Topic: wtf is wrong with some men????
Shasta1's photo
Sat 02/20/10 07:47 AM



Seriously! I went out tonight with one of my friends. We met up with these 2 guys and everything was going well. They ended up riding with me to another bar. They really started to annoy me at this point. Just saying stupid things. Then after we leave that bar the one guy is tryin to get me to kiss him cuz "I have big lips". I tried to blow him off and tell him I'm driving, can't kiss ya. Then he actually says to me that he's coming home with me cuz he wants to find out if I'm "tight" noway surprised mad I was hoping I heard him wrong so I asked "what did you say?" and he replies " I'm coming home with you, I'll do ya, I mean, why not?"noway
This is where I pulled the car over and told him to get out. I literally threw him to the curb. WTF is wrong with some people??


all i saw when reading that was

"They ended up riding me to another bar"

"I tried to blow him off"

and you wonder why he got the wrong idea?? spock
why does that have to offer the wrong idea?? That's what I don't get. Just because I offer someone a ride does not in any way mean I want to sleep with him. I never led him on in any way, shape, or form. There was no flirting. There was nothing. But because he rode with us to another bar, that means he has the right to think I want to sleep with him? I think that's awfully narcissistic. Just because I gave him a ride doesn't mean what he did and said to me was OK. I didn't deserve it simply because he rode with me to another bar and got the wrong idea.
A real man that would have gotten the "wrong idea" would have maybe harmlessly flirted a lil bit and let it go once he was told no. A real man wouldn't have said "I would do you because well why not?"


I used to think like you. You have to learn that men DO NOT think like women.
"WE're going over to _______, You guys want to tag along?"

YOU: 'I'm giving these guys a ride, more fun to laugh and goof around'
HIM: 'She likes me, I'm getting LAID TONIGHT'.

I couldn't understand it either. The rift is closing, but when people drink....all the work crashes. No offense people, just my experience.


TheShadow's photo
Sat 02/20/10 08:04 AM
Lets just say what happen to the OP didn't happen.



Now answer this question. How many people here has found somoone at a bar that hangs out there a lot worth getting to really know? Personally, I don't like bar flys.

bedlum1's photo
Sat 02/20/10 08:08 AM
rofl rofl you go girl
rofl
typical imature dude that thinks only with his nads.....slaphead just think of it this ways most of them are so stupid they thin themselves from the herdrofl
ps...not laughin at you sweety but at hus stupidity.....lmao

DrRob's photo
Sat 02/20/10 08:57 AM

clearly it is funny, if you cant see that then im sorry, i find humour in everything, if you cant, then im sorry. but realy, just go feck yourself with something spikey, like a pineapple you retarded carrot.


yes,its Always so fkin funny when a woman gets mistreated like that.
sigh.

you are sorry eyh...well your attitudes pretty sorry thats for sure.
kinda sad too,cause i was reading thru a lot of your posts and you seemed quite funny and a decent guy to boot.

as per usual,i was wrong.
have a nice day......

Ladylid2012's photo
Sat 02/20/10 09:00 AM


clearly it is funny, if you cant see that then im sorry, i find humour in everything, if you cant, then im sorry. but realy, just go feck yourself with something spikey, like a pineapple you retarded carrot.


yes,its Always so fkin funny when a woman gets mistreated like that.
sigh.

you are sorry eyh...well your attitudes pretty sorry thats for sure.
kinda sad too,cause i was reading thru a lot of your posts and you seemed quite funny and a decent guy to boot.

as per usual,i was wrong.
have a nice day......


You are not wrong, he is a decent guy, he's actually one of the good ones. flowerforyou

willing2's photo
Sat 02/20/10 09:11 AM
If'n I wuz a gal, I'd go to bars to have fun and get loose. Not to try to find a mate.

Ms Jill298,
I'm gonna' tell you like I tell my own girls.
Don't give strangers rides. If you go to meet someone, do it sober and in a very public place. Let a couple people know your plans and agree to call them after the meeting.
I am happy you are safe but, it could have ended badly for you and your friend. Don't ever take that chance again! Understood, young lady?:wink:

pissoffarope's photo
Sat 02/20/10 09:32 AM
to be honest most guys suck they think they are being funny but fact of the matter is they are being disrespectful to a women and rude ,, im sorry you had to forgo this ,,
frustrated

Monier's photo
Sat 02/20/10 09:47 AM

Seriously! I went out tonight with one of my friends. We met up with these 2 guys and everything was going well. They ended up riding with me to another bar. They really started to annoy me at this point. Just saying stupid things. Then after we leave that bar the one guy is tryin to get me to kiss him cuz "I have big lips". I tried to blow him off and tell him I'm driving, can't kiss ya. Then he actually says to me that he's coming home with me cuz he wants to find out if I'm "tight" noway surprised mad I was hoping I heard him wrong so I asked "what did you say?" and he replies " I'm coming home with you, I'll do ya, I mean, why not?"noway
This is where I pulled the car over and told him to get out. I literally threw him to the curb. WTF is wrong with some people??


