Dang.....my ears are small, but I have a big but.....and I cannot lie....

<---- tries on muffs.... not sure how this whole thing is supposed to work.

I got lots of junk in my trunk.

Jill's going for the muff's....and I thought she was straight

Ooooooo.....let's Mingle....teehee!

wow you just killed my mood

joking...bad taste sorry

I'm traumatized.

wow, jill does have some big muff's !

Ya know I'm not going to read through 6 pages of bs to answer. First of all at 21 you have no idea what one my age has had to deal with. Nice guys are full of bs most that say they are nice guys could not poor piss out of a boot if the instructions were on the bottom of the boot................. Ya think I'm bs ing ya far from it. Wake up, grow a pair be a man. I can write the poetry it does not get you anywhere. Believe me I have bent over back wards and still it did not get me anywhere. All I can hope for is if it is there it is there and will happen.

No one wants someone that whines & moans about what they can not get, they want a go getter.......learn to be a man or forget getting what ya want............

Harsh yeah a bit but only the truth,,,,,,

Okay said my peace going back to my corner...........


My blanket better still be there.......

bottom line pay your bills and that makes you a man cause pus.. does not pay bills!

Hummm make that 55 views ya been perved again.....

OMG , your so far off what a man is you will never understand.........

Not trying to be rude but ya got a lot of living to do to find out what makes a real man..................

I don't know where you got the idea that that all women want to be swept off their feet with poems, flowers or a sense of humor. I am sure there may be a few that do but that sounds more like a school boy crush scenario than a man wanting a woman as a whole person and visa versa.

Sure it is nice if a pays atention and actually likes the woman in his life to other good or beautiful things in the world but if you get so mushy that is is getting sweet or wimpy, and dependent then a guy demotes himself to lapdog status.

Mature women, especially strong women, want a man that can stand on his own feet and might see them as and equal but not a protector or provider for a man.

A guy who whines about being demoted is even more weak. I don't know if it is so much wanting a guy who has some confidence as it is pride. Hard for a woman to be proud of a man if he doesn't demonstrate a little self respect and man up enough to look out for himself.

Ninety percent of the reason nice guys never or rarely get laid is they give up, beg, or allow women to use sex or the hope for sex for barter.

Guys who have enough balls to pass on a little over rated kitty cat and put their attentions where they are appreciated don't get turned into a doormat.

Okay okay. I never beg or whatever it is what it is as i said from the top and stuff is the same no matter what, it is no use! whatever hope you ladies find what u are after cause alls i know if i had a woman who i liked i would give her some

and daisies! BETTER BELIEVE IT!!!!!!!!!!!!

There is such a difference between being a nice guy,, and a patsy...

I don't think men that are my friends go under the label of nice guys I think they are more what I would call "Normal".

I think the "Nice Guy/ Nice Girl" has been done to death. How about a nice person?

i am nice, you noticed me i noticed you, so what we gonna do?

Ultimate win, Ashley.

Here's the whole damn thing in a nutshell even a " Nice Guy " can understand.

Women do not want a " nice guy ".

What women want is a good man.

A nice guy always bends over backward and bows down to her commands.

A good man will listen to what she wants and do those things, but he will not, under any circumstances, allow her to continually make all the decisions and walk all over him.

He has balls, and he knows tenderness and the finer points of when to use it. He will not try to " fix " all of her problems. He'll allow her to deal with some things all by herself.

Here's a pretty good example for you.

My last ex decided to hang some blinds in her living room. They were being taken down in another room to be brought out to the living room.

I was, of course, the one doing the hanging of said blinds.

Now, I am standing there, holding up one of the blinds with one hand, and trying to reach the hammer with another.

I ask her ( nicely ) to get the hammer for me. She did without a word. I realized that I needed more nails, but I didn't have an extra hand to grab them with. I asked her ( nicely ) to get them. She did without question.

BUT...about halfway through getting the first blind up, she suddenly couldn't decide whether or not she really wanted to put those blinds up in the living room.

For about 10 minutes, she is being a woman ( indecisive ) until I finally got fed up and told her ( not so nicely ) " Just go grab the other damn blind from the bedroom! "

The look on her face was priceless because, in her words, she had " never had someone " talk to her like that.

I simply told her that I had gotten tired of her not being able to make up her mind, so I figured I would help her out with the decision.

It's not about always being a nice guy. Sometimes, it's just about being a bit of a prick at just the right time.

You still have to let them know that, occasionally, you'll be the one to take charge. Some women will want a man who does that more often that some other women will. It'll be up to you to figure it out.

You will get more respect and a lot better results by doing that than you will by always playing the " nice guy " role.

nicely said and smoothly said, thanks!