10 07:15 PM
Edited by Atlantis75 on Thu 09/02/10 07:16 PM



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Thu 09/02/10 08:51 PM





My last date was dinner, walking around downtown and a couple drinks. Nothing fancy. Mostly just talking and getting to know each other a bit.


Did he come on too strong or not strong enough, has he called you since. If so when did he call you?


The thing that was nice about this date is neither of us seemed to be worrying about trying to impress each other. My guess is you're going to try to find something about this to twist it into how everyone has to play games. So, I'll just leave it at that. If you'd like to try to convince everyone they have to play games, you'll have to do that on your own.


Not impressing a girl goes against a guy's natural instincts. if guy's weren't trying to impress women there would be no 40,000 luxory cars, big trucks, designer clothing, jewelery, or anything like that. He was either playing coy and supressing the drive to impress you, or he wasn't that into you and didn't feel teh need to impress you.

If the first was the case he was playing a game, and it worked. If the second was the case, you want the guy because he was not that into you, and a lot of women tend to want what they can't have.

You don't ahve to be intentionally deceptive or a complete liar and user to play games. A girl wants a guy that feels the same way about her that she feels about him all the time. You wanted a guy that wouldn't try too hard, so he caught onto that (either consciously or unconsciously through body and voice ques) and did not try to impress you if he liked you. The other possibility is that you like him more than he likes you.


You're really trying hard to read into things, aren't you? I barely gave you any info on the date on purpose and you still ran with it. Relax a bit, man. :laughing: slaphead

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Thu 09/02/10 09:14 PM
awwww! good luck hun!!!flowerforyou

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