LOL reminds me of that break up commercial, too light and too heavy where the girl throws the guy from the car.

mscherbear's photo
Sat 02/20/10 10:04 AM



all i saw when reading that was

"They ended up riding me to another bar"

They ended up riding WITH me to another bar.

"I tried to blow him off"

I tried to blow him off and tell him I'm driving, can't kiss ya

and you wonder why he got the wrong idea?? spock


he musta got the same wrong idea that you have..
cause all yer doing is using her words against her,instead of relating.
unless thats some form of humour..which,i cant seem to find much humour in..

the guy was a jerk,period....shes right..no real respectin man would have treated her that way.


Lighten up! It was a joke!

bedlum1's photo
Sat 02/20/10 10:12 AM

you go to a bar expect a drunk,, you go to a club expect a hoe, you go to a church expect a saint, lol its obvious trust me know good comes from meeting a guy in a bar .

church dont make a person good...ive known plenty of catholic girls in my day and lets just say they were more crazy and freaky than the non church ones.....whew:angel: my arse
:tongue: all they wanted to do isdrinks and uh huhsurprised

DrRob's photo
Sat 02/20/10 10:19 AM
Edited by DrRob on Sat 02/20/10 10:21 AM


he musta got the same wrong idea that you have..
cause all yer doing is using her words against her,instead of relating.
unless thats some form of humour..which,i cant seem to find much humour in..

the guy was a jerk,period....shes right..no real respectin man would have treated her that way.


Lighten up! It was a joke!

lighten up..really..i wasnt aware i was being so heavy,actually.

please note this sentence which apparently you either missed or ignored-->

unless thats some form of humour..which,i cant seem to find much humour in..

and then his reply..which of course..was so adult.
he couldnt have just said,it was a joke..no.
he had to resort to name calling.
but hey,its all good right?
right?

so,let me ask you this..do you think Jill thought he was funny as you do?

bedlum1's photo
Sat 02/20/10 10:25 AM



he musta got the same wrong idea that you have..
cause all yer doing is using her words against her,instead of relating.
unless thats some form of humour..which,i cant seem to find much humour in..

the guy was a jerk,period....shes right..no real respectin man would have treated her that way.


Lighten up! It was a joke!

lighten up..really..i wasnt aware i was being so heavy,actually.

please note this sentence which apparently you either missed or ignored-->

unless thats some form of humour..which,i cant seem to find much humour in..

and then his reply..which of course..was so adult.
he couldnt have just said,it was a joke..no.
he had to resort to name calling.
but hey,its all good right?
right?

so,let me ask you this..do you think Jill thought he was funny as you do?
OMFG!!!!!! pull the stick outta your butt...life throws curve balls all the time..if you cant look at a situation after all is said and done and just laugh about the sheer stupidity of it...then you need help..those who get offended easily arent happy with themselves....RELAX...
btw...jill has a great sense of humor

Ladylid2012's photo
Sat 02/20/10 10:29 AM




he musta got the same wrong idea that you have..
cause all yer doing is using her words against her,instead of relating.
unless thats some form of humour..which,i cant seem to find much humour in..

the guy was a jerk,period....shes right..no real respectin man would have treated her that way.


Lighten up! It was a joke!

lighten up..really..i wasnt aware i was being so heavy,actually.

please note this sentence which apparently you either missed or ignored-->

unless thats some form of humour..which,i cant seem to find much humour in..

and then his reply..which of course..was so adult.
he couldnt have just said,it was a joke..no.
he had to resort to name calling.
but hey,its all good right?
right?

so,let me ask you this..do you think Jill thought he was funny as you do?
OMFG!!!!!! pull the stick outta your butt...life throws curve balls all the time..if you cant look at a situation after all is said and done and just laugh about the sheer stupidity of it...then you need help..those who get offended easily arent happy with themselves....RELAX...
btw...jill has a great sense of humor


well..lonestar did call him a "retarded carrot". Which actually cracked me up..sorry Rob. It's all good..relax, call him some sort of brain damaged fruit or vegetable and let it go..drinker

yellowrose10's photo
Sat 02/20/10 10:30 AM

Lets just say what happen to the OP didn't happen.



