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Seriously! I went out tonight with one of my friends. We met up with these 2 guys and everything was going well. They ended up riding with me to another bar. They really started to annoy me at this point. Just saying stupid things. Then after we leave that bar the one guy is tryin to get me to kiss him cuz "I have big lips". I tried to blow him off and tell him I'm driving, can't kiss ya. Then he actually says to me that he's coming home with me cuz he wants to find out if I'm "tight"    I was hoping I heard him wrong so I asked "what did you say?" and he replies " I'm coming home with you, I'll do ya, I mean, why not?"
This is where I pulled the car over and told him to get out. I literally threw him to the curb. WTF is wrong with some people?? hmmmmmm, you go to a bar with a friend, you meet up with 2 guys - all four of you are drinking.. you invite them to go with you to another bar, to continue drinking... (ignoring the fact that you are drinking and driving)... only, once you leave the bar you realize they are ******** and kick at least one of them to the curb... perhaps you need to review your decision making process... 1. drinking and driving 2. inviting complete (perhaps inebreated) strangers into your car 3. leading them on by suggesting you get in the car to go to another bar 1. bad decision - call a cab for yourself 2. bad decision - suggest they follow you next time (or take a cab if you/they have been drinking) 3. bad decision - why even go there The only good decision you made was to tell them to get out of the car... To me, you made a series of bad judgements that could have been very unsafe for you... Please tell me, why is this the guys fault??... Hmmmmm $.02 
blame game is something I rarely play because usually it comes down to the decisions of more than one person. I will agree with what you state up to the question of fault. its noone's fault,,but it is the guys responsibility to learn manners, and the young ladies responsibility to learn to make safer choices. |
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Please tell me, why is this the guys fault??...
Nothing was wrong; UNTIL the "guy" was rude & impolite. The problem started with "HIS actions." A person should be able to go out, meet new people & NOT be DISRESPECTED. Again, MANNERS, this was a perfect example of the "lack of". Again, old man's opinion. |
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Seriously! I went out tonight with one of my friends. We met up with these 2 guys and everything was going well. They ended up riding with me to another bar. They really started to annoy me at this point. Just saying stupid things. Then after we leave that bar the one guy is tryin to get me to kiss him cuz "I have big lips". I tried to blow him off and tell him I'm driving, can't kiss ya. Then he actually says to me that he's coming home with me cuz he wants to find out if I'm "tight" I was hoping I heard him wrong so I asked "what did you say?" and he replies " I'm coming home with you, I'll do ya, I mean, why not?"
This is where I pulled the car over and told him to get out. I literally threw him to the curb. WTF is wrong with some people?? Azzholes like him stay azz holes and THEY stand out in most rooms,,your first thoughts as to his lip remark should have MADE HIM CLEAR,,,as to he ain't out for nuttin but a piece and not at all about you....Please,,,be careful out there,,,,   
 
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Edited by
TheShadow
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Wed 02/17/10 08:49 AM
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Well if we all think about it, were adults and going to a bar you have to expect the worst. I'm sorry, but going to a bar knowing things like this will happen being a woman, and then come on here and vent about it. Who's falt is it really? I say take responcibilit for your own actions.
The second thing I'm thinking. All of them were getting drunk bar hopping. How do we know she wasn't leading him on. (It just her word) I seen to many women go to bars, play a guy, and then turn around and ***** about it. I'm not saying the OP did this, but we only know her story. Somthing to think about The reason I'm saying this is, because the last month or two. 95% of the OP post have been only venting?? |
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I have always thought part of these type of sites; was venting about things that happen in life?? Don't we all do it?
NO ONE HAS to participate & when done with manners,what is wrong with it. The lady's actions seem to be drawing more conversation, than the guy's. |
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I will tell you whats wrong. Your bar hopping and your hooking up with clowns at bars? Not trying to be rude here, but what did you expect. Girl goes to bar, girl meets boy at bar. Boy at bar is geting drunk and horny. Figures what does he have to lose knowing he has been turn down god only knows how many time, and he don't care anymore what happens, but once in a while gets lucky. So why not just come out and say **** me. |
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Edited by
TheShadow
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Wed 02/17/10 10:09 AM
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I have always thought part of these type of sites; was venting about things that happen in life?? Don't we all do it? NO ONE HAS to participate & when done with manners,what is wrong with it. The lady's actions seem to be drawing more conversation, than the guy's. There is nothing wrong in venting once in a while. Just when you see somone do it just about everytime they post. Sound like someone not willing to take action to make things better in their life. It's like what the definition of insanity means. Going over and over and over the same situation, expecting different results. it will never happen. The man problem with that, most are unwilling to do anything about it. So it becomes a patern they never brack away from. So the blaming comes in, but in reality. The person had as much as responcibility as the other for puting themself in the situation. In all, if you don't want to get burnd. DONT put your hand in the fire. |
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Well if we all think about it, were adults and going to a bar you have to expect the worst. I'm sorry, but going to a bar knowing things like this will happen being a woman, and then come on here and vent about it. Who's falt is it really? I say take responcibilit for your own actions. The second thing I'm thinking. All of them were getting drunk bar hopping. How do we know she wasn't leading him on. (It just her word) I seen to many women go to bars, play a guy, and then turn around and ***** about it. I'm not saying the OP did this, but we only know her story. Somthing to think about The reason I'm saying this is, because the last month or two. 95% of the OP post have been only venting?? Because I was nice to these 2 guys, and offered them a ride since doesn't make his actions to me OK. I'm all for taking responsibility for your own actions. Which I do. However, I fail to see how I deserved these actions against me. |
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I wouldn't have someone in my car i didn't know I'm glad you kicked him out
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Seriously! I went out tonight with one of my friends. We met up with these 2 guys and everything was going well. They ended up riding with me to another bar. They really started to annoy me at this point. Just saying stupid things. Then after we leave that bar the one guy is tryin to get me to kiss him cuz "I have big lips". I tried to blow him off and tell him I'm driving, can't kiss ya. Then he actually says to me that he's coming home with me cuz he wants to find out if I'm "tight" I was hoping I heard him wrong so I asked "what did you say?" and he replies " I'm coming home with you, I'll do ya, I mean, why not?"
