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Edited by
Sabrosura089
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So second date a total bust. We went out, but not really anywhere. the restaurant we wanted to go to was closed on mondays and turns out the movie i rented was also a duplicate of which he just saw. Hung out for a few hours talking to get to know each other, had a great time. walked me to my car, (no sex) we did kiss goodnight. He asked me out again today because we both have kids and have a break today from them, so I agreed. Told me to call him today which I did and let him know I made reservations for that same resturaunt which is open today and he has yet to return my phone call, or 2 of my text. Oh well. I dont appreciate being strung a long, or hanging out with men who maybe dont have the balls to say we arent compatible, although I dont think that is the case. perhaps for whatever reason, I'm guessing he chose someone else to spend his time with today. all I can say is F-OFF you're a lousy kisser and I got laid two days ago anyways. Thanks for wasting my time. Im not a convenience store. I am a beautiful woman. Ok, so you your plans for the restaurant fell through, but you talked for a few hours ("had a great time"). He asked you out again, and to call him. Don't be so quick to assume he stood you up. He has kids as you do, and something could have very well happened. If he never returns your call (within a reasonable time of course), I would then chalk it up to a typical online date (no interest and no balls to say so.........). The "joys" of dating, huh?  P.S. At least you're getting laid!!! ahaha |
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I got laid two days ago anyways. Im not a convenience store. I am a beautiful woman. Err? As in I am not looking for a serious relationship. I do get dates with reliable trustworthy men. I dont waste my time with men who cant take the time to make an effort in getting to know someone. I'm not saying there are a ton of men out there waiting for me. That's why I am looking. But I will be respected. If he didn't get laid last night, that's his problem, his lack of patience is rewarding him with a lack of future dates. this does not read well .... no offence.... so ... if he was lucky ... he might get to be number 2 or 3 on your booty list? 
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its not a booty list. The term mingle in itself should say it all. I am from a divorce and want to meet different guys, Im not settling for one at a time. I dont want a serious relationship that ends up with a ring on my finger, but i do want some companionship and friendship. If later down that road it led to intimacy than that may be what happens.
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I hate texting... Won't do it... Nope...
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I know many who despise texting. Sounds like its ok for you to date others and get laid, but he's suppose to respond imediately??? Maybe HE was getting laid. and since you're from a small town, maybe he was bragging up your date to a buddy--- who informed him that he "had" you the night before........could also explain failure to reply.
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ok....yeah....I'm lost here.
If it's not a serious relationship and you are dating around, why expect more out of him? |
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Edited by
Oceanbluze
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Tue 08/31/10 11:00 PM
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I know many who despise texting. Sounds like its ok for you to date others and get laid, but he's suppose to respond imediately??? Maybe HE was getting laid. and since you're from a small town, maybe he was bragging up your date to a buddy--- who informed him that he "had" you the night before........could also explain failure to reply. Honey, have you heard of SURF CITY USA, aka Huntington Beach,ca, No such thing as small. Im about 30 minutes from Los angeles, ever heard of show called Orange County Housewives, I live there. All I was saying, is Dont tell me we had a great time and to call you in the morning, so we can hang out again, before the kids get back, and then blow me off all day, I did call. I postponed our reservations for tonight, he never called or confirmed, or texted me back, after we already discuss these plans yesterday. And for the record, even the friends of mine that are girls, are not flakes, I cant stand flakes, I dont hang out with flakes, regardless of whomever they shall be in my life. It has nothing to do with getting laid, But if he is not calling me back because I did not have sex with him our second date then his loss, thats all I am saying. I am here to mingle, I never changed my profile, it plainly says just lookin to chill. I dont know what town you are from, that you think mine is so small. |
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ok....yeah....I'm lost here. If it's not a serious relationship and you are dating around, why expect more out of him? He's dating around too, we are open about it, the deal is we had planned on hanging out today and he flaked. period. |
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We are both raised in the same local area so we have a lot to talk about anyways, but who knows. From this, I assumed it was small enough for the comments to have been reasonable. It is indeed frustrating when folks say one thing then blow you off instead. I hope he calls with an explanation. That was a bummer to have to wait on him like that. Thank you, that is exactly my point, it's not about who got laid or whos serious or not, its about saying something and following through. We come from a larger area actually that is what made it nice to meet him because it's not a small town where everyone knows everyone. Its a lucky coincidence on our part, which is also what makes it a bummer, he was such a stinker. |
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I hate texting... Won't do it... Nope... Not even naughty ones??? dirty, sexy, raunchy ones???  