Now answer this question. How many people here has found somoone at a bar that hangs out there a lot worth getting to really know? Personally, I don't like bar flys.


I used to go once a week to a home bar to shoot pool or watch shuffle board tourneys. I don't always drink when I'm there either. It's like a hole in the wall Cheers type bar where everyone knows everyone. I loved it

DrRob's photo
Sat 02/20/10 10:31 AM

OMFG!!!!!! pull the stick outta your butt...life throws curve balls all the time..if you cant look at a situation after all is said and done and just laugh about the sheer stupidity of it...then you need help..those who get offended easily arent happy with themselves....RELAX...
btw...jill has a great sense of humor


so,next time i post,i should def talk mad trash to people,make fun of them,and call it a joke..Cool!huh

im glad she has a great sense of humour..shed need one,having been thru what she describes.

btw,i cant get the stick out..there appears to be a pineapple stuck therelaugh

thats a joke,defined as a joke,in case someone cannot translate.

DrRob's photo
Sat 02/20/10 10:35 AM


well..lonestar did call him a "retarded carrot". Which actually cracked me up..sorry Rob. It's all good..relax, call him some sort of brain damaged fruit or vegetable and let it go..drinker


that was off the wall..i agree..maybe even a bit funny,if you arent the carrot :banana:

and,im not into no flame wars,which this appears to be turning into rather rapidly.
so,no,i wont be calling him names in return.
and i do feel sorry for what Jill had to go thru.

thanks tho flowers

Ladylid2012's photo
Sat 02/20/10 10:42 AM



well..lonestar did call him a "retarded carrot". Which actually cracked me up..sorry Rob. It's all good..relax, call him some sort of brain damaged fruit or vegetable and let it go..drinker


that was off the wall..i agree..maybe even a bit funny,if you arent the carrot :banana:

and,im not into no flame wars,which this appears to be turning into rather rapidly.
so,no,i wont be calling him names in return.
and i do feel sorry for what Jill had to go thru.

thanks tho flowers


yeah..a bit off the wall...so was this,

btw,i cant get the stick out..there appears to be a pineapple stuck there laugh

:laughing: :laughing:


no photo
Sat 02/20/10 10:55 AM

....how about the dog park? being serious now...i have 5 in my town, and if a guy treats his dog well then..


Stay away from guys like that.... guys in dog parks try to keep you on a leash.... :wink:

buttons's photo
Sat 02/20/10 10:57 AM
Edited by buttons on Sat 02/20/10 11:16 AM


I have always thought part of these type of sites; was venting about things that happen in life?? Don't we all do it?
NO ONE HAS to participate & when done with manners,what is wrong with it.
The lady's actions seem to be drawing more conversation, than the guy's.


There is nothing wrong in venting once in a while. Just when you see somone do it just about everytime they post. Sound like someone not willing to take action to make things better in their life. It's like what the definition of insanity means. Going over and over and over the same situation, expecting different results. it will never happen. The man problem with that, most are unwilling to do anything about it. So it becomes a patern they never brack away from. So the blaming comes in, but in reality. The person had as much as responcibility as the other for puting themself in the situation.

In all, if you don't want to get burnd. DONT put your hand in the fire.
to me this makes no sense... if my car broke down. and i had to walk near a dark alley to go to a payphone <perhaps i did not have a cell phone> does that mean because there was a freak rapist in the alley and he raped me its my fault because i walked by a dark alley?

Monier's photo
Sat 02/20/10 11:06 AM

Seriously! I went out tonight with one of my friends. We met up with these 2 guys and everything was going well. They ended up riding with me to another bar. They really started to annoy me at this point. Just saying stupid things. Then after we leave that bar the one guy is tryin to get me to kiss him cuz "I have big lips". I tried to blow him off and tell him I'm driving, can't kiss ya. Then he actually says to me that he's coming home with me cuz he wants to find out if I'm "tight" noway surprised mad I was hoping I heard him wrong so I asked "what did you say?" and he replies " I'm coming home with you, I'll do ya, I mean, why not?"noway
This is where I pulled the car over and told him to get out. I literally threw him to the curb. WTF is wrong with some people??


btw good call and not at all your fault for giving them a ride. Guys that act that way, continue to do so because some of the women they meet will actually give in.