This is where I pulled the car over and told him to get out. I literally threw him to the curb. WTF is wrong with some people??
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Seriously! I went out tonight with one of my friends. We met up with these 2 guys and everything was going well. They ended up riding with me to another bar. They really started to annoy me at this point. Just saying stupid things. Then after we leave that bar the one guy is tryin to get me to kiss him cuz "I have big lips". I tried to blow him off and tell him I'm driving, can't kiss ya. Then he actually says to me that he's coming home with me cuz he wants to find out if I'm "tight" I was hoping I heard him wrong so I asked "what did you say?" and he replies " I'm coming home with you, I'll do ya, I mean, why not?"
This is where I pulled the car over and told him to get out. I literally threw him to the curb. WTF is wrong with some people?? hmmmmmm, you go to a bar with a friend, you meet up with 2 guys - all four of you are drinking.. you invite them to go with you to another bar, to continue drinking... (ignoring the fact that you are drinking and driving)... only, once you leave the bar you realize they are ******** and kick at least one of them to the curb... perhaps you need to review your decision making process... 1. drinking and driving 2. inviting complete (perhaps inebreated) strangers into your car 3. leading them on by suggesting you get in the car to go to another bar 1. bad decision - call a cab for yourself 2. bad decision - suggest they follow you next time (or take a cab if you/they have been drinking) 3. bad decision - why even go there The only good decision you made was to tell them to get out of the car... To me, you made a series of bad judgements that could have been very unsafe for you... Please tell me, why is this the guys fault??... Hmmmmm $.02
These 2 guys were not complete stangers to me. I have seen them around previously, I know the bartender, the bartender knows these guys. I didn't know them WELL but I didn't think I was in any danger. |
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Edited by
tanyaann
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I don't think that Jill would have put herself intentially into a situation that was dangerous.
And as OldSage said... what about these guys' actions. I have little tolerance nowadays for people that can't keep their hands, actions or rude words to themselves. I don't know how people can 'push' themselves onto others... to use them for their own personal needs. |
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Too bad you didn't drop him off in the industrial section of town. Can be a scary place late at night.
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Seriously! I went out tonight with one of my friends. We met up with these 2 guys and everything was going well. They ended up riding with me to another bar. They really started to annoy me at this point. Just saying stupid things. Then after we leave that bar the one guy is tryin to get me to kiss him cuz "I have big lips". I tried to blow him off and tell him I'm driving, can't kiss ya. Then he actually says to me that he's coming home with me cuz he wants to find out if I'm "tight" I was hoping I heard him wrong so I asked "what did you say?" and he replies " I'm coming home with you, I'll do ya, I mean, why not?"
This is where I pulled the car over and told him to get out. I literally threw him to the curb. WTF is wrong with some people?? If it bleeds, we can kill it. 
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That's why I would drive my car, and they would have to be in there own car...
Then I don't have to worry about anyone thinking they are coming home with me, or me having to kick 'em into the street.... Please be careful, there are a lot of ignorant, abusive people running around. |
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simpe...nothing wrong with us....
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Seriously! I went out tonight with one of my friends. We met up with these 2 guys and everything was going well. They ended up riding with me to another bar. They really started to annoy me at this point. Just saying stupid things. Then after we leave that bar the one guy is tryin to get me to kiss him cuz "I have big lips". I tried to blow him off and tell him I'm driving, can't kiss ya. Then he actually says to me that he's coming home with me cuz he wants to find out if I'm "tight" I was hoping I heard him wrong so I asked "what did you say?" and he replies " I'm coming home with you, I'll do ya, I mean, why not?"
This is where I pulled the car over and told him to get out. I literally threw him to the curb. WTF is wrong with some people?? It's because he thought you were easy and maybe desperate, even if you weren't. Basically he made up his mind, that you wanna get laid and he can go directly to get you in bed and you won't resist. |
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First I woulda wrapped my big old lips around him and bite it off!!!! Haha. Jk. Morning!!!   
OH MY,,,,,,,,,,
Your famil last name ,,,,,, is it by CHANCE?????
Bobbit????????????
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I will tell you whats wrong. Your bar hopping and your hooking up with clowns at bars? Not trying to be rude here, but what did you expect. Girl goes to bar, girl meets boy at bar. Boy at bar is geting drunk and horny. Figures what does he have to lose knowing he has been turn down god only knows how many time, and he don't care anymore what happens, but once in a while gets lucky. So why not just come out and say **** me. 
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