Topic: y r nice guys invisable to women??
Jill298's photo
Mon 01/11/10 07:50 PM


Why can't guys just be nice and not a push over? Know when not to fight and know when to say no, damnit I'm standing up for myself!
And know when you just be quiet, drink your beer, eat your dinner, and give me all the sex I want. Seriously, it's not that difficult.


OMG....Marry me!laugh laugh
smitten smitten

CatsLoveMe's photo
Mon 01/11/10 07:51 PM
No more Mr. Nice Guy. I'm taking Dennis Leary's advice.laugh

upzaw2000's photo
Mon 01/11/10 07:52 PM
nah im just foolin, im a nice guy but have confidence. does enough good.

kirk443's photo
Mon 01/11/10 07:52 PM








Look, coming from a guy, it isn't about being a prick, or being nice. But it does take balls to actually just tell the girl you are interested. And so what if she isn't into you? HELLO!!! Their is a more deserving chick out their who will be so awesome, that the rejection you went through will long be forgotten. UGH! Seriously. If I can go out, have chicks hit on me, then anyone can, okay??? LOL!
very well said my friend ! drinker
that's is b.s. sorry. i know this really fat guy I mean fat who is married and told me the same scoop. Well explain why then i am not horrible looking actually kind of handsome and yet suffer and never get any ladies......


Ok...first of all...never doubt my wisdom. Second...my opinion, you lack confidence sir. A woman can smell it a mile away, and if she does, she aint gonna be intersted. And, you don't have to be a prick man. You just have to be confident in your ability. You do that...then yeah...you will score...haha!
Fellow I aint sorry I am who i am i am confident Yes indeed I am not trying to blow sunshine down anyone's as.. I am honest and real is real it is what it is and this is for the gal also
I have no idea what you just said.
figures
Kirk, I'm not tryin to pick on you. You asked the question and I answered.
I know what you're trying to say. You just aren't being very clear.
i will put it like this, i can be mean and bitter anyone can do that, it is not hard. I can be a good listener and just a plain nice guy but no matter how things really are in reality I am always getting the shaft and never any luck with girls..

chevylover1965's photo
Mon 01/11/10 07:53 PM

Why can't guys just be nice and not a push over? Know when not to fight and know when to say no, damnit I'm standing up for myself!
And know when you just be quiet, drink your beer, eat your dinner, and give me all the sex I want. Seriously, it's not that difficult.
i got hot dog's and mad dog ! love

upzaw2000's photo
Mon 01/11/10 07:53 PM









Look, coming from a guy, it isn't about being a prick, or being nice. But it does take balls to actually just tell the girl you are interested. And so what if she isn't into you? HELLO!!! Their is a more deserving chick out their who will be so awesome, that the rejection you went through will long be forgotten. UGH! Seriously. If I can go out, have chicks hit on me, then anyone can, okay??? LOL!
very well said my friend ! drinker
that's is b.s. sorry. i know this really fat guy I mean fat who is married and told me the same scoop. Well explain why then i am not horrible looking actually kind of handsome and yet suffer and never get any ladies......


Ok...first of all...never doubt my wisdom. Second...my opinion, you lack confidence sir. A woman can smell it a mile away, and if she does, she aint gonna be intersted. And, you don't have to be a prick man. You just have to be confident in your ability. You do that...then yeah...you will score...haha!
Fellow I aint sorry I am who i am i am confident Yes indeed I am not trying to blow sunshine down anyone's as.. I am honest and real is real it is what it is and this is for the gal also
I have no idea what you just said.
figures
Kirk, I'm not tryin to pick on you. You asked the question and I answered.
I know what you're trying to say. You just aren't being very clear.
i will put it like this, i can be mean and bitter anyone can do that, it is not hard. I can be a good listener and just a plain nice guy but no matter how things really are in reality I am always getting the shaft and never any luck with girls..


on a serious note.... counseling bro

Pnronne's photo
Mon 01/11/10 07:53 PM
Edited by Pnronne on Mon 01/11/10 07:55 PM

I am a nice guy as far as manners and respect...But i have never claimed to be a "Nice Guy" I will let people come up with their own conclusions, In fact there is a small county in South Dakota that, to this day, say i am not very nice at alll (evil laugh) devil

Jill298's photo
Mon 01/11/10 07:53 PM


Why can't guys just be nice and not a push over? Know when not to fight and know when to say no, damnit I'm standing up for myself!
And know when you just be quiet, drink your beer, eat your dinner, and give me all the sex I want. Seriously, it's not that difficult.


i think I love you....LOL just kidding...good point tho, Most guys that cry "nice guys finish last" just arent that good at being bad. they are bitter. OMG goof did we post that at the same time...LOL laugh
Women don't like to hear stories about how you continuously get screwed over.
There's nothing wrong with being nice. You don't need to be a d!ck. That won't get you anything good.
Pick your battles.

EliteChassis7's photo
Mon 01/11/10 07:54 PM
what doesn't make sense to me is this... i'm not a pushover... i treat everyone i know with the same respect that i would like to have. I am bullheaded with certain things, i'm confident because i have to be. my job makes me be confident in everything i do. I'm responsible... honestly it doesn't make sense to me... i have a lot of my lady friends dating complete douche bags and i sit back and am like... ****... i saw that coming from day 1! it's all a mess this love crap...

isaac_dede's photo
Mon 01/11/10 07:54 PM

Why can't guys just be nice and not a push over? Know when not to fight and know when to say no, damnit I'm standing up for myself!
And know when you just be quiet, drink your beer, eat your dinner, and give me all the sex I want. Seriously, it's not that difficult.

