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Seemed parallel or similar to the original thread post, so I thought I'd serve that one out there. If it's too
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this is for ts2...
no it aint the age difference baby. it is cause u r blond, me brunette. 
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So I'm wandering the streets of Sydney, and I see a lot of Asian female/Caucasian male couples. What I hardly ever see is Asian male/Caucasian female couples. My question is... What the hell is wrong with us!? I'm not really attracted to white women, personally. I'm just curious , that's all. Im not asian, so I cant answer specifically. But as a woman of color, I can see a disparity as well, even though its in reverse. There are far more black males who choose white females than there are white males who choose black females. I think, personally , there is a stereotype invovled that goes like this... black women are loud and independent (so most males believing this would avoid choosing them) white women are docile and compliant (so most males believing this would flock to choose them) black males are better lovers and protectors (so most women believing this would flock to choose them) white males are more financially secure and poseesive(so many women believing this would choose financial stability) the prevalance of such stereotypes(none of which I believe, by the way) seems to have a huge impact on the cultural choices we see when people choose partners perhaps the underlying sterotype of asian females being timid and compliant makes them more desirable to asian males and caucasian males than the stereotype of the american female(period) who is loose and demanding and disrespectful Stereotyping sucks... There are strong women in all races. There are weak women in all races. There are hellashiously great lovers in all races, the person has to want to please their partner more than themselves. Any person who has been exposed to quite a few humans can figure out that most stereotyping comes from ignorance. I agree, but there are a surprising number of people who have had very little exposure beyond their own neighborhood, community , or city. Pity that. One of my greatest pleasures in life is experiencing or just being exposed to, different cultures, peoples, foods, music, ect. Humans can be quite entertaining, exciting, and joyous...when they're not being selfish, short-sighted and stupid. This world would be so much better if people, on the whole, looked upon each others' differences with wonder, curiousity and excitement instead of suspician(sp?), resentment, and hostility. |
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this is for ts2... no it aint the age difference baby. it is cause u r blond, me brunette.
Hey, I resemble that remark!!  
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well resemble it all u want.
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To Msharmony,
I know what you are saying there are too many stereotypes. I live in a small town and mostly black men are with whit women and you dont see vey many white men with black women. If you do see them the white men come from other states or cities and are not from around my town. |
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To Msharmony, I know what you are saying there are too many stereotypes. I live in a small town and mostly black men are with whit women and you dont see vey many white men with black women. If you do see them the white men come from other states or cities and are not from around my town. I have dated black women before and I caught all kinds of poo from black men over it. Something about a fine dark sample of feminine beauty under the arm of a white man makes them get all indignant. Hell, my favorite person to despise is a white woman trying to come off black. I mean I can see where black people get pissed off at their kids wanting to be white. They should be proud of who they are and make a name for themselves rather than worry about personal image and seeing greener grass on the other side of every fence. Wanna bee's just tick me off. Why can't people just be themselves??? Heck I can't explain why I like Japanese women so much. Still, it is far better to outbreed than inbreed! |
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To Msharmony, I know what you are saying there are too many stereotypes. I live in a small town and mostly black men are with whit women and you dont see vey many white men with black women. If you do see them the white men come from other states or cities and are not from around my town. I have dated black women before and I caught all kinds of poo from black men over it. Something about a fine dark sample of feminine beauty under the arm of a white man makes them get all indignant. Hell, my favorite person to despise is a white woman trying to come off black. I mean I can see where black people get pissed off at their kids wanting to be white. They should be proud of who they are and make a name for themselves rather than worry about personal image and seeing greener grass on the other side of every fence. Wanna bee's just tick me off. Why can't people just be themselves??? Heck I can't explain why I like Japanese women so much. Still, it is far better to outbreed than inbreed! How would you know if the white woman was raised by black folks and is not a "wanna be" since it is her life? Just because other white folks act a certain way doesn't make it right. Same with black folks who do not act black, they may have been raised by people who do not act black. This is the trouble with stereotypes, they are never absolute. |
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hahahahahaha
i can make no sense of all this stuff. u is what u is... so if you have a black body with white stripes does that make u a zebra? what if you have a white body with black stripes. does that make u a skunk? okay hit me up with some stupid answers so i can get more hate mail, and thrown off the mingle site. i am anxiously awaiting your reply
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To Msharmony, I know what you are saying there are too many stereotypes. I live in a small town and mostly black men are with whit women and you dont see vey many white men with black women. If you do see them the white men come from other states or cities and are not from around my town. I have dated black women before and I caught all kinds of poo from black men over it. Something about a fine dark sample of feminine beauty under the arm of a white man makes them get all indignant. Hell, my favorite person to despise is a white woman trying to come off black. I mean I can see where black people get pissed off at their kids wanting to be white. They should be proud of who they are and make a name for themselves rather than worry about personal image and seeing greener grass on the other side of every fence. Wanna bee's just tick me off. Why can't people just be themselves??? Heck I can't explain why I like Japanese women so much. Still, it is far better to outbreed than inbreed! How would you know if the white woman was raised by black folks and is not a "wanna be" since it is her life? Just because other white folks act a certain way doesn't make it right. Same with black folks who do not act black, they may have been raised by people who do not act black. This is the trouble with stereotypes, they are never absolute. If her mom and dad is white??? I have seen more than one example of this BS. She is white, her parents are white bread and she is so "rebellious." Please do not assume I am pulling anybody's leg here. I got black friends who are totally CPT. I can be my whiteness among them and no one has to trip or flex or front. They can bump and Jive and rap all they want I could care less. I likewise got black friends who don't live in that groove. they live more like I do and not because I say that to make me feel more comfortable about anything. They just are the way they are. For a black girl to want to go all Michael Jackson and want to turn white? SHOOOO! SHAME ON HER! Hell, I don't like being human, of all the creature on this planet to be and I had to be part of the worst of the lot! OH NO! SELF HATING! SHAME ON ME!!!!! 
