What do you think of married people looking to fulfil the lost passion
in their lives on dating sites?

I think you need to find that in your marriage! If your marriage is that
bad then get a divorce and then come to a dating site and start looking!
I think you need to finish up the last relationship BEFORE you begin a
new one!!!

a recipe for disaster. I don't believe that you fix something by
looking outside of it.

not me, silly....I've met a lot of men on here that are married but they
say they have lost the passion in their lives over the years of
marriage.

The married ones need to use their imagination to put the passion back
into their lives.

If they can't do that, then they should separate.
Maybe then they may find that the grass isn't greener, and they have a
good thing already. If not then divorce
That is if the only problem with the marriage is lost passion.

Otherwise, get a divorce before going on a dating site.

I think they should refill the passion in their marriage...

instaed of being on a date site looking for more...

JMO (nobody bite my head off)

I agree with them, if the marriage is unfixable, then get a divorce.
While they are married they should be putting everything they have into
fixing it, not cruising dating sites for "a quick fix" for their needs.
If it is over, then get a divorce and move on, don't go sneaking around
behind her back, that just hurts everyone involved and can bring
diseases back home to the marriage too.

But this is what I get...."I love my wife and we've been married for 20
something years, our marriage is so routine and boring...there is no sex
anymore...she is not interested..bla, bla, bla"

I totally agree with you, Marie!

Take care of home first, baby. This is something you need to discuss
there. Unless you see no light at the end of the tunnel, might be time
for change of address.

The real question is this....is he really telling the truth? Is it
really a sexless marriage? Is he really bored with his life at home or
does he just want to have an affair?
If I had a dime for every man that said I live in a sexless marriage, I
would be rich! In all honesty~~I think they are looking to just have an
affair. I think that maybe they are thinking they can get away with
cheating and not getting caught. The problem is, I have a rule that I
don't date anyone and sleep with them before a time frame.
Besides...why throw yourself into a situation to where he is married??
If he cheats to go out with you....don't you think he can cheat ON
you???

I agree with everyone as well. You need to take care of the marriage,
then decide what is best to do.

if they are married, why are they on a dating site??

I have had several of those conversations with married men in the past -
they all get the same response from me whether they want it or not.
Figure things out at home...quit looking outside for that which can only
be fixed inside. If it can't be fixed or there is an unwillingness then
respect your partner enough to get out first.

Unfortunately they (men and women) just move on to another person ...
not everyone respects the nature of existing relationships so it is what
it is. Supply and demand I guess.

Sad to me

Yes, Unsure....you're right...and...I can't tell if he's just a very
lonely guy looking for a real relationship as he says...or if he's just
a player, cheater or whatever. Already I feel the stress of this.

Trailrider, if you were his wife....would you want him to stray with
another woman? Answer that and be totally honest!! He needs to fix
things at home first!!!

Scum, weak, a person without honor..



Finish up your old **** before you start any new.

A CHEATER OR CHEATER WANT TO BE???
IS STILL A CHEATER!!!!
Married and want male and female friends here is ok, but LOOKING IS
WRONG if THEY ARE MARRIED!!!
FOR "ANY" REASONS!!!!!!

Thats my thoughts!!!!

Nerd says, get a divorce then get a FWB if that's what you want.

Ok trailrider...lets say he is lonely! The truth is he still is married!
He is still thinking of cheating, am I right? I say drop his a$$
fast~~you won't regret it!!