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I hate texting... Won't do it... Nope... Not even naughty ones??? dirty, sexy, raunchy ones??? those are the BEST... 
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Edited by
AllenAqua
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Thu 09/02/10 09:53 AM
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I hate texting... Won't do it... Nope... Not even naughty ones??? dirty, sexy, raunchy ones??? Well, I'm not saying that I can't be persuaded...  (NEW TEXT MESSAGE)btw, ur hawt! meet me 4 nsa @ room 69 ? (END OF TEXT MESSAGE)  
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I betcha I could get you to text play
 
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So second date a total bust. We went out, but not really anywhere. the restaurant we wanted to go to was closed on mondays and turns out the movie i rented was also a duplicate of which he just saw. Hung out for a few hours talking to get to know each other, had a great time. walked me to my car, (no sex) we did kiss goodnight. He asked me out again today because we both have kids and have a break today from them, so I agreed. Told me to call him today which I did and let him know I made reservations for that same resturaunt which is open today and he has yet to return my phone call, or 2 of my text. Oh well. I dont appreciate being strung a long, or hanging out with men who maybe dont have the balls to say we arent compatible, although I dont think that is the case. perhaps for whatever reason, I'm guessing he chose someone else to spend his time with today. all I can say is F-OFF you're a lousy kisser and I got laid two days ago anyways. Thanks for wasting my time. Im not a convenience store. I am a beautiful woman. what thats just wrong hes late on a phone call you kick him to the curb then insult him on the internet thats low |
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In sales it is called the "take away" close. Women tend to want what they can't have, and he is making it seem like you can't ahve him. He just wants to get a strong emotional reaction out of you. It is the opposite of sounding needy and calling every day.
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In sales it is called the "take away" close. Women tend to want what they can't have, and he is making it seem like you can't ahve him. He just wants to get a strong emotional reaction out of you. It is the opposite of sounding needy and calling every day. Whats the payoff? The emotion is 'that guys a stinker' That's the initial emotion, which turns to the thought "why do I care so much, we only went out on one date." Which begs the question "maybe I like him" most women that I know need some sort of turmoil or drama to develop strong emotions. The strong anger can lead to strong passion. Not saying it always does, or it works every time, but you would be suprised at the power of jealousy in women. |
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In sales it is called the "take away" close. Women tend to want what they can't have, and he is making it seem like you can't ahve him. He just wants to get a strong emotional reaction out of you. It is the opposite of sounding needy and calling every day. Whats the payoff? The emotion is 'that guys a stinker' That's the initial emotion, which turns to the thought "why do I care so much, we only went out on one date." Which begs the question "maybe I like him" most women that I know need some sort of turmoil or drama to develop strong emotions. The strong anger can lead to strong passion. Not saying it always does, or it works every time, but you would be suprised at the power of jealousy in women. I like that. Thanks for posting it. Ugh, I don't. California girls are crazy like that, and I am a pretty strait shooter. It is a delicate line to walk, if you return texts right away you seem needy and desperate, if you don't you seem disinterested. Going through hardship early in a relationship is a way to intensify the emotions in a relationship. After the strong anger there will not be any more ambivilance in the relationship |
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I am a straight shooter. Maybe thats why people get offended. I dont want a relationship, but I am looking for companionship. if a person doesnt have time to devote or invest in a friendship then they are not really meeting my needs, vice versa, people can come here all day and chat it up but I think a lot of you would like to meet someone to kick it with. And for the record, I think all women are crazy, not just Californians, haha.
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Edited by
Oceanbluze
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Thu 09/02/10 10:55 AM
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PS- "the take away?" It's no trick. I would still be friends with that guy if he actually started texting me. I am not dissing him. I come here for support because I have been divorced and want to meet people. If i wanted to diss someone, I would name names and stuff like that. I dont do that crap. Like i said he is a stinker for flaking but we did have a great time. Twice,thats what makes it so confusing.
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I agree all women are crazy... it's all about being the RIGHT kind of crazy
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