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honey things have changed in the dating world. he liked ur lips, and he thought he do ya as a favor. men love to try out the cow before they buy the milk. the bigger the lips the better, and even better is if the udder is a working udder. ya go to the bar, and that is what u get. the bull u want to give the horn 2. 
because she went to a bar, she somehow deserved that? I don't care if someone IS looking for a hook up....if the other person isn't interested then leave them alone |
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my point in my posts is....just because someone goes to a bar doesn't mean they are out for anything. Even if they are, that doesn't mean they want that other person. Don't assume.
I would have done the same thing as Jill did, myself...IF I even gave them a ride to begin with. Just because she was at a bar and having fun, doesn't mean she deserved to be treated that way. People say she put herself in that place....it could happen anywhere. Should she lock herself in her house and never go anywhere? 
off the soap box now 
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Hilarious chapelle skit about how our 'uniform' can send out false signals....
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2OBPaenkxdg |
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I shall attempt to use my impending college degree in biopsychology for a plausible explanation. Atrophed amygdala + addition of alcohol= aggravating azzhole Broken Broca's area + booze= bonified butthead Crappy cerebral cortex + cocktails= crude crass creep See. Simple as ABC. These equations may produce the specimen you encountered. My condolences. Nasty things, aren't they? Hope this helped. 
That's good.
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Seriously! I went out tonight with one of my friends. We met up with these 2 guys and everything was going well. They ended up riding with me to another bar. Jill, In all seriousness..... my mom had a co-worker accept a ride home from a guy at a bar around 10 years ago. She had gone to a company Christmas party with another employee so she didn't have her car with her. Then that employee drove them to the bar. The woman (in her early 30's) stayed at the bar to talk to a man and her ride went on home. The man was to drive her home. He murdered her instead. 
Please be careful, Jill.
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Lets just say what happen to the OP didn't happen. Now answer this question. How many people here has found somoone at a bar that hangs out there a lot worth getting to really know? Personally, I don't like bar flys. I used to go once a week to a home bar to shoot pool or watch shuffle board tourneys. I don't always drink when I'm there either. It's like a hole in the wall Cheers type bar where everyone knows everyone. I loved it What year was this
I'm just playing  I don't think there is any plase like that anymore. I use to know a place like that myself, but the realiety in todays world. You have to expect the worst, and when it comes down to men. Enough said
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Seriously! I went out tonight with one of my friends. We met up with these 2 guys and everything was going well. They ended up riding with me to another bar. Jill, In all seriousness..... my mom had a co-worker accept a ride home from a guy at a bar around 10 years ago. She had gone to a company Christmas party with another employee so she didn't have her car with her. Then that employee drove them to the bar. The woman (in her early 30's) stayed at the bar to talk to a man and her ride went on home. The man was to drive her home. He murdered her instead.
Please be careful, Jill.
That's awful.
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Lets just say what happen to the OP didn't happen. Now answer this question. How many people here has found somoone at a bar that hangs out there a lot worth getting to really know? Personally, I don't like bar flys. I used to go once a week to a home bar to shoot pool or watch shuffle board tourneys. I don't always drink when I'm there either. It's like a hole in the wall Cheers type bar where everyone knows everyone. I loved it What year was this
I'm just playing I don't think there is any plase like that anymore. I use to know a place like that myself, but the realiety in todays world. You have to expect the worst, and when it comes down to men. Enough said
very recently. I stopped in this year in fact. Maybe it's where you are located...I don't know. I can name several bars like this around here. protecting yourself is one thing, but those that assume how people are need to be held accountable |
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let me tell this story....because I'm livid right now about it.
My niece is almost 20. She was a straight A student in high school and doing very well in college. She doesn't drink, smoke, do drugs, sleep around. She goes to church every Sunday and helps with the youth group. She is always there to help someone in need. She dresses a bit different, but still not sleazy. She takes after my sister who had her own style when she was young. My mother and her husband having been putting her down and calling her a slut and telling her that guys look at her in certain ways and it's her fault. She has big boobs (nature gave her that) but doesn't dress sleazy, just different. Does my niece deserve to be treated this way just because others can't control themselves or want to assume and judge? |
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I have always thought part of these type of sites; was venting about things that happen in life?? Don't we all do it? NO ONE HAS to participate & when done with manners,what is wrong with it. The lady's actions seem to be drawing more conversation, than the guy's. There is nothing wrong in venting once in a while. Just when you see somone do it just about everytime they post. Sound like someone not willing to take action to make things better in their life. It's like what the definition of insanity means. Going over and over and over the same situation, expecting different results. it will never happen. The man problem with that, most are unwilling to do anything about it. So it becomes a patern they never brack away from. So the blaming comes in, but in reality. The person had as much as responcibility as the other for puting themself in the situation. In all, if you don't want to get burnd. DONT put your hand in the fire. What you said had nothing to do with it. She known ahead of time what she was geting herself into (knowing) she didn't know who she was dealing with. Once again, your at a bar? Every single women on this site knows that scum comes from there period. End of conversation. So once again. if you don't want to get burnd, then don't play with fire. Nothing ment to you buttons Just, this is how I see it.
