okay so i don't get in trouble for this...let me clarify that this topic is all about interracial dating.
it is a subject i know nothing about. well um except for 5 year stint a spanish guy named gene g who is now residing in a far off place in texas. hope his sons r ready this....

he was the worst for humping all the ladies in ventura co.

now back 2 the subject. ya gotta put it out there for the population 2 c that u r interested in. but ima confused old lady cougar. what do i know about the situation. nada.

that is true. i said i had 5 years of experience with just one hispanic that was humping every woman in ventura, cali. i did not know it. but he was notorious for it, and i hope his kids r reading this. was it a summary. no just a life experience i shared. maybe not appropriate 4 the situation.

well made points. i have no other experiences and before i get deleted, and suspended, i will let it go at that.

good luck, but keep your eyes open about your own situation.

Probably does have a lot to do with race. But, I have worked with other people from other countries that won't date the white race. Me, I don't care. If the person was nice, etc I'd date. I don't have a problem with interracial dating.

i was thinking it was more about the size.

it seems that a lot of asian women are petite, therefore smaller than most white men.

a lot of asian men i've seen are small in stature as well, and i definitely prefer a man broader in the chest and legs than i am and would think that most other women do as well.

i'm sure they exist but i haven't seen many oriental men over 6" and 200 lbs. makes finding a physical match a little bit more difficult.

So I'm wandering the streets of Sydney, and I see a lot of Asian female/Caucasian male couples. What I hardly ever see is Asian male/Caucasian female couples. My question is...
What the hell is wrong with us!?

I'm not really attracted to white women, personally. I'm just curious , that's all.

i was thinking it was more about the size.

it seems that a lot of asian women are petite, therefore smaller than most white men.

a lot of asian men i've seen are small in stature as well, and i definitely prefer a man broader in the chest and legs than i am and would think that most other women do as well.

i'm sure they exist but i haven't seen many oriental men over 6" and 200 lbs. makes finding a physical match a little bit more difficult.

***Here is an interesting quote from a dating website ad -
"Why Date Asians in Australia?"
"Because Asian girls are keepers. They will always serve and never leave you no matter what.***

Hmmm... Let see. People in this forum wonder why White people like asian women huh? I believe it's not about the RAISE, COLOR & SIZE, I think it's about the PERSONALITY & ATTITUDE. Asian women are not just a "keeper" they just know how to handle bad situation... Asian girls are sweet, understanding & super loving and in addition to that most of asian women are faithful, I think that makes asian girls attractive.

My Aunt married an Aussie guy & they're still together after 30 years. And they make me believe that race is NOT A BIG THING when it comes in choosing the RIGHT ONE. I don't care what race of my future-husband-to-be as long as he's my soulmate & we love each other.


Nothing is wrong w/ us...

So I'm wandering the streets of Sydney, and I see a lot of Asian female/Caucasian male couples. What I hardly ever see is Asian male/Caucasian female couples. My question is...
What the hell is wrong with us!?

I'm not really attracted to white women, personally. I'm just curious , that's all.

people are attracted to different things physically which they can tell upfront, but character traits cant be determined by merely sight,, we have to get to know the person.

I think some people put SO much emphasis on the asthetics of race though, that they miss out on great partnerships and friendships.

I never understood exclusive daters(those who date just one race) but to each their own. I prefer broad shoulders, tan skin, brown eyes, brunette or brown hair, lips that arent too thin and noses that arent too wide,, but NONE of these traits exclude any race and none of them are dealbreakers, just preferences. In the end , I want to be with someone who treats me right and doesnt repulse me physically..lol

Im not asian, so I cant answer specifically. But as a woman of color, I can see a disparity as well, even though its in reverse.

There are far more black males who choose white females than there are white males who choose black females. I think, personally , there is a stereotype invovled that goes like this...


black women are loud and independent (so most males believing this would avoid choosing them)

white women are docile and compliant (so most males believing this would flock to choose them)

black males are better lovers and protectors (so most women believing this would flock to choose them)

white males are more financially secure and poseesive(so many women believing this would choose financial stability)

the prevalance of such stereotypes(none of which I believe, by the way) seems to have a huge impact on the cultural choices we see when people choose partners
perhaps the underlying sterotype of asian females being timid and compliant makes them more desirable to asian males and caucasian males than the stereotype of the american female(period) who is loose and demanding and disrespectful

people are attracted to different things physically which they can tell upfront, but character traits cant be determined by merely sight,, we have to get to know the person.

I think some people put SO much emphasis on the asthetics of race though, that they miss out on great partnerships and friendships.

I never understood exclusive daters(those who date just one race) but to each their own. I prefer broad shoulders, tan skin, brown eyes, brunette or brown hair, lips that arent too thin and noses that arent too wide,, but NONE of these traits exclude any race and none of them are dealbreakers, just preferences. In the end , I want to be with someone who treats me right and doesnt repulse me physically..lol

Stereotyping sucks...

There are strong women in all races.
There are weak women in all races.
There are hellashiously great lovers in all races, the person has to want to please their partner more than themselves.

Any person who has been exposed to quite a few humans can figure out that most stereotyping comes from ignorance.

I think the gorilla man might have posted in the wrong thread.

I think the gorilla man might have posted in the wrong thread.