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Edited by
sweetestgirl11
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Sat 05/08/10 06:46 AM
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So I'm wandering the streets of Sydney, and I see a lot of Asian female/Caucasian male couples. What I hardly ever see is Asian male/Caucasian female couples. My question is... What the hell is wrong with us!? I'm not really attracted to white women, personally. I'm just curious , that's all. Im not asian, so I cant answer specifically. But as a woman of color, I can see a disparity as well, even though its in reverse. There are far more black males who choose white females than there are white males who choose black females. I think, personally , there is a stereotype invovled that goes like this... black women are loud and independent (so most males believing this would avoid choosing them) white women are docile and compliant (so most males believing this would flock to choose them) black males are better lovers and protectors (so most women believing this would flock to choose them) white males are more financially secure and poseesive(so many women believing this would choose financial stability) the prevalance of such stereotypes(none of which I believe, by the way) seems to have a huge impact on the cultural choices we see when people choose partners perhaps the underlying sterotype of asian females being timid and compliant makes them more desirable to asian males and caucasian males than the stereotype of the american female(period) who is loose and demanding and disrespectful There is probably some truth to what you say as an African Boyfriend of mine told me that he doesnot like American Black women, and it was cuturally based not racially based (obviously). Me? I think American Black women are some of the friendliest, most ambitious and admirable people anywhere, but who cares what I think - you're not wanting to marry me 
But as for Asian girls being compliant - both of my sons date Asian women, from Vietnam and Thailand - trust me they can be pretty bossy sometimes, but they also place a high value on family, honor, loyalty - prolly moreso than what we see in American popular culture. That is attractive to my sons as it is how they were raised. As far as dating for Asian men - IDK the answer to the OPs question, but I have not really observed a descrepancy as my sister's best friend id married to a Chinese man and she is caucasian |
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And I thought this was gonna be about Formula 1 or NASCAR ...
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Edited by
msharmony
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Sat 05/08/10 08:23 AM
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So I'm wandering the streets of Sydney, and I see a lot of Asian female/Caucasian male couples. What I hardly ever see is Asian male/Caucasian female couples. My question is... What the hell is wrong with us!? I'm not really attracted to white women, personally. I'm just curious , that's all. Im not asian, so I cant answer specifically. But as a woman of color, I can see a disparity as well, even though its in reverse. There are far more black males who choose white females than there are white males who choose black females. I think, personally , there is a stereotype invovled that goes like this... black women are loud and independent (so most males believing this would avoid choosing them) white women are docile and compliant (so most males believing this would flock to choose them) black males are better lovers and protectors (so most women believing this would flock to choose them) white males are more financially secure and poseesive(so many women believing this would choose financial stability) the prevalance of such stereotypes(none of which I believe, by the way) seems to have a huge impact on the cultural choices we see when people choose partners perhaps the underlying sterotype of asian females being timid and compliant makes them more desirable to asian males and caucasian males than the stereotype of the american female(period) who is loose and demanding and disrespectful There is probably some truth to what you say as an African Boyfriend of mine told me that he doesnot like American Black women, and it was cuturally based not racially based (obviously). Me? I think American Black women are some of the friendliest, most ambitious and admirable people anywhere, but who cares what I think - you're not wanting to marry me
But as for Asian girls being compliant - both of my sons date Asian women, from Vietnam and Thailand - trust me they can be pretty bossy sometimes, but they also place a high value on family, honor, loyalty - prolly moreso than what we see in American popular culture. That is attractive to my sons as it is how they were raised. As far as dating for Asian men - IDK the answer to the OPs question, but I have not really observed a descrepancy as my sister's best friend id married to a Chinese man and she is caucasian exactly ,and the stereotypes continue,,,,,what people attribute to RACE is pretty silly usually, but we naturally tend to put things into categories I have been told I spoke 'white' (as opposed to speaking like someone from a family with formal education,,which is not determined by race,,,) I have been told I have 'mixed' hair (as opposed to having hair of someone with ancestors who were not JUST from Africa) I have been told I 'act' white (I dont even want to go into the stereotypes about how one race is SUPPOSED to act,,) ,,it will never stop,,,,for a long time it offended me because it was this assumption that if I spoke as if I had an education, or have any type of hair other than kinky or carry myself with manners , I was not being black or the even broader reaching assumption that white folks have a monopoly and unique ownership of these attributes,,, now, I just shrug it off as ignorance,,,,,with age really does come wisdom(for some anyhow) |
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could it be something to do with height? most asian men are not as tall as average european/white women?