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Edited by
DrRob
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Sat 02/20/10 01:51 PM
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perhaps a new set of Rules or a big poster on the bar entranceway
Just because you are at a Bar,doesnt mean you can Act Stupid..show the people some respect,and have a good time...? dunno..sounds too vague-ish...but..new Rules of Conduct?? Edit: damm..saw the flaw immediately..who says they can read? 
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the couple of bars that I like...the bouncer, or if the bouncer can't, another person will watch to make sure the lady gets to their cars. If they think the woman should watch out for someone, they will voice it. They can't stop her from doing it, but they will let them know how they feel about it.
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let me tell this story....because I'm livid right now about it. My niece is almost 20. She was a straight A student in high school and doing very well in college. She doesn't drink, smoke, do drugs, sleep around. She goes to church every Sunday and helps with the youth group. She is always there to help someone in need. She dresses a bit different, but still not sleazy. She takes after my sister who had her own style when she was young. My mother and her husband having been putting her down and calling her a slut and telling her that guys look at her in certain ways and it's her fault. She has big boobs (nature gave her that) but doesn't dress sleazy, just different. Does my niece deserve to be treated this way just because others can't control themselves or want to assume and judge? No, and it's sad that her parents put her down like that. Can't be good for her self esteem... |
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I've seen scum at grocery stores. Regardless....yes, maybe she should have been more careful to protect herself (because you don't know what the person really is until it's too late) but that doesn't mean they deserve it. |
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let me tell this story....because I'm livid right now about it. My niece is almost 20. She was a straight A student in high school and doing very well in college. She doesn't drink, smoke, do drugs, sleep around. She goes to church every Sunday and helps with the youth group. She is always there to help someone in need. She dresses a bit different, but still not sleazy. She takes after my sister who had her own style when she was young. My mother and her husband having been putting her down and calling her a slut and telling her that guys look at her in certain ways and it's her fault. She has big boobs (nature gave her that) but doesn't dress sleazy, just different. Does my niece deserve to be treated this way just because others can't control themselves or want to assume and judge? No, and it's sad that her parents put her down like that. Can't be good for her self esteem... not her parents....her grandparents. I disowned my step dad a long time ago and rarely speak to my mom because of all of this. But regardless....she doesn't deserve to be harassed by guys and especially not her own grandparents just because of her style |
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I've seen scum at grocery stores. Regardless....yes, maybe she should have been more careful to protect herself (because you don't know what the person really is until it's too late) but that doesn't mean they deserve it. *cough*Walmart*cough* More scum hangs out there than any place in America, I'm sure.... |
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let me tell this story....because I'm livid right now about it. My niece is almost 20. She was a straight A student in high school and doing very well in college. She doesn't drink, smoke, do drugs, sleep around. She goes to church every Sunday and helps with the youth group. She is always there to help someone in need. She dresses a bit different, but still not sleazy. She takes after my sister who had her own style when she was young. My mother and her husband having been putting her down and calling her a slut and telling her that guys look at her in certain ways and it's her fault. She has big boobs (nature gave her that) but doesn't dress sleazy, just different. Does my niece deserve to be treated this way just because others can't control themselves or want to assume and judge? well..off the cuff..have you spoken to your mother about said behavior? face to face? why do they act like that? it most surely isnt good for the niece...at all. |
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I've seen scum at grocery stores. Regardless....yes, maybe she should have been more careful to protect herself (because you don't know what the person really is until it's too late) but that doesn't mean they deserve it. *cough*Walmart*cough* More scum hangs out there than any place in America, I'm sure.... try Home Depot (at least around here lol) They are worse than any bar I've seen and they are sober too
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let me tell this story....because I'm livid right now about it. My niece is almost 20. She was a straight A student in high school and doing very well in college. She doesn't drink, smoke, do drugs, sleep around. She goes to church every Sunday and helps with the youth group. She is always there to help someone in need. She dresses a bit different, but still not sleazy. She takes after my sister who had her own style when she was young. My mother and her husband having been putting her down and calling her a slut and telling her that guys look at her in certain ways and it's her fault. She has big boobs (nature gave her that) but doesn't dress sleazy, just different. Does my niece deserve to be treated this way just because others can't control themselves or want to assume and judge? No, and it's sad that her parents put her down like that. Can't be good for her self esteem... not her parents....her grandparents. I disowned my step dad a long time ago and rarely speak to my mom because of all of this. But regardless....she doesn't deserve to be harassed by guys and especially not her own grandparents just because of her style Ah, yeah, different generations can be hung up on stupid chit. Me and my mom go back and forth about some stuff that is normal to me and she thinks I'm from another planet. I'm glad she has you to stand up for her.
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well..off the cuff..have you spoken to your mother about said behavior? face to face? why do they act like that? it most surely isnt good for the niece...at all. well if you knew anything about me, then you would know I don't bite my tongue often
Yes...I have let them know (calmly and then not so calmly) about it. My "step dad" is a control freak and it has to be his way or nothing. My niece is living with them while she is in college right now. They go through her closets and drawers and has even followed her when she is going to a friend's house, because they have told her they don't trust her. I trust my niece more than I trust myself. She is the good girl of the family. My niece has low self esteem because they make her feel bad just because of her style of clothes. So ANYONE that thinks about saying (if something happened to her) that she deserved it because of her style....needs to think again |
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