If I didn't already have a g/f i'd hit on you right about now:wink:

morgannicole's photo
Mon 01/11/10 07:54 PM
I would like to think that my boyfriend is a nice guy

kirk443's photo
Mon 01/11/10 07:55 PM










Look, coming from a guy, it isn't about being a prick, or being nice. But it does take balls to actually just tell the girl you are interested. And so what if she isn't into you? HELLO!!! Their is a more deserving chick out their who will be so awesome, that the rejection you went through will long be forgotten. UGH! Seriously. If I can go out, have chicks hit on me, then anyone can, okay??? LOL!
very well said my friend ! drinker
that's is b.s. sorry. i know this really fat guy I mean fat who is married and told me the same scoop. Well explain why then i am not horrible looking actually kind of handsome and yet suffer and never get any ladies......


Ok...first of all...never doubt my wisdom. Second...my opinion, you lack confidence sir. A woman can smell it a mile away, and if she does, she aint gonna be intersted. And, you don't have to be a prick man. You just have to be confident in your ability. You do that...then yeah...you will score...haha!
Fellow I aint sorry I am who i am i am confident Yes indeed I am not trying to blow sunshine down anyone's as.. I am honest and real is real it is what it is and this is for the gal also
I have no idea what you just said.
figures
Kirk, I'm not tryin to pick on you. You asked the question and I answered.
I know what you're trying to say. You just aren't being very clear.
i will put it like this, i can be mean and bitter anyone can do that, it is not hard. I can be a good listener and just a plain nice guy but no matter how things really are in reality I am always getting the shaft and never any luck with girls..


on a serious note.... counseling bro
kiss my ***

upzaw2000's photo
Mon 01/11/10 07:55 PM



I am a nice guy as far as manners and respect...But i have never claimed to be a "Nice Guy" I will let people come up with their own conclusions


ya same here... most assume for long periods of time that i am, and then next thing you know someone gets in my face or test my limits. Then i am just a good guy that kep his emotions under wraps lol

Goofball73's photo
Mon 01/11/10 07:55 PM
This just in......

Another nice guy just got overlooked.....film at 11!laugh laugh

upzaw2000's photo
Mon 01/11/10 07:55 PM











Look, coming from a guy, it isn't about being a prick, or being nice. But it does take balls to actually just tell the girl you are interested. And so what if she isn't into you? HELLO!!! Their is a more deserving chick out their who will be so awesome, that the rejection you went through will long be forgotten. UGH! Seriously. If I can go out, have chicks hit on me, then anyone can, okay??? LOL!
very well said my friend ! drinker
that's is b.s. sorry. i know this really fat guy I mean fat who is married and told me the same scoop. Well explain why then i am not horrible looking actually kind of handsome and yet suffer and never get any ladies......


Ok...first of all...never doubt my wisdom. Second...my opinion, you lack confidence sir. A woman can smell it a mile away, and if she does, she aint gonna be intersted. And, you don't have to be a prick man. You just have to be confident in your ability. You do that...then yeah...you will score...haha!
Fellow I aint sorry I am who i am i am confident Yes indeed I am not trying to blow sunshine down anyone's as.. I am honest and real is real it is what it is and this is for the gal also
I have no idea what you just said.
figures
Kirk, I'm not tryin to pick on you. You asked the question and I answered.
I know what you're trying to say. You just aren't being very clear.
i will put it like this, i can be mean and bitter anyone can do that, it is not hard. I can be a good listener and just a plain nice guy but no matter how things really are in reality I am always getting the shaft and never any luck with girls..


on a serious note.... counseling bro
kiss my ***

i should of said, with all due respect... but ya

Pnronne's photo
Mon 01/11/10 07:56 PM



Why can't guys just be nice and not a push over? Know when not to fight and know when to say no, damnit I'm standing up for myself!
And know when you just be quiet, drink your beer, eat your dinner, and give me all the sex I want. Seriously, it's not that difficult.


i think I love you....LOL just kidding...good point tho, Most guys that cry "nice guys finish last" just arent that good at being bad. they are bitter. OMG goof did we post that at the same time...LOL laugh
Women don't like to hear stories about how you continuously get screwed over.
There's nothing wrong with being nice. You don't need to be a d!ck. That won't get you anything good.
Pick your battles.


Towards me....BECAUSE I WILL BATTLE!!!!!!!!

brenlee1965's photo
Mon 01/11/10 07:58 PM

what is it about a nice guys that drive women into making them be just friends? girls always say they want to meet some one that just sweeps them off there feet with poems and flowers or with there sense of humor... they say that but when it happens they change there mind about it, y is that?? r they afraid to let that guy get close to them? r they afraid that if they enter a relationship with that person they might scare them off?? i have heard girls say "awe ur a nice guy, but i want to b just friends." and not even 10 minutes later that same girl says she wishes she could meet a nice guy... did i miss something?


I think that "nice guy" to a girl is very different than what a man considers "nice guy" and sometimes I have heard from other women that "nice guy" to them screams B-O-R-I-N-G....I cannot speak for ALL women; but every woman wants a man that is the "protector" not the "pocket protector" .....get it? See what I mean?

bswiss's photo
Mon 01/11/10 07:58 PM
nice is just NOT sexy - thats ityawn

FearandLoathing's photo
Mon 01/11/10 07:58 PM
A nice guy will lose the race because in the middle he'll start bitching at the ref that the other guy is cheating...

kirk443's photo
Mon 01/11/10 07:59 PM

nice is just NOT sexy - thats ityawn
so what do girls want guys that will choke them and hit them?