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So I'm wandering the streets of Sydney, and I see a lot of Asian female/Caucasian male couples. What I hardly ever see is Asian male/Caucasian female couples. My question is... What the hell is wrong with us!? I'm not really attracted to white women, personally. I'm just curious , that's all. Im not asian, so I cant answer specifically. But as a woman of color, I can see a disparity as well, even though its in reverse. There are far more black males who choose white females than there are white males who choose black females. I think, personally , there is a stereotype invovled that goes like this... black women are loud and independent (so most males believing this would avoid choosing them) white women are docile and compliant (so most males believing this would flock to choose them) black males are better lovers and protectors (so most women believing this would flock to choose them) white males are more financially secure and poseesive(so many women believing this would choose financial stability) the prevalance of such stereotypes(none of which I believe, by the way) seems to have a huge impact on the cultural choices we see when people choose partners perhaps the underlying sterotype of asian females being timid and compliant makes them more desirable to asian males and caucasian males than the stereotype of the american female(period) who is loose and demanding and disrespectful There is probably some truth to what you say as an African Boyfriend of mine told me that he doesnot like American Black women, and it was cuturally based not racially based (obviously). Me? I think American Black women are some of the friendliest, most ambitious and admirable people anywhere, but who cares what I think - you're not wanting to marry me
But as for Asian girls being compliant - both of my sons date Asian women, from Vietnam and Thailand - trust me they can be pretty bossy sometimes, but they also place a high value on family, honor, loyalty - prolly moreso than what we see in American popular culture. That is attractive to my sons as it is how they were raised. As far as dating for Asian men - IDK the answer to the OPs question, but I have not really observed a descrepancy as my sister's best friend id married to a Chinese man and she is caucasian exactly ,and the stereotypes continue,,,,,what people attribute to RACE is pretty silly usually, but we naturally tend to put things into categories I have been told I spoke 'white' (as opposed to speaking like someone from a family with formal education,,which is not determined by race,,,) I have been told I have 'mixed' hair (as opposed to having hair of someone with ancestors who were not JUST from Africa) I have been told I 'act' white (I dont even want to go into the stereotypes about how one race is SUPPOSED to act,,) ,,it will never stop,,,,for a long time it offended me because it was this assumption that if I spoke as if I had an education, or have any type of hair other than kinky or carry myself with manners , I was not being black or the even broader reaching assumption that white folks have a monopoly and unique ownership of these attributes,,, now, I just shrug it off as ignorance,,,,,with age really does come wisdom(for some anyhow) Most defintely, manners and Grace belong to people's of all races . colors, religions, etc - look at Iman (the model) or oprah, or Coretta Scott King - I suppose they shouild be criticized for acting "white" because they are well mannered, well spoken, and graceful - look at Michelle Obama - easily one of the best dressed WOMEN (NOT black women) in AMerica. Anyway, Here's an amusing bit of racial stereotyping for you in keeping with your observation - * have been told I 'act' white (I dont even want to go into the stereotypes about how one race is SUPPOSED to act,,)* My ex used to play on a basketball team that had only 1 other white guy. Do you know how many times we heard "white men can't jump"
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I love asian, hispanic, amazonian women, white womens, and black womens. Can't think of womens I don't like.
As far as black women, I like 'em petite, black as tar and their real, natural nappy hair. She cain't mind her hair being messed wit either. I really am turned off when a black woman runs around with those dumb-azz wanna' be european swtyle wigs. Those things are so fake and nasty. Takes away from her natural beauty. I sure miss the 70's when black women liked looking black. Bring back dem big mofo fros!  
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If an attractive black woman approached me or showed interest, I'd respond in a nano-second. No preference here.
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I only date men who like porn!
Uhoh the capt Morgan is kickin in!! Lol 
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When I wuz a young man, it was all pink inside.
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although many people consider themselves to be rational people, uninfluenced by stereotype and media, their behavior says otherwise...there is only a small group of people, very small, that are uninfluenced..most of us are influenced in some way or another
getting to the point -- asian man/white women: won't happen in the us...why -- less to do with asian guy not wanting it, but the white women not wanting it...why -- social status/stigma/shame ...why -- media...why -- culture.... culture is very hard to change and it will takes years, perhaps decades for this to become reasonably accepted asian girl/white man: happens...why -- less to do with the white guy...more to do with asian girl...why -- social status/acceptance...why---media ....why -- culture...(case point -- take a look at all the US porn...white guy/asian girl...never the reverse...NEVER) This has become accepted and is the culture now i see what i see..in an ideal world, people would date based on whats on the inside, not out...however, as the world gets nastier and as the economy plummets...people are going to revert to the base, and that base is mostly things that we are brainwashed into believing since birth....or well, mostly what the asian girls and white girls are brainwashed into believing.